Do you think we are sometimes clueless about what the opposite gender finds beautiful or ugly in our same gender or opposite gender?

[jennifer_bloom]

My dad told me I was a humongous liar because I said somebody he thought was insanely ugly was not ugly and just average looking.

He also said I was a humongous liar because I said somebody he thought was normal looking was very ugly.

When I see women that elite men marry for looks, I find them to be as common and plain as water from a river.

And when I see women that I think are very pretty, none of the guys like her.

I think it's because I am a woman and do not know what men consider to be beautiful in my gender.

[Brady]

Type in the search box of GirlsaskGuys "Do you think Jessica Alba is attractive?" Then do it for Taylor Swift and other female celebs.

Most think Jessica's attractiv n a few don't. I 1ce saw a question somewhere askin y peopl r calling her ugly. I think she's in the middle.

This shows even girls most peopl think r attractive hav some who don't think so. Proof looks r an opinion.

[AviatorTom]

Not "sometimes", always clueless... and it's important to remember that everyone has their own opinion on beauty. Ask 3 people and get 4 different answers. 😐

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for MHO

[BADGER44]

i have the same thing with my gender. i dont know what men women think are attractive. as when they tell me. im like so glad you told me. id never think that... guy is attractive... mayb they like scrony guys they can push over... i did have a co worker once though. as i worked at tv station. did copying. i did a lot of bonanzas. she liked hoss over little joe. so prooves. eye is in the beholder... so dont feel so bad... so many attractive women... so few men. but i dont see them... i like sexy curvy cute cool women over typical skinny pretty ones. that think they got it made...

[DrmChsr]

Yes definitely. The women I know glorify masculine women, muscles/biceps, tall, often short hair. Using their standards for men and projecting it onto women. They also judge the womens makeup and are more generous with their opinion on other womens looks. Men dont care about if the makeup looks cool, just how pretty does it make her, e. g. does it make her lips look fuller. So there's a mismatch there. The other mismatch with men generally preferring feminine and neotenous features, not masculine ones.

While I find men also make similar mistakes. They glorify masculinity and masculine features when there's other things which are more important on a man to be attractive to a woman. How harmonious your face is, and how average it is. This is obvious with looksmax groups glorifying Jordan Barrett. Ofc masculinity in a face is good, but its not as much as they believe. This is made obvious by how often young women love kpop idols and Korean guys

[Xawyx-2]

Yes, indeed, it happened to me quite often.

[Daytoday79]

Sometimes