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Personality is key!
Skinny is cute...to me ad least...
If a guy is too muscular it just kinda makes me wanna gag!
Totally agree with that! I'd prefer a skinny cute guy over a buff "hot" one.
Sexual attraction comes first. Sorry to say but if you don't appeal to a woman on a physical level she's not going to give you the time to charm her with your personality.
I say looks to get my attention, and the personality to keep it.
For me, if I have a huge crush on someone, he will look unbelievably attractive to me. Physical attractiveness and muscle don't mean anything to me unless I am enamored by your intelligence, ambition, and personality.
i would prefer a guy with good personality and character over a guy who only looks hot anytime! if he has a good personality and good looks, then good looks are a bonus!
looks are what catch my eye but if your personality sucks I don't want anything to do with you...i'll take a person that I'm not phsyically attracted to with a great personality over a good looking person anyday
Thats easy enough to say...
You have to be physically attracted to the person initially, that's the first thing you obviously see..however I think too many people place too much emphasis on looks first..hence why so many people have a hard time finding and or meeting anyone.
PERSONALITY. LOOKS MAY DRAW A SECOND LOOK, BUT ANYTHING MORE THAN A ONE NIGHTER YOU BETTER BE ABLE TO HOLD A CONVERSATION AND HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR:)
Um, why do you lie?
Personality. Looks don't matter, any penis will do the job
Haha real talk
i prefer personality. if a guy has a really good personality, it makes them look better or seem more attractive in my opinion.
I don't think they can be seperated.
Looks and personality go hand in hand to make someone unique and beautiful.
BOTH
mascular guys do make me feel safe but if he has no personality it's just not attreactiv it's sexualy attreactive but not emotionaly
but I would never go out with someone that I am not attracted to sexualy and emotionaly BOTH
Looks. It is what it is.
I don't know bruv...from these answers it looks like personality...and from my experience
Would you date a total biotch who treated you like crap just because she's gorgeous? NO
Who said anything about dating. ;)
Lol wellllll I'm kinda sure that's what he was going for in his question....not positive but pretty sure
I actually meant everything, from dating to f*cking
Rating looks first is usually immaturity and has not lived reality. when you have to spend years together a sense of humor is my number one trait.
To know the guy you had to approach him and to approach him he had to be in a way good looking so they go together on a certain level. But personnality is 70% while looks is 30%
Personality=important 1 place
Look=important,2 place
in my list.. :)
Girls prefer personality 100%, the thing is that there are not a lot of guys with "attractive" personalities so they sometimes are forced to focus on looks.
I love a good personality more than good looks I fell in love with my first boyfriend because of his personality not his looks.
definitely personality. personally I can't find a guy physically attractive if he isn't a nice person.
to be honest, looks. but I'm going to change that, because up until now I've dated gorgeous guys who end up breaking my heart, so I'm definitely in the wrong boat. I change to personality :)
Looks, he has to be a 4/10... personality he has to be an 8/10.
you need looks to get me, but you need a personality to keep me around
Looks as in cute face or looks as in big muscles, or both?
overall appearance.
but for the record, I hate muscles
Why?
they intimidate
@MaxAsian9 you can't answer for her.
I like strong guys. They don't gotta be beefy, but I'd like to know I can be protected. It's reassuring. But it really all comes down to how much I like his personality because I won't be with a guy if I don't like how he acts.
I really have gotten to the point where personality is the most important thing to me. Looks are pretty far down on the list for me.
I see, that's where we guys differ from girls. I think I can conclude that most girls have a similar view, of course its not suprising considering most guys I knows aren't really that faithful to their other half...
Really? Most guys? What sort of age group and what kind of relationships are they in?
Age group doesn't matter about fidelity....male or female, it doesn't matter
Okay, not most guys, but a lot of guys between about 18-30 have kissed other girls while in a serious relationship, I know because I've done it before and so have my friends. But as someone has said the age group doesn't mean much when it comes to fidelity
Looks only go so far, personality is the primary target, looks are just a bonus!
Best answer!
Honestly personality is number one for me I don't care how goodlooking his body or how good he looks I he got a messed up attitude and personality it's done for me.
personality---looks get real old real quick if you'd rather be having a conversation with your wall than him.
personality! looks always always fade :)
i like both a hot guy with a great personality but I had to choose I wld choose looks everytime!
what if you like a girl who prefers gold?
I go 4 da PERSONALITYY :)
Everytime?
Yeaa most of da time :)
I don't believe you :P so you don't care bout his looks at all?
Well da first thingg I look at is da personalityy then looks
Kool.
Girls like looks and only looks.
Ignorant much?
No that is the truth. I am a nice guy but I have always been lonely because of my looks.
Well that doesn't mean that girls ONLY like looks.
Maybe you're just very unfortunate in the looks department. Or more likely, you haven't built enough confidence and self-esteem to chat to girls...
I may lack a little confidence but still I find girls impossible to talk to and I feel like girls just pass me by.
Bruv, look at J Lo's hubby, I mean Jennifer Lopez of all women! it ain't about looks trust me. I think only shallow airheads go for looks alone. maybe just work on your self esteem & social skills
You don't understand how hard girls are to talk to then. I am so scared of them.
Your confidence is the problem. The fact that you can't talk to girls is the bigger issue. Everyone likes an attractive partner but how can you get someone if you don't feel good about yourself? Girls don't like guys that are down on themselves.
If I looked better though I would have a girlfriend though.
PERSONALITY!