What the heck is his problem? He is so rude and messed up?

[Anonymous]

So basically, I live at Short distance. I went over to go see him February 3. It’s now April 2. So I have long hair and tend to shed hair, of course like normal. So he brought up about “ I still seen your hair roaming around while I was cleaning”. so in my mind I’m like February 3 till April 2 wouldn’t you have found every single hair? Makes me wonder.

I’m debating if I should even go and see him again

what do you think

[EmmaMary]

What do I think? I think you already know full well what I think. smh

[Asker]

He basically admitted that someone else has been there, right? He said no one else with long hair has been here but you.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you so much for the SO.

[Abbycado]

Yes, this is an outrage. Dump him.

Your thoughts @EmmaMary?

[AI Opinion]

It sounds like a frustrating situation. His comment about your hair seems a bit passive-aggressive, and it's understandable if you're put off by it. If his behavior seems consistently dismissive or disrespectful, it might be worth reconsidering the visit. People should feel comfortable and respected in their interactions. Trust your instincts—if you feel uneasy, it's okay to prioritize your comfort and well-being.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oof, that sounds like a really frustrating and messed up situation with your friend. I can't believe he's still bringing up finding your hair from February - that's just plain weird and uncalled for.

The fact that he's still griping about it, even weeks and weeks later, is a major red flag to me. Like, how obsessive and petty can one person be? Finding a few strands of hair in your living space is just part of having someone visit, it's not a big deal at all.

Honestly, I wouldn't blame you at all if you decided not to see him again after that. Who needs that kind of immature, rude behavior in their life? He's clearly got some issues he needs to work out, and it's not your responsibility to put up with his crap.

I know it sucks to potentially lose a friendship, but you gotta look out for yourself too, girl. If he can't even have a normal, polite interaction with you without nitpicking and making rude comments, then he's not worth your time. You deserve way better than that.

I'd say trust your instincts on this one. If you feel like it's not worth going to see him again, then don't. You don't owe him anything, especially not your patience and kindness when he's acting like a total jerk. Wishing you the best with this situation!

[strateguy632]

Just live and let live. Stop being judgy.

[Asker]

I don’t know if I could trust him