Why do people only spend time with those that are attractive 7, 8, 9/10?

[Anonymous]

[itsclearlynicholas]

Well my friends still hang with me and I'm like... insert number.
Thankfully I have no qualms about such things
Let them folks hang with their own kind and I'll hang with my friends or just enjoy me myself I.
Lol.
Let those insecurities and concerns "wash away* to quote Patrick B. Aka Bateman lol aka batman lol 😆 🏓🦇🦇

[Avicenna]

That's not a realistic description of how the real world works.

[Asker]

Trust me, what the youth are pushing for & clearly impacting people like me.

[NotTacocaT6969]

only shallow people maybe.


The biggest crushes I’ve had in my life were on guys who the other girls called ugly.


But to me they were not ugly at all.

[Asker]

Guys like me the 4, 5 the 6 that shouldn't have chance most of female population.

[NotTacocaT6969]

My husband is a 5 at best.

But his looks are not what matters.

[Asker]

I only ever met women who have that as most important otherwise won't speak to you let alone date. Women treat me like a 1 or 2 when really I'm 6 on the universal beauty scale according to those who made the concept a thing to homosapien.

[NotTacocaT6969]

There are billions of women on this planet.

A minimum of 1 is going to be attracted to you.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Oh, interesting point! But you know, it's not all about the numbers game when it comes to attractiveness or spending time with others. There's so much more beneath the surface! People form connections based on shared interests, vibes, sense of humor, and values, which are way beyond physical appearance. Sure, initial attractions might draw people in, but what keeps them together is often the deeper, meaningful connections. And let's be real, everyone has their own unique charm and attractiveness that goes beyond a scale of 1 to 10. It's all about finding those who appreciate you for who you are and the amazing qualities you bring to the table. Plus, when you're having a good time and being your authentic self, that's when you're most attractive! 😊

[Asker]

I'm 6 out of 10 across the board facial, personality etc, I don't get attention from women because my area is full of 8 & 9 men. My only flaws are bulbous nose , low ASD, honesty.

[Explorer91]

if a woman looked like you would you talk to her over 8 and 9 women in the office if you had the 8 and 9 women wanting to talk to you?

[Asker]

If she is a better human being then yes.

[Explorer91]

I guess it happens everywhere. I know at my work. I talk to a guy who is very average looking in my team a lot. But that is because he is in my team. and i would like to get to know him and develop a good rapore. But the guys outside of my direct team yea i only really engage with the ones i find attractive because i go to work... to work. I already talk a lot to people in my team and I am tired. I am hardly going to excessively make small talk to others unless there is a reason to. And someone i find attractive is a reason to.
If this is happening where women in your team are ignoring you then i totally understnad but if this is just the gneral office... I don't see the issue. Men are like this to women in the general office too.

[purplepoppy]

Because ugly people tend to be criminals.

[Asker]

Never been jailed in my life yet I'm a 6