I say number two all the damn time when I get depressed
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Total stereotypes but most of them are true. Don't think a girl has ever said "I'm fine" and meant it. But as for 6, just cause you're not deserving of high praise doesn't mean we're all not!
@snowangle The problem is girls play games. No sometime doesn't mean no with women but a poor facade she puts up so she can play a little tug of war game with you.
@BubbleBoy69 it's not that hard to avoid games dude... if someone is intentionally confusing you, acting hot and cold, or pulling bullshit to test you, stop chasing them / do not engage. It really IS that simple... if you choose to participate that's your choice and you've got no one to blame but yourself.
I spent practically my entire 20s single and never put up with stupid games. It really is as easy as simply walking away when someone starts pulling that kind of shit.
@Sara413 Well while your advice is helpful if guys my age range were to walk away everytime a girl started pulling this we would be hard press getting dates. Women in their early 20's love to play games.
@Sara413 Most of your 20's. Guessing you dealt with a few fuckboy and got played for sex then made generalized remark that all men in their 20's only cared about sex despite not giving another try at it and decided to put off on dating. Studied and worked