"A lot of men will find dates once they try elaborate skincare routine and get better fashion sense" yes or no?

[fonduegirl]

[OneViewpoint]

Yes. In the USA at least the average guy over 35 just stops caring about general grooming, the way they dress, their fitness, and how they present themselves overall.

And it’s not just dating that’s impacted. It’s how other people treat them in general. The job market. Banks when applying for a car loan or home mortgage. TSA personnel. Cops. Etc.

Look like a slob and get treated like a slob.

[NathanDavis]

not if you're still an asshole... no

or a douchebag, or insecure AF

or just not experienced nor willing to do what it takes in order to improve to actual experience and the work implied with it... lol

[SotiCoto]

... Didn't you get the memo?
Ladies love "assholes" & "douchebags". Not so much the insecure ones, but still.

[fonduegirl]

@SotiCoto generally speaking, EVERYBODY prefers the confident asshole. That's not a gender war thing

[fonduegirl]

@SotiCoto even in college and workplace you'll find, the jerk always gets things done, always is well liked and even promoted before you

[NathanDavis]

not sure which universe you two are talking about but my experience was different..

when I was in college, as cliché as it sounds... there was the talk about the "four hottest girls in college" and all of them have boyfriends, of course

none of their boyfriends was an asshole, the two who were considered "the hottest is the entire campus" had boyfriends who were older than college age, so they were more mature and all that... the other two had boyfriends who studied in the same college, those were not assholes either nor douchebags

there were also three guys who were known to be assholes/douchebags, and NO... they didn't lead the football team, nor the soccer team... they didn't lead any student body, of course they didn't lead in academics, they didn't even lead the shit they were involved on... they didn't get the girls either, lol

nor the men or women were stupid and immature enough to fall for the "fuckwit charm" you see in movies and books

[fonduegirl]

That's great to hear, Nate.

[NathanDavis]

one of them in jail... the other in some drug hole, the third... no idea

or that's what I heard, anyway

[fonduegirl]

Hahaha XD

[SotiCoto]

@anon1903 : Last I checked, other guys HATE the confident asshole, usually because he is hogging all the girls. But this is tangentially deviating though.

[fonduegirl]

@SotiCoto and confident girls are hated too, bc they suck it up to higher ups and often throw other women under the bus to get favours

[fonduegirl]

@SotiCoto if you have a female friend, you can ask her who's her least favourite person in her friend circle, she'd tell you lo

[SotiCoto]

@anon1903 : The sort of friends I've had never had a "circle"... nor would they keep a "least favourite person" in it. That sort of strange politicking isn't the sort of dubious privilege afforded to niche groups of pariahs.

[fonduegirl]

@SotiCoto even the ones without friend circles have a least favourite person. You're delusional if you think your friends don't

[fonduegirl]

@SotiCoto it's human nature. We all have that one Pick Me we know that we deep down really really hate.

Nate seems to be a rare exception and cheers to that of course

[petitedollbabee]

Find dates.. sure.. but likely not have any higher chance of successful dating. Outer appearance only helps so much. If you’re still an asshole on the inside, you won’t have much luck in the end.

[Ms_Facesitter]

It can help. They still have charm, looks, fashion, confidence, a caring soul. But skincare will help, all little things help.

[luvstoned4him]

its debatable - Personality still plays a major role because ain't no body willing to put up with a D**khead even if he has great skincare - well I certainly won't.

[Billlewis]

They'll find dates when they leave the country, or at least, the continental U. S. that's what I did.

[Apple1996]

Probably yeah. a lot of men refuse to do basic hygiene and have clean clothes then wonder why no woman wants them

[Nikki1989]

No!

That won't help a shitty personality.

[shmeed]

I agree, just don't go overboard with skin care. Guys do underestimate what dressing nice says to woman.

[slatyb]

They will find dates once they get out of their heads and start listening.

[MysticDevice]

Doesn't really work when all the women I meet are already with someone...

[seeyounexttuesday]

no. I mean they gotta dress well but at the end of they day men have to be good looking and have money.

[SotiCoto]

Maybe, maybe not. But even if they do, the dates they're getting will be shallow, vapid, mindless things.

