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  • -StillWater-
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    Xper 5 Age: 38 , mho 43%
    +1 y

    Personality is key!

    Skinny is cute...to me ad least...

    If a guy is too muscular it just kinda makes me wanna gag!

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    • cheerangelcharity
      cheerangelcharity
      +1 y

      Totally agree with that! I'd prefer a skinny cute guy over a buff "hot" one.

      Reply
  • InquisitiveMale
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    Guru Age: 38 , mho 65%
    +1 y

    Sexual attraction comes first. Sorry to say but if you don't appeal to a woman on a physical level she's not going to give you the time to charm her with your personality.

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  • spellbinder11
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    Xper 5 Age: 33 , mho 42%
    +1 y

    I say looks to get my attention, and the personality to keep it.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (30-35)
    +1 y

    For me, if I have a huge crush on someone, he will look unbelievably attractive to me. Physical attractiveness and muscle don't mean anything to me unless I am enamored by your intelligence, ambition, and personality.

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  • Reeses-pieces777
    Reeses-pieces777 Follow
    Guru Age: 38 , mho 61%
    +1 y
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    i would prefer a guy with good personality and character over a guy who only looks hot anytime! if he has a good personality and good looks, then good looks are a bonus!

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    looks are what catch my eye but if your personality sucks I don't want anything to do with you...i'll take a person that I'm not phsyically attracted to with a great personality over a good looking person anyday

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    • 20Questions
      20Questions
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      Thats easy enough to say...

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  • tyrantfuryre
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    Guru Age: 42
    +1 y

    You have to be physically attracted to the person initially, that's the first thing you obviously see..however I think too many people place too much emphasis on looks first..hence why so many people have a hard time finding and or meeting anyone.

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  • princessevils
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    Xper 5 Age: 54
    +1 y

    PERSONALITY. LOOKS MAY DRAW A SECOND LOOK, BUT ANYTHING MORE THAN A ONE NIGHTER YOU BETTER BE ABLE TO HOLD A CONVERSATION AND HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR:)

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    • Mr_is_fine
      Mr_is_fine
      +1 y

      Um, why do you lie?

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  • Womanizer
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    Xper 5 Age: 58
    +1 y

    Personality. Looks don't matter, any penis will do the job

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    • 20Questions
      20Questions
      +1 y

      Haha real talk

      Reply
  • Lukewarm
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    Xper 6 Age: 33 , mho 43%
    +1 y

    i prefer personality. if a guy has a really good personality, it makes them look better or seem more attractive in my opinion.

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  • Prometheus
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    Xper 5 Age: 41 , mho 48%
    +1 y

    I don't think they can be seperated.

    Looks and personality go hand in hand to make someone unique and beautiful.

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  • Anonymous
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    (30-35)
    +1 y

    BOTH

    mascular guys do make me feel safe but if he has no personality it's just not attreactiv it's sexualy attreactive but not emotionaly

    but I would never go out with someone that I am not attracted to sexualy and emotionaly BOTH

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  • Just-A-Random-Guy
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    Xper 4 Age: 37 , mho 38%
    +1 y

    Looks. It is what it is.

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    • 20Questions
      20Questions
      +1 y

      I don't know bruv...from these answers it looks like personality...and from my experience

      Reply
    • LaurenNC84
      LaurenNC84
      +1 y

      Would you date a total biotch who treated you like crap just because she's gorgeous? NO

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    • Just-A-Random-Guy
      Just-A-Random-Guy
      +1 y

      Who said anything about dating. ;)

      Reply
    • LaurenNC84
      LaurenNC84
      +1 y

      Lol wellllll I'm kinda sure that's what he was going for in his question....not positive but pretty sure

      Reply
    • 20Questions
      20Questions
      +1 y

      I actually meant everything, from dating to f*cking

      Reply
  • princessevils
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    Xper 5 Age: 54
    +1 y

    Rating looks first is usually immaturity and has not lived reality. when you have to spend years together a sense of humor is my number one trait.

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  • Mn767
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    Xper 4 Age: 33
    +1 y

    To know the guy you had to approach him and to approach him he had to be in a way good looking so they go together on a certain level. But personnality is 70% while looks is 30%

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  • katiegal
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    Xper 4 Age: 37 , mho 33%
    +1 y

    Personality=important 1 place

    Look=important,2 place

    in my list.. :)

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  • camptravis
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    Xper 5 Age: 35 , mho 50%
    +1 y

    Girls prefer personality 100%, the thing is that there are not a lot of guys with "attractive" personalities so they sometimes are forced to focus on looks.

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  • sweetheart20
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    Xper 3 Age: 36
    +1 y

    I love a good personality more than good looks I fell in love with my first boyfriend because of his personality not his looks.

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  • emzy-89
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    Yoda Age: 37
    +1 y

    definitely personality. personally I can't find a guy physically attractive if he isn't a nice person.

