Women are cunts when it comes to the treatment of their fellow women.
I recall , some years ago, I was only one of two males on a team project that lasted for about three years. It gave me the chance to observe up close how women interact with each other ; lots of catiness and lots of gossip. When a new , younger , amply breasted woman came on board there was a lot of jealousy and taking jabs at the poor girl ; they would ignore her , treat her in a very curt fashion, and just talk shit about her behind her back. It was really unprofessional and even sad that these full grown, professional women felt so threatened by her. She seemed nice enough and I was always nice to her. I felt bad for her. Strange thing is that the leader of this little ring of women that had it in for her is a self-professed Christian who calls her self saved and tends to have a holier-than-thou attitude.
This is just one of the many reasons I don't buy into those Victorian ideals (which have been revived as of late thanks to the #metoo movement) about how all men are bad and women are delicate saints. I have seen , firsthand , how women also have the capacity to be shitty humans beings.
#metoo has nothing to do with Victorian ideals. It's a movement about women (and men, though not so advertised) who have been raped no longer being in silence or shame, and, not necessarily, confronting or pressing charges against their rapists.
That said, no gender has a monopoly on being, to quote you, shitty human beings.
Clearly women. Women will rate a man negatively (almost all the time), but will rate a woman negatively while *pretending* to be positive. Just look at the entire "body positivity" movement. It only exists to elevate heavyset and obese women, while also sh*tting on thin/skinny/attractive/fit women for existing.
Oh I thought it was judging, but even rating can become judging because many girls doubt other girls and themselves qualify for certain guys. Rating can’t be harsh unless it’s judging. If it’s strictly rating, then it would be with 0 attachment to emotion or scrutiny, I believe. Like rating a new flavor of chips- no harshness, just a simple, honest rating on quality. Guys rate more on quality because they have to engage with women. Women rate more harshly and judgmentally because they don’t believe they qualify in all their assets.
women rate- qualifications (= harsh)
men rate- quality (= neutral)
Men objectify the opposite sex more, and compartmentalize their interest in certain body parts and features, but they are way less critical, really, about women's looks. They accept more than girls, and more types, than girls think they do.
The issue, of course, is that they also get distracted and drawn to whatever is new around the corner, so it may seem to females like they are not enough, because now he's onto some other girl with some other features. But that's really about novelty, not judging harshly.
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I really don't have a clue I've seen women I've heard women do that two other women I heard I've seen men do it to women my thing is is why do they have to say it out loud if they haven't been in about somebody why don't they just keep it to themselves whether is positive or negative a woman could have on the cardboard box and I'm going to find something beautiful about her no matter what because there is always something beautiful about a woman is that simple why be negative why put somebody down why makes somebody feel something did they didn't ask 4
Women. And because (normal) women aren't sexually attracted to other women it means they can never really rate other women from a male POV. It's like expecting a vegetarian to write reviews on steak dinners they never had and actually are repulsed by.
Women. They compete with each other and are FEROCIOUS about it!!
You're at a party and some guy walks in wearing the same shirt you've got on. "Hey! Look at this!! We've both got the same shirt on! Cool!! Let's go get a beer!"
Same party, some woman walks in wearing the exact same dress as another woman. Fur flies, they throw barbs and insults at each other and one stomps off to find something else to wear!
women tend to judge other women more harshly then men do. much of that is due to girls growing up in a beauty pageant world. so they believe only the most attractive ones can get dates and find love. but in reality many guys would rather date an average looking girls with good personality and attitude.
hens why you see guys who are attractive or well off date average girls. but this can backfire if the girls end up with an inflated ego or sense of entitlement. because then they start to think they should only date those types of guys. which causes many of them to end up alone or as single mothers later in life.
I would say a woman rates another woman's looks lower most of the time. At the same time, if a woman views you as competition, I would says she's more likely to be dishonest and inflate those numbers. There's many women who are a part of the fake "body positivity" movement, most of them don't actually care about you, they just want other women to remain unattractive because it benefits them.
I agree. I did notice women rate beautiful women lower than men do.
Envy is also a part of it.
Plus being straight (not being attracted to women sexually) is a reason why they are not fascinated by the beauty of beautiful women.
That body positivity is fake.
We all know which bodies get the most likes on social media
Men have to compete with other men for female attention. Therefore, they will tend to try to impress a woman (by rating her higher than she deserves) to out compete their peers
Women have to compete with other women for male attention. Therefore they will tend to under-rate a woman to knock down the competition.
I think that it is honesty both. Women are not as harsh on looks but they are MUCH more harsh on many other things.
There are men though that find a woman whose good looking (at least with a lot of makeup) but has no personality is a nasty person. Who uses him and... Welp
Why are some people on this site so obsessed with looks and rating others? I've never heard anyone in real life conversations before rating others, they might make a quick remark that this person is pretty, beautiful or not their type, average and that's all. They don't go outside and say "oh here is a 5.6, this a 7.2, a 6.8 etc. 😂
Men all you need is a cute face and nice ass. Women judge other women more then men judge women. Mainly do to mating and competition. It’s a subconscious thing all primates have in clouding humans
I think we are conditioned as a whole to be extremely judgmental about a woman's appearance. There was a study that showed that both men and women view women as a collection of body parts. We see men as the whole package and women as the sum of their parts. Instead on focusing on who does it more, I think we should be more critical on why we do it to begin with and which industries benefit from it.
Good question! I think it depends. If a woman had a great body and a less than perfect face, women will judge her more harshly and men will still love her. BUT, from what I've seen, if a woman has a decent face and a train-wreck of a body, men will be harsher and women will heap a lot of non-sense praise on her and how "beautiful" she is.
Amd what if she has both?
@Marianna546 If she has both, then women will likely judge more harshly. But not as noticeably as if her face has any flaws.
Yeah--I don't think it's down to feminism. I think it's much more down to competitive instincts. A woman with a train-wreck body isn't getting all the guys hot and bothered for her. She isn't a threat to other women. But a woman with a smoking body is. So she needs to be taken down a peg or two.
Women... Most definitely... Men can be harsh too but that's "too", but for the most part you'll always find a man who thinks you look nice enough to date if you try.. I've defended women from other women more than a few times..
Other woman most definitely, i once sat behind a table at a starbucks with 6 woman that constantly gossiped as new customers came into the store, the sheer number of horrific statements i heard made it hard for me not to want to vomit.
Lol, I love these results. Women rating that men judge them more than women, and then the men trying to explain to women who they are “actually” judged by and why they are being judged… whilst openly judging them.
Which gender rates women’s looks more harshly…. If you are rating someone, you are comparing them against others and therefore, get this, judging them.
Also, good deflection attempt 😋
1) Do you understand that by rating someone, you are judging that person? You can change the wording all you like, it makes no difference as to what they are actually doing.
2) I didn’t jump to conclusions. I made an observation on what I saw in the answers of this question. If you don’t like my observation, shut up and move on.
3) You call me making an observation as being a feminist, and say it’s annoying, and yet your only rebuttal to that observation is “nuh-uh?”
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Don't bother. She's an insecure angry cunt apparently, and you struck a nerve with this question. So instead of being rational, she's just here to whine and bitch, while also pretending to find it humorous through all the menstrual rage. Don't worry; men are used to this ALL the time!
And you're right; you can rate someone's looks without thinking of them as being bad as human beings. It's also not an observation if she's adding opinion and critique to it. ... Or just getting sh*t wrong. So angry and stupid... Yup, a feminist alright!
Woman not only rate harshly they rate wrongly. What is attractive to a straight woman isn't necessarily attractive to a straight male.
So 99.99% of us are not 10/10 in looks department, and those who are 10/10 in looks may not really be a 10 in relationship depart. So looks is like #3 on the list after availability and personality.
I think we (women) are more critical of each other.
Women are much more harsh when it comes to rating attractiveness not just for women but for men too, women judge each other on hair outfits nails weight butt size boob size purses lol
Women hands down. They do the majority of the body shaming.
Women when talking about themself
Otherwise men if they are being objective and not trying to jump into her pants
Women. It's not just a matter of tastes, but also competition.
Women are very competitive with each other.
Women. Why else do you need makeup, fake nails, fake eyelashes, Botox, surgery, hair extensions , bleach, colored eye contacts?
Well I do not really use all that🤣
Thankssss
women obviously. women aren't attracted to 80% of men. with men it's like they are only not attracted to 50% of women.
XD you mean "according to people who actually have reasonable opinions"? :D
yeah. it's toxic positivity. they live in some sort of parralel univers where everyone who calls a woman ugly is a misogynistic asshole but you can shit on a mans looks all you want.
well happy to learn that there's still some reasonable women left xD allthough to be fair my view on women is probably skewed by media that just overexposes the morons and ignores normal people.
yeah. the sad part is that i always see this shit happening in American culture and i already know that my country will just copy that same shit half a year later... it's almost like you can see your dark future without being able to do anything about it. like even my countries government copy all the bullshit ideas they have.
yeah or the blm shit. like why are you on the streets you stupid goose? this shit happened in another culture and has nothing to do with us at all.
like if you go protest something, protest shit that is relevant in your country, in your culture and in the circle of people that have a say in your life.
yup. it's scary. violence is now "ok", if it's commited in the name of social justice.
Men are ways ways harsher (at least American men are ways harsher).
Women, for sure, but gay men appear to be a close second. Ell oh ell!
It depends if they like how she looks and if they like her.
dunno. did you do a research on google scholar for instance?
I think men have a more toxic rating but women are every harsh
Women. Either they are brutally honest or mad jealous. There’s no in between lmao.
and we actually find it funny and pathetic at the same time.
Women can he such BI-ATCHES with each other! ROWRRR!
To me it's Women that talk shit all the time that I hear.
God Bless
Women are more harsher than guys in looks.
Ofc Women is not even close
Women in my opinion.
Women for sure.
Its women all the time lmaoooooo
I think women are harsher on other women.
I say women.
Id say women.
Boys.
Women
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