Do you take into consideration how heel/shoe platforms affect height difference with a partner?

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I never thought much about it but I am like 5’2 and occasionally wear 3-6 inch heels/platform shoes on occasion. Not sure if that makes much of a difference when my minimum height preference is 5’7 and the max is 6’2. #FeelFreeToList #HeelsAndHeight

HighValue · Accepted Answer

No, but I generally don't like them to wear heels. I prefer someone that is more into athletic clothes instead of the dressy type. Even if she was 5' I still wouldn't like her wearing heels. It isn't the height (I'm 6' 1/2" tall), it is the look, style, and that they can't do much in them. Plus isn't it painful for her feet if she wears them for hours?

Кураж · Accepted Answer

I've had a few 5'9" ladies go like "but my stilettos are 4 inches so I'm into guys who are ideally 6'2"+..." but my charms have always won in the end.

In fact, I think everyone I've dated was taller than me in heels.
I can't help it, I like taller women and my own height isn't gonna stop me lol.

Lliam · Answer

I have to say that I despise platforms that are more than in inch or so. They look like Frankenstein boots. And what is the point? But women do look lovely in heels, although I don't care for anything over 5".

Heels make women's calves look lovely and walking with her toes pointed changes the way she walks. It makes women strut like little bad asses. There's more sashay.

My shortest girlfriend was 5'2". She ALWAYS wore heels unless she was exercising. She said she thought her legs looked funny without them. That was untrue because she had the most adorable legs. But she could wear heels all day long. She even wore 3" wedges one weekend when we walked all over San Francisco up and down hills.

Heels made it fun to fuck her from behind while standing. But she didn't wear heels during any other sex. I don't have a shoe fetish. And she had small, perfect feet.

My wife is 5'5" and never wears heels. That's fine. She does wear cute shoes.

Since I'm 6'2" and have kind of a preference for short girls, few women are going to be taller than me, even in heels. I do find heels on women attractive because they accentuate their femininity. Then again, women's legs are adorable even when they're barefoot or wearing joggers.

God_of_Thunder · Answer

I've honestly never given it much thought, or even paid attention.

I'm 6'4", so heels, or no heels, most women are still shorter than me, regardless. Maybe it's because of my height, but I never really notice a couple inches of difference.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

This seems like an excuse for women to not want to date a guy at a certain height. How often are you going to be wearing heels? Like seriously you can't put up with the height difference for a couple hours? Seems dumb to potentially not date someone because a few times of the year you'll be 2 inches taller than him. LoL

Kaytiee · Answer

No. I wouldn't date a guy who feels insecure that his girlfriend is taller then him while wearing heels. It's attractive if a guy doesn't care because he's confident in himself, and is happy his girlfriend is too. Some girls are too afraid to be seen as taller than their partner.

MCheetah · Answer

Women have various ways to cheat that men simply don't have. From heels, makeup, pushup bras, corsets, bustiers, etc. With my short-ass most women are around my height in a pair of five-heels, anyway.

In fact, I met a friend today who insists she's only 5'9.5", but wears heeled boots anyway and made her almost dead-even to my height; maybe half an inch difference at most. Still insisted she's only 5'9.5" (as in, she doesn't count the boot heels).

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Answer

I hate heels. The closest I'll get to it is a wedge. But I do loooove platforms. Most of the shoes and sneakers I wear are platform. Platform chucks, Vans, boots, sandals etc. It's to the point where my feet aren't comfortable in anything else lol. I'm 5'5ish and the tallest any of my shoes make me is 5'8. I don't really have height requirements but most people I've dealt with have been like 5'7-6'0 range so.

Guy13 · Answer

That’s nice…To a six foot guy it doesn’t matter. If it makes it easier to hug your 🚼,  🙌. Wrapping hands around waist is so overrated  I’m sure all guys would luvvvv your heels

ElvenMr · Answer

I'm around 6'1 and most girls are still around my heigh even if they are wearing high heels. I came across a few girls who were a bit taller then me, and i was amazed lol, i might have a thing for them, i dunno.. 🤣
But i never really pay attention to their shoes tbh 😆

Anonymous · Answer

No, I never have. I've not been in a lot of relationships either, though. If I had a short guy who didn't like me wearing heels, I'd probably begrudgingly not wear them around him. If I had a fall guy who preferred I didn't wear heels, I may or may not tell him to suck it up and let me wear the shoes I want.

