Girls do you like the Polo Ralph Lauren type?

[Anonymous]

the kind of guy who dresses pretty expensively, looks young, thinner but defined muscles and almost harsh looking face.. because that's how I am

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[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

I love the ralph Lauren style - makes guys look so delish -

Don't care how expensive your clothes are, but I do care a bit about a dudes fashion. Like I'm not saying he has to be on model status - I'm no fashionista myself, but if he's just wearing sweat pants and t - shirts all the time - meh. It's nice to see a guy who knows how to dress fairly well. Makes me assume he's more put together. or at least cares more how he projects that aspect of him.

I like a guy with a harsher face - but not too harsh - like strong jawline, lower eye brows / smaller eyes, a little intensity to him - but still a bit of softness like a wide smile, relaxation in his features.

But mmm - I wish more guys did the ralph lauren thing. They'd be getting laid so much easier IMO ha ha :D

[styles_clash]

Expensive and fashion go hand in hand--richer guys are more likely to be more fashionable..I'm on the upper part of middle class and even I HATE buying "expensive clothes"..guess that makes me unattractive, huh?

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Not really. Most guys at my college shop at Ross, Walmart, Target - and still look good lol a nice 7 dollar t-shirt with a pair of dark washed 12 dollar jeans and some 20 dollar shoes works just fine.

I could care less how much your clothes are - I find a guy who knows how to not splurge his money on expensive materials and manage it appropriately more attractive lol -

What makes you unattractive is one how I perceive you physically - and two how's your attitude.

As with most decent girls.

[styles_clash]

So do you consider guys who "dress up" to be metro..which is just a really straight way of saying, in the closet?

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Honestly I have no idea what the divisions of societal clothing is lol. People are all like oh he's so metro, he's so preppy so jocky blah blah blah - I don't give a damn - if the boy has a sense of style then whatev. It defines him so who am I to judge it? I think it's more " in the closet," when guys attack other guys about where they stand in fashion - who gives two f***s in the grand scheme of things?

[styles_clash]

I had (keyword had) a friend who is metro. We all think he's in the closet because he's constantly hooking up with women and goes from girl to girl like a player..but he says he's straight in front of everyone..so hard to believe him, when he says that.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

...what does being metro or whatever have to do with that? Wtf is metro style anyway? I can't say a guy is gay unless I know him very well to consider it based off of realistic factors - not what he wears unless it's obvious like cross dressing / drag (but even some of those men aren't gay so...)

Maybe he's gay - maybe he's a player - maybe he feels inadequate as a man / person and uses women as a way to suffice - maybe he was sexually abused - maybe he has a high sex drive -

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

maybe he wants to impress you guys - maybe he's coping with a deeper emotional issue - maybe he's in denial about his sexuality - maybe this - maybe that -

Those are all the possibilities I analyzed from what you said and I don't even know the guy. It's kind of shallow to judge someone and assume based off something as face valued as clothing.

When you catch him swapping spit with another dude - then you have more solid means to label.

But style choice? seriously?

wow...

[styles_clash]

He actually did kiss a dude once...and besides, metro is considered straight talk for "in the closet"

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Well if he kissed a guy then that's much better to assume from then - omg he's metro so he's gay. That's a stupid way of perceiving people imo.

[imperatriz]

Ralph Lauren polos are hot and I do like guys that dress expensively and look put together, even if they didn't spend much on their clothes at all.

[ZenQueen]

totally, I love that classic prep look!

[styles_clash]

I guess that makes me unattractive because I don't go with the "more expensive fashion"...I HATED going with the norm. because I always hated the idea that I was conforming..but I guess according to girls, I should have conformed!

[ZenQueen]

@QA check out the pics on my profile those are a few looks I really like.

an d@styles clash Wear what you want I have no style at all but I like to admire others' styles, maybe if I had the money it would be a different story but I wear the same old clothes from when I was 15-16, times are tough!

[styles_clash]

Tell me about it! :D

[ZenQueen]

the only things worth spending money are would be nice jeans and maybe some pieces made of nice materials but that's just for yourself because they feel better and last longer, but spending hundreds on some basketball shoe(air jordans) or some cheap crap is just dumb and actually less attractive. I really don't like high maintenance men...who are you showing off for because its not me, yes you should dress to feel confident but there is such thing as too much... just be comfortable and don't wea

[ZenQueen]

r clothes with stains.lol

[styles_clash]

If I did dress up, it'd be fore me, not girls. You should like me for me, not my clothes

[ZenQueen]

exactly- you should do it for you.

[LoveBambi]

I don't really care for labels.