Fashion & Beauty

How important is neck length, shoulder width, body type (as in natural shape regardless of fitness level), etc. on a woman?

It's recently been brought to my attention that long necks are crucial to a woman's attractiveness, but unfortunately for me, I can only fit one hand's width between my chin and collarbone, so mine barely even qualifies as average length. It is definitely not pretty, graceful, or elegant, and I never wear my hair up because I think it genuinely looks much worse on me.

Also, it's paired with broad, square shoulders. I look like I'm all shoulders in a T-shirt, despite that being the most practical and comfortable thing to wear. My neck, shoulders, and larger breasts just make me look fat from the chest area up regardless of how thin I am. I've thought about a breast reduction for this very reason, but then I'd just look like a man. I can't get a surgery to lengthen my neck or make my shoulders narrower and more sloping, unfortunately.

Also, I'm very much an inverted triangle, of course, which is probably the least liked women's body type. No, targeted exercises will not turn me into an hourglass or pear shape, especially when a large part of the problem is my bone structure. Implants and surgery are the only options, which can still only do so much, and which I cannot afford.

Did I mention I'm also 5'8" and have been compared to a man in my family and told that I'm built exactly like him from behind?

So, am I just hopelessly ugly? I have always been noticeably treated as such compared to other women despite being told I have a "pretty face," which at this point I'm doubtful is even true.

How important is neck length, shoulder width, body type (as in natural shape regardless of fitness level), etc. on a woman?
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