[fonduegirl]

Dating is mindless yeah

[fonduegirl]

Majority of people prefer it that way, as long as they're getting a little something

[beefcakebradybatson]

D**N RIGHT !!! Most women don't want fugly schlubs !!!

[Ironic_Method]

I do neither of these things, am married, and still find dates.

The bar is low.

[fonduegirl]

You must be loaded

[Ironic_Method]

I am decidedly not loaded. I'm financially stable, but I'm also pretty frugal.

I'm just sometimes funny? I don't know.

[fonduegirl]

Maybe it's your personality

[Jamie05rhs]

And a new haircut as well.
But you also have to go to the gym. There are no shortcuts and no substitutes for physical fitness.

[Anonymous]

Some girls like rugged men. Others love the pretty boys. Really depends on the girl he hits on.

[HerrMann]

According to me, women feel secure once they know the real intentions behind the guy who is planning to take her to some kind of activity in a non-sexual way.

[StephanieChick111]

I disagree. I like my men to look like men.

[fonduegirl]

Caveman aesthetic right?

[StephanieChick111]

Yes.

[fonduegirl]

OK 👌🏽

[Anonymous]

They find dates if they can become more physically attractive or become wealthy/ rich.

[Anonymous]

real men dont care, its really all about character and holding seed in.

[fonduegirl]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

you laugh but magnestism brings women to knees.

[fonduegirl]

You have it?

[Opinion Owner]

yes and any man can, its about being stern and discplined and letting love vibrating through every fiber of your being.

[fonduegirl]

Try me

[Opinion Owner]

fashion and skincare is for attracting superficial women (not necessary really beautiful ones), they tend to be very boring after a few dates though, way too focused on looks and most of times mediocre intelligence. A women can shine even in a torn dress and with nothing to wear in her feeet, clothes are nice but nothing can replace a good adn gene and a soul full of life.

[Opinion Owner]

try you?

[fonduegirl]

You're calling me boring or superficial?

[fonduegirl]

Hit me up with your best magnetic shot

[Opinion Owner]

no, not you was talking about women that are magically hypnotized by skincare.. its too much for a man... sure you can bathe in rosepetals and be romantic from time to time but to get obsessed with skin care can be... well its not manly, there must be an equilibrium where the earthy manhood is steady and in harmony and equilibrium.

[Opinion Owner]

Why would I even try to hit you with a magnetic shot? I dont know you.

[fonduegirl]

You do skincare for yourself, not to impress people. People are impressed bc it's quite nice to see self love

[fonduegirl]

Obviously a gym bro such as yourself won't understand

[Opinion Owner]

you dont need to do skincare, just eat healty... and obviously you dont know me, I dont do gym, never did.

[fonduegirl]

But you talk like a gym bro.

[fonduegirl]

I'm not against gym per se, it just doesn't fix everything

[Opinion Owner]

How did you figured that out? That I talk like a gym bro? You have stereotypes in your mind or? Many things dont fix much, gym won't work out character or mindor capacity to love. I am against gym, better work a garden or help old ladies with groceries. Gym is good for a big city, really bad if you can go in nature and climb a mountain.

[fonduegirl]

Okedoke

[Opinion Owner]

Very different generations, different ideeas, i would never call another male bro, not even friend, our times were living like hungry dogs

[fonduegirl]

All righty roo

[Opinion Owner]

Roo?

[fonduegirl]

Nevermind

[Opinion Owner]

So since i gave some energyyl here, please tell me how are your times? What is the thing you like kost and botheres you most? I haven't had contact with youngsters reality, I have a russian girlfriend for 15 years and never dated another woman

[fonduegirl]

I can only speak for myself.

Everything is porn now. Art is dying, artificial intelligence killed it. People think I'm weird for not taking my phone everywhere with me.

[fonduegirl]

Russian women are very beautiful in my opinion

[Opinion Owner]

Well yeah you are right.. sometimes porn even go. under the name of sensuality and erotism but its just gross porn. Art is life... well not itself but imagination that is the root of it, imagination and an alive mind is like an eternal vibration of beauty. Phone also sucks, people forget what is really usefull and what is not. I apologize for you living these times... i really enjoyed my youth tbh could look at stars for days and dream constantly with someone holding hands. Many women are beautiful but yeah russian eyes have magic. I can't fall in love through but i respect her.

