Does an ugly man having muscles make him even more ugly?

Question

My thinking is than an ugly guy is scary… An ugly guy with muscles would be terrifying

blueonblack22 · Accepted Answer

When you say “ugly man” are you judging the man on something he can control i. e: personal hygiene, dress attire, being overweight, hairstyle, sense of humor, personality (which is hard to control) or are you judging him on things he cannot control like his age, facial features, balding pattern, his height, etc.

Sounds like you are judging him on the latter and you need to take a step back to recognize what a really shitty person that makes you all considered. And if he’s got muscles it’s likely due to him trying to improve his appearance. He might seem more “scary” to you but he’s that maybe more attractive to other women who like muscles. He will definitely get more respect from other men if he’s ripped and respect is extremely important for men. It ties directly into his self esteem which is already a challenge for him. That guy has to get up every day, look in the mirror and face the world. He needs to work with what he has.

Also having “muscles” isn’t some sort of easy decision for men. It takes hard work, sweat and effort. So if the ugly guy is buff it shows he cares about improving himself. Seriously would you rather have him get even more ugly and be morbidly obese or something? Or become a fentanyl/meth addict and become extremely skinny since he never eats anything?

I am a (semi) buff guy. I’m tall and naturally more skinny and lean. But when I was younger I was constantly having girls tell me how baby faced and cute I was. I used to get incredibly leeway to approach women. Could get away with saying and doing a lot and they found it “cute and funny”.

Then when I got in my late 30s I notice a sad change. Although I was still in shape, have all my hair, still got deep blue eyes my face started to visibly age and I’m not “cute and baby faced” any more. I have zero control over that. Still a handsome guy but not what I was at 25 or even 32.

I had to adjust to how interacted with women especially young women. I had far less room to be flirty like I used to. Far less room to glance an extra moment. It really sucked and depressed me.

But I will say this if a “ugly” man is just minding his own business and isn’t hitting on you or staring at you then you have zero f*cking right to judge him. None what so ever. You have no right to let your “feelings” and fear run rampant when did absolutely nothing to harm you.

You have zero f*cking idea what life is really like for him (and it probably has been exponentially harder then your sheltered reality). Now if he’s disrespectful and/or aggressively hitting on you that’s a completely different story. But if he’s just going about his business please STFU. I know I don’t judge obese women who mind their own business or interact with me respectfully.

Quigly · Accepted Answer

I Don't really see how muscles would change anything one way or another. If the Foundation is ugly, everything built upon ugly is ugly.

As a guy, I have accepted my fate, I do try to stay healthy and active. I don't think overdoing the gym is going to make me gods gift to women, like some guys think.

dustybiker2 · Accepted Answer

You're terrified of an appearance?
What if that person was offering to help you on the side of the road to defend you from a drunken group of kids, say they are harassing you being stuck with a flat tire. You going to hold out for the potential of another ugly tow truck driver to arrive or pop the trunk (while still locked in your car) to allow access to the spare and jack?
Behavior is how you should judge people.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

I think an ugly guy is ugly with or without muscles. I suppose if he is like body builder size or a size that makes him to walk funny and the muscles cause his arms to be out too much, that would look worse than if he was slim 😂

Minky17 · Answer

No it actually makes him attractive. And I will say I fell in love with a 46 year old man who was receding balding and had jowls but his voice was deep and soothing, he had tattoos and ear gages, and loved snakes. I still want to jump his bones if I see him again lol.

hahahmm · Answer

When the western society (as you know it) collapses and most people are living like wild animals, you can re-evaluate what matters. I can tell you for sure that a female's opinion will not be high on the list, unless she's with a guy who is the same type of guy who can survive in a prison.

provokeesmokee · Answer

Looks don't have anything to do with someone being scary.

Also any man - muscles or not - hell, any human should be recognized as a possible threat in the right context. And not as a threat in the appropriate ones (aka most times).

Sunnysunny123 · Answer

Definetly not, someone who takes care of themselves and cares to do better and be better is never ugly.

MisterWack · Answer

Better question, “Is an anonymous asker asking a pointless question make her anymore anonymous?”  Now you have your answer.

molonski2 · Answer

Nope , not at all , they do great , I've known many over the years , they fck themselves senseless with many partners , spreading that sperm far and wide.

on_my_knees · Answer

You can't really arrive at a solid conclusion without knowing penis size.

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing is more ugly than having a ugly personality and shallow women who judge looks in men have the most ugliest personalities.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm that ugly guy you're talking about. I have a terrible-looking face according to conventional beauty standards, and I have dark skin. Where I come from, dark skin is not considered attractive at all.

But having muscles does help! It makes me feel confident and at least minimizes my self-hate. So, building muscles is more about boosting my self-esteem rather than just looking good, because working out feels good.

genericname85 · Answer

lol personally if i was ugly, i'd just hulk up. fuck that. the beauty ship has sailed. might as well go full in on phyiscal fitness.

HusamRocks · Answer

No one should be called ugly, they might be prettier than u 👍🏻

Anonymous · Answer

I’m curious on what you look like asker. Did a man judge you and it hurt your feelings? I’m guessing that’s what happened.

_Troian_ · Answer

I don't think so, noone is ugly as long as they take care of theirselves.

SotiCoto · Answer

Yes. Obviously. That is what makes gymcels so disgusting.

DrPepper12 · Answer

A 🔥 body is still a hot body IF toned / defined and not the HULK

Anonymous · Answer

no, that just means he's an ugly guy with muscles

Anonymous · Answer

might as well say there's no winning for an ugly guy no matter what he does

Anonymous · Answer

I thought this English bulldog was pretty ugly at first, but it started acting adorable and I blended the two ino this weird thing I called unique.

blondfrog · Answer

How about an ugly guy who is athletic fit though?

PrettyCrumblBb · Answer

Lol yes just look at that ninja turtle guy 😂

foxsquirrell · Answer

Not sure if it is always the case, but I think it often is the case.

Anonymous · Answer

My thinking is that you have an ugly personality and it’s scary that some women are like yoy

LUCY8888 · Answer

I think people who are very tall would do better with muscle. Short but lots of muscle doesn't make me feel very good about myself

Anonymous · Answer

An ugly bodybuilder would choke you to death with his penis. I’m ok with that.

serious · Answer

No, I don't think so

Nikki1989 · Answer

It does in a lot of cases, yes.

the29thhuman · Answer

How does that make sense? Make it make sense.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Why is a girl asking this?

Anonymous · Answer

I hope you're not a ugly woman yapping on here

MacDaddyRico · Answer

Your thinking is flawed.

SoJust · Answer

No, maybe it will shape it

ab2shifty · Answer

Wouldn’t that be the opposite tho

mayurr · Answer

U continue ur thinking☕

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Anonymous · Answer

Catfish are awesome.

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