NathanDavis · Answer

I will notice it yes... but I don't really mind it

if I were with a girl that is 6ft tall and also likes to wear heels and ends up looking taller than me, I would not mind it... as it would not make me insecure at all

LovingLoverReturned · Answer

Yes :D... I don't mind being a little bit taller.. but I don't want him to look like my child :/

xJayleenx · Answer

I am 5’1 and my boyfriend is 6’1 so with heels on the most I’d be is up to his shoulders lol. But I can’t wear heels because due to me having flat feet it’s very painful for me. I bought some new black platforms though that should be way more comfortable im excited and wearing them tomorrow

Cherry234 · Answer

I have thought about it. I don't really care if I'm a little bit taller than a man in heels (like an inch or two) but I wouldn't want to be 5 or 6 inches taller than him.

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

I am already 156cm in height. If she wears those heels and other platforms, I will be a baby in front of her.🤣🤣🤣 But I don't get it why women wear it.

TrueConfection · Answer

Yes, I do. I have shrink an inch and now there is no way I can be the same height as my husband, however certain heel heights can make for a fun evening.

Hulk30 · Answer

well im short myself at 5'9 and actually prefer short women sexually generally because of their confidence although i dont mind bein with tall women if we we're ever a thing ya can just turn into k. p. and envyi on a brother and just say shorty swing my way

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. Because I'm not hung up on height. Also 1. I'm 6'5" and 2. I don't typically run into tall women trying to look even taller. It's been my experience that most tall women have a complex about their height which is why I tend to like shorter women. I don't want to deal with their hangups.

Gochogirl · Answer

I don't get girls who care about height so I don't care if my heels make me taller than my boyfriend or my girlfriend. I don't wear them often anyway.

nawtee_me · Answer

Since I have no height requirement I have not thought about it. But I didn't know they came in tennis shoes too

Hans222 · Answer

I notice that a girl looks slightly larger with heels but for me it doesn't make a difference. I tend to like small girls 😀

Lucy68 · Answer

I am still small whenever I wear my heels or platforms. I'm 5'1 by the way

Pink2000 · Answer

At 5’0 feet no heel is gonna make me taller than the person I’m dating. I refuse to go over a 3 inch heel. 😂

Birdlegs · Answer

Nah she could be 6’5 in heels and I’m still gonna shoot my shot

one1wild00 · Answer

I'm 5'9" and It doesn't bother me if the gal is shorter, same height, or taller than I am. all heights have pluses and minuses having the gal taller does have its benefits for those of us that are breast n nipple men.

sassyredhead · Answer

5 10 and love heels. Guys normally don't care. I love heels so if he wasn't a fan of my height I would date someone else.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

No. My boyfriend isn't insecure about being shorter than a woman.

ariadneR · Answer

I'd have to wear stripper heels to be the same height as my partner. He's a good foot taller than me.

Chiarac2003 · Answer

I like a 3” heel makes me feel uncomfortable an confident. I’m most comfortable walking in 3”

Prettygurl12 · Answer

Meh. I'm 5'4. My husband is 6'5. I can wear whatever I want lol

JadeSkywlker04 · Answer

That is an interesting thing to take into consideration

kinggeorge007 · Answer

if the heel is less than 4 inches, it doesn't matter. But if it is more than that, sure it does matter.

Anpu23 · Answer

Not really. I've dated women taller then me (6') and she loved heels.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

That particular question had never once crossed my mind. But I don't date girls who wear those types of shoes.

Cubus · Answer

I am single. But I believe it wouldn't be that much of an issue. I am 5'11 so not very short.

SignedAutographs · Answer

I prefer a girl to be shorter than me, without heels on, and taller than me, with them on Weird kink I have

Pudsmucker · Answer

A good shoe can make you equal to your partner as great dancers.

EaterPeter · Answer

As? I don't want them to me wearing more than inch and a half.

TheAfrikan · Answer

Am all good with it if a already know her actual height before she puts on high heels like Lady Gaga

Anonymous · Answer

No, it is dumb to be concerned about how tall you are compared to your partner in heels.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I don't care much about height tbh. 🤷🏻

Aquariusmystery · Answer

No because I’m only 5ft4

Nahid1707 · Answer

Yes because some girls are careful with that

Amur8711 · Answer

I have, it was for senior prom

ALewis30 · Answer

Yeah.

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