[fonduegirl]

I wanna go back to physical media, man

[fonduegirl]

Single use devices were so incredible, yes?

[Opinion Owner]

Well many things were incredible at that time, especially ink and paper, but yeah i get what you mean they were.. simpler that way but simplicity sometimes can evoke beauty

[fonduegirl]

I'm glad I've been journal writing since I was 12. As if I predicted porn age or something. I was truly ahead of time!

[Opinion Owner]

Haha you do? do you keep a dream journal as well? well not a big surprise, sexuality is hard to control even for the most... elevated.

[fonduegirl]

No dream journals. Some of my bad dreams have come true and... I wouldn't want to remember that! LoL

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm... maybe you enat those to come true, maybe..

[fonduegirl]

I'm a psychic cynic... Picture London Fields movie, but I'm so much more attractive than Amber Heard and I'll never date Theo James

[Opinion Owner]

I dont know the movie, sorry. what are you trying to say? psychic really? i relate more to films like the fountain... just old and dreamy like that

[fonduegirl]

Yes, it's a good movie. London Fields is the name. There's a femme fatale who can see the future, usually dates of other people and hence tries to avoid attachment.

[fonduegirl]

I love movies

[Opinion Owner]

Me too but ones with new ideeas, not many goood movies these dayd, i will watch yours out of curiosity. Do you visualize yourself as a femme fatale? Avoiding attachment seems very bad. Attaching and loving every time with all the soul is admirable

[fonduegirl]

Nah. Hahaha. I could never have that much sex or throw away my journals like she did. Plus my parents are alive

[Opinion Owner]

Ohh sex again, of course. Well its a movie... surely her feeling are a bit more conflictual and intense then most of the real life scenarious. Glad your parents aren't dead, at your age surely they shouldn't be.

[fonduegirl]

It was a joke. Damn, bruh

[fonduegirl]

Nevertheless a cool film

[Opinion Owner]

I am sorry, I am really bad with humor and jokes, straight poker face.

[Opinion Owner]

Well if you never watched the fountain do please, hugh jackman didn't gave aeay his role in batman for nothing. I do have other interesting films to sugest to you like The Frame and Solaris... such lovely art.

[fonduegirl]

I only watch Batman bc I ship him with joker

[fonduegirl]

Solaris is a spectacular name

[Opinion Owner]

Wow you dont know solaris... really watch these 3 movies, good for culture. Joker... yes wuite the character... by his nature... he.

[Opinion Owner]

I like Hannibal..

[fonduegirl]

It's too mainstream. But I appreciate the recommendations

[fonduegirl]

Cannibalism is the highest form of love

[fonduegirl]

I'm joking

[Opinion Owner]

Well maybe... but adapted would be spiritua cannibalism or something

[fonduegirl]

Spiritual cannibalism?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah like devouring one soul

[fonduegirl]

I'd rather devour the body

[Circushowcowboy]

It definitely helps

[Charliefretz329]

Yes, dates with other men lol

[fonduegirl]

Hahaha... I'll never date a caveman

[Charliefretz329]

I’m a woodsy wild mountain man type

[fonduegirl]

Good thing we're not dating!

[Charliefretz329]

We wouldn’t work out

[fonduegirl]

Hahaha

[fonduegirl]

I don't date older guys so let's not fret over this

[Charliefretz329]

No fretting occurring

[fonduegirl]

Good

[Charliefretz329]

Very good

[TwoToTooTutu2]

No, dating is 100% luck.

[Anonymous]

I don't think so.

[fonduegirl]

And why not

[Opinion Owner]

No matter what I do, I don't think that any girl would date me (unless it's a girl that I don't like).

[fonduegirl]

I don't know your dating habits so I can't say much

[Opinion Owner]

I never had a date, so I don't have a dating habits :(

[eagle1951]

probably

[TallAnon]

Lol, no

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆 no.