Do you think any average person can be decently attractive with right effort?

[Anonymous]

Like if he/she follows proper skin routine and stuff to get a flawless face and works hard to be in shape and have an awsome body?
Basically puts in effort to achieve things that are attractive?

[molonski2]

Agree entirely , lets take some women as an example , just because they are the " correct weight " people say " Ohh she's hot " and all this other bullshit , yet you know she ordinary , the most important thing is to be the correct weight , and I mean correct , from there take pride , present yourself well , think about what you are wearing , make sure your skin care is great , that you are putting in an effort..

Its not that difficult , I've always had stunning looking girlfriends , do the work , make sure diet is perfect , its called personal responsibility , never let yourself go.

[Asker]

Well said
I needed to hear that
The personal responsibility part is something I started taking serious recently.. just 1 month in and there are serious changes..!

Like started drinking 1 gallon of water a day and proper skin care ( face wash, moisturizer, Vitamin C etc etc) .. and my skin really cleaned up well.. still would take time for perfection..

[molonski2]

Perfect mate , like just an example , albeit Im old right BUT , many dudes my age are just beer drinking slobs , bellies , rude , crass , I turn up , Im correct weight 32 in waste , 67 Kg , always make sure my clothes are nice , scrub my face with medicated soap , make sure my teeth are great , and I've worked out and swam , basically everyday , seriously despite the negative of my age , where do they come? I've always had multitudes of options , because my attitude is different..
Because , I put in that effort people are attracted to me , but its always been like that , so there is no doubt what you say is correct..
BUT , the great thing is ( no matter what they say ) most won't , its also nice to respectfully say no to a girl who is much younger than you. Keep up the great work and enhance it as you go , walk in with your head up , and never accept second best...

[Asker]

That's inspirational!

[molonski2]

If I could TICK you answer I would ! Go hard bro , you are looking great.

[Asker]

Thank you mate thank you for making my day!

[Anonymous]

Almost anyone can have a hot body...
Just go to the gym and workout and eat enough or eat less if you're on that side of things.

You can make your face look better too. It's not the same as the body but you can make it look good enough and if you pair that with the body you can be hot. Anyone can be hot. Anyone. Because anyone can have a hot body. And you owe it to yourself to do that for yourself at least once in your life.

Tone of voice and clothes help too. Tone of voice touches on the other sense called hearing.

[Asker]

Can you enlighten me about improving tone of voice

[Opinion Owner]

First, we have to understand what attraction is. We're talking about sexual attraction. And so we are talking about the sex emotion. Being attractive by sight arouses the sex emotion in others; perhaps the love emotion too. Said in another way, we are influencing the subconscious mind of another with our looks. We are affecting them on an emotional level. And so it is the same thing with the voice. We want to affect the emotions of a person.

The subconscious mind speaks the language of emotion. It speaks in emotion. So the best way to influence it by voice is to use emotion in your voice. People find monotone voices boring. I'm sure you've heard that. Well this is why.

Also the words you choose play a part. Some words are concrete and others are abstract. The more concrete the more easier it is to get emotionally involved with it. Pitch, loudness, softness, choice of words, timbre, balance of resonance, the emotion in back of the sound all play a part. The most important part is to speak with emotion because the aim is to influence or arouse emotions within the other person.

This is what movies do and it's why everyone loves them. They arouse the emotions. All the best things of life do this. The more you can arouse the positive emotions in someone the more they will want to be around you. The more you arouse the negative emotions in someone the more they will want to stay away from you. However, sometimes the negative emotions wake us up when we're taking the good for granted; which is why practiced gratitude is marvelous.

[Asker]

Woww thanks
Is there a way you can achieve that?

[Opinion Owner]

Practice. Like anything else. Actors, singers, voice actors do it very well. Voice actors have basically mastered it. You're probably not trying to master it but practicing displaying emotion through the voice will definitely help. I find that when you're faking something it looks that way on camera. The best actors are not faking. They truly feel what they are saying. Perhaps the bigger lesson is in influencing your own subconscious.

[CrimsonAngel09]

So... the model woman from California and Florida.

[rachel776]

YES! i tell people this all the time

[inhua]

that depends on who you think of as average

when Jonah Hill lost weight and made himself as attractive as possible, he still wasn't attractive

[Christoff92]

Yeh. Guarantee that person would be attractive to other people. Minus the haters and snobs.

[AaronKrieger]

If you put effort into your looks, hygiene, and charisma, then you're solid. It doesn't need to be perfect either.

[dreamstar72]

Yes, but it would not be so with themself. Funny a lot of people always find a fault with how they look.

[2willi]

decently attractive yes, especially with the right type of personality. Pure looks can only get you so far

[Anonymous]

I definitely think so

[provokeesmokee]

Yes.

[Wonderingguyy]

Yeah for sure