Follow Up: ✨️ Would You Consider Them A Turn Off Or Deal-Breaker In A Relationship?Author's Note: 👑 "I'm asking because yesterday I got a dm from a guy who made it a point to ask me if I had stretch marks on mine after looking at my profile picture. He reassured me that it's a positive thing not a negative thing but honestly I feel insecure about them now. I know celebrities like Kylie Jenner has stretch marks on hers but she usually hides them in her pictures.So I guess I'm wondering what guys and girls truly think about stretch marks on b👀bs and should we make an effort to cover them up with makeup".🌻Honest Answers Please... 💛
Are Stretch Marks On B👀bs Considered Unattractive?
Things happen as you get older and have children. Stretch marks are one of those. I prefer to be with an intelligent woman and a few body flaws then one with no common sense. Women are like a sports car that everyone wants. When they are new and everything lines up perfectly with straight, smooth, snug fitting lines Everyone wants one! But there is always that rare classic with a few little bumps and nicks that will get you there and back home that sometimes goes unnoticed by many.. But is a joy to drive and fits like a glove! One that you would never part with.
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Thank you for explaining your answer! Great feedback
I honestly wouldn't have noticed them in those pictures without you mentioning them... And given that I enjoy doing things with girls that can leave marks more visible then that I *really* don't care about them... Nor do I think most guys care. Of course "most" doesn't equate to *all*. But honestly I don't think that you should hide them. They're a part of you and nothing to be ashamed of.
Also, remember that you get better at the things that you train up your brain to do, just like with muscles. So if you train up your brain at looking for flaws in yourself you'll get *really* good at that. To the point of seeing flaws that's just not there, in the same way that we sometimes see faces that's not there in for instance houses with windows that looks like eyes, mouth etc.
Also, remember that others are generally too busy worrying about their own problems to care about or even notice yours.
They're not going to notice the stretch marks that stands out like a sore thumv to *you* because they'll be worrying about themselves and if *they* look good enough, has big enough muscles etc, if *they* come across right with their pickup line, about that other guy over there that might get to you first, etc...
I enjoyed reading every part of your answer. Especially when you mentioned that people are generally more worried about their own insecurities to notice anyone else's. That was very reassuring because I've never thought about it that way before.
Also you mentioned that we can train our brains to look for flaws and I think that's absolutely what I've done. I focus on any miniscule imperfection and it ruins my whole day.
Very insightful feedback. Such a great post. Thank you for taking the time to explain your answer for me. I really appreciate it!
Nope. I remember being very insecure about my stretch marks on my butt when I was younger and being made to understand that from the male perspective they do not care about those things. Even my stomach stretch marks from childbirth, I always loved them as a symbol of the sacrifice I made for these little ones. And my twin flame loves them too
I have stretch marks on mine as well as other places, I don’t think people really care about them.
If someone would reject you because of stretch marks they are CERTAINLY not the right person and very shallow haha, almost every woman has stretch marks somewhere
If you hadn't asked the question, I wouldn't have had an opinion either way. I've been with women who have stretch marks on their breasts. To me, they don't detract from the appearance (or fun). It seems like all of us have idealized views of how we'd like to look. Fortunately, are our partners that critical.
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This is such a great answer! Thank you so much for the detailed feedback. Very helpful and reassuring
No for me that's nothing to be worried about as woman. I couldn't care less about it to be honest. Nobody is perfect so if you find somebody attractive, you will have to comprise anyway on certain things you may find less attractive. So for me it's nothing to be concerned about
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I enjoyed reading your thoughts on this topic.
Thank you for taking the time to explain your answer.
Its natural and happens to both men and women. Its not at all a turn off if a woman has them on her body. Seems men want a girl with big boobs and a huge ass but dont want any stretch marks, thats not really possible if its natural, she's going to have stretch marks. They dont even always form on people who are extremely overweight, they can be on people who are really skinny. I have some and I would never shame anyone for having them as well because I know how tough it can be to accept them.
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AMAZING feedback! I really enjoyed reading your thoughts on this topic. Such a great answer
It's just one on lifes things. Nothing to be concerned about. Most guys would be too interested in playing with your boobs to even notice. My wife has big boobs and to be honest, I can't tell you if she has stretch marks on them and I have been playing with them for 30 years.
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Thank you for explaining your answer! I appreciate your help
Nothing wrong with stretch marks, wherever they are on the body. The majority of the people have them. I have them myself, so it would be hypocrite if I would have a problem with someone else's stretch marks.
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This such awesome feedback! Thank you for explaining your answer
girls think stretch marks are unattractive, for some men it might be but most men dont mind it as for me, i like anything natural in the woman’s body so instead of looking at them in a negative way, i look at them as a nice add to the body🤷🏼♂️
Stretch marks on breasts are certainly not all an issue with me. And on top they don't change the nice feeling of touching and playing with them boobs ;0)
Thank you girl. About those stretch marks, I'd like to add that sometimes they even have something lovely erotic, especially on the big saggy breasts of a lady with experience of life.
Stretch marks happen to both genders, it’s part of life. Anyone who sees them and cares about the stretch marks enough to say something mean shouldn’t get to see them anymore, it’s that simple.
It's a sign of life. From a growth spurt as a teen to giving birth, it doesn't matter what caused them, it shows that something changed in your life and should be thought of as a mark of that.
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What a beautiful comment! Absolutely adored your answer. 💜
If a man can’t appreciate some titties and ass because of stretch marks, is he really a MAN? To answer your question no stretch marks are not unattractive, and probably the last thing I’m thinking about.
I have never thought of stretch marks as a turn-off... hmmmm Womens bodies are fantastic, they way they adapt to whatever is required to "get it done" (childbirth) Stretch marks are a sign of a Warrior...
Its not a turn-off at all for me coz stretch marks is a natural thing and nobody has a control on it , so my love for my future girlfriend would same even if she has stretch marks that too anywhere on body 🙂
It is an issue usually with gals who are largely endowed. but I do not find stretch marks unattractive. I can't with wanting find a gal to have a number of kids with.
Thanks. I'm just being honest because for me, anything else just takes too much work and energy.
I would let her bring up the subject first as I don't want her to think that I'm focusing on them (the stretch marks) when for me, it's a non issue. I've thought this way prior to 2019 (double bypass) for both the asking and the stretch marks.
Though, I'm a little surprised at your "oh wow" in regards to me. I say this only because you've seen my answers before.
by the way, how are you doing on this fine day Ms. Secret? I hope the fires aren't close to where you're at.
That's good that the air quality has gotten better where you live. I actually had a flash back to the fires in late December (Marshal fire) and could feel myself getting anxious. Thankfully where I am living survived.
I spent a few hours helping out a friend to get my body moving and "out in nature" as to help me get out of my "funk."
I have always believed "if you're wanting to change your s/o for ANY reason, you shouldn't be dating them." This is probably part of the reason why I haven't dated. I'm fine with it. If a gal can't accept that, then I'm going "next." Life is too short to go in with doubts / unhappiness / looking for BBD (Bigger Better Deal... and I'm not referring to breast size here).
I completely agree. I think I saw a question or mytake on here about unconditional love. To which I agreed, since most things are transactional in nature. I’ll go so far as to say even when parents say they love you unconditionally, it’ll still (sometimes) come with stipulations.
For me, unconditional love means you love a person NO MATTER WHAT. Meaning that you listen to them and don’t give your answer / opinion unless they ask for it. To me, this means you’re fine with their choice even if it doesn’t agree with yours.