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  • Anonymous
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    (36-45)
    +1 y

    to be honest, looks. but I'm going to change that, because up until now I've dated gorgeous guys who end up breaking my heart, so I'm definitely in the wrong boat. I change to personality :)

    1
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  • 993099142
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    Xper 6 Age: 40 , mho 38%
    +1 y

    Looks, he has to be a 4/10... personality he has to be an 8/10.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (36-45)
    +1 y

    you need looks to get me, but you need a personality to keep me around

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    • rocksongwriter
      rocksongwriter
      +1 y

      Looks as in cute face or looks as in big muscles, or both?

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      overall appearance.

      but for the record, I hate muscles

      Reply
    • 20Questions
      20Questions
      +1 y

      Why?

      Reply
    • MaxAsian9
      MaxAsian9
      +1 y

      they intimidate

      Reply
    • Cyhhgg
      Cyhhgg
      +1 y

      @MaxAsian9 you can't answer for her.

      Reply
  • XxAmyxX
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    Xper 4 Age: 33
    +1 y

    I like strong guys. They don't gotta be beefy, but I'd like to know I can be protected. It's reassuring. But it really all comes down to how much I like his personality because I won't be with a guy if I don't like how he acts.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (30-35)
    +1 y

    I really have gotten to the point where personality is the most important thing to me. Looks are pretty far down on the list for me.

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    • 20Questions
      20Questions
      +1 y

      I see, that's where we guys differ from girls. I think I can conclude that most girls have a similar view, of course its not suprising considering most guys I knows aren't really that faithful to their other half...

      Reply
    • tolovewithoutyou
      tolovewithoutyou
      +1 y

      Really? Most guys? What sort of age group and what kind of relationships are they in?

      Reply
    • LaurenNC84
      LaurenNC84
      +1 y

      Age group doesn't matter about fidelity....male or female, it doesn't matter

      Reply
    • 20Questions
      20Questions
      +1 y

      Okay, not most guys, but a lot of guys between about 18-30 have kissed other girls while in a serious relationship, I know because I've done it before and so have my friends. But as someone has said the age group doesn't mean much when it comes to fidelity

      Reply
  • katiebaby17
    katiebaby17 Follow
    Xper 3 Age: 33
    +1 y

    Looks only go so far, personality is the primary target, looks are just a bonus!

    3
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    • 20Questions
      20Questions
      +1 y

      Best answer!

      Reply
  • Mssweetgirl
    Mssweetgirl Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 39
    +1 y

    Honestly personality is number one for me I don't care how goodlooking his body or how good he looks I he got a messed up attitude and personality it's done for me.

    1
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  • lostandconfused83
    lostandconfused83 Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 42
    +1 y

    personality---looks get real old real quick if you'd rather be having a conversation with your wall than him.

    1
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  • HaleyElizabeth
    HaleyElizabeth Follow
    Xper 5 Age: 33 , mho 40%
    +1 y

    personality! looks always always fade :)

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (30-35)
    +1 y

    i like both a hot guy with a great personality but I had to choose I wld choose looks everytime!

    1
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  • MaxAsian9
    MaxAsian9 Follow
    Xper 7 Age: 32
    +1 y

    what if you like a girl who prefers gold?

    0
    0 Reply
  • Karla23
    Karla23 Follow
    Xper 3 Age: 33
    +1 y

    I go 4 da PERSONALITYY :)

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    • 20Questions
      20Questions
      +1 y

      Everytime?

      Reply
    • Karla23
      Karla23
      +1 y

      Yeaa most of da time :)

      Reply
    • 20Questions
      20Questions
      +1 y

      I don't believe you :P so you don't care bout his looks at all?

      Reply
    • Karla23
      Karla23
      +1 y

      Well da first thingg I look at is da personalityy then looks

      Reply
    • 20Questions
      20Questions
      +1 y

      Kool.

      Reply
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (36-45)
    +1 y

    Girls like looks and only looks.

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    • JustDance
      JustDance
      +1 y

      Ignorant much?

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      No that is the truth. I am a nice guy but I have always been lonely because of my looks.

      Reply
    • cheerangelcharity
      cheerangelcharity
      +1 y

      Well that doesn't mean that girls ONLY like looks.

      Reply
    • 20Questions
      20Questions
      +1 y

      Maybe you're just very unfortunate in the looks department. Or more likely, you haven't built enough confidence and self-esteem to chat to girls...

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      I may lack a little confidence but still I find girls impossible to talk to and I feel like girls just pass me by.

      Reply
    • 20Questions
      20Questions
      +1 y

      Bruv, look at J Lo's hubby, I mean Jennifer Lopez of all women! it ain't about looks trust me. I think only shallow airheads go for looks alone. maybe just work on your self esteem & social skills

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      You don't understand how hard girls are to talk to then. I am so scared of them.

      Reply
    • ALWAYSclassy
      ALWAYSclassy
      +1 y

      Your confidence is the problem. The fact that you can't talk to girls is the bigger issue. Everyone likes an attractive partner but how can you get someone if you don't feel good about yourself? Girls don't like guys that are down on themselves.

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      If I looked better though I would have a girlfriend though.

      Reply
  • layal
    layal Follow
    Xper 3 Age: 37
    +1 y

    PERSONALITY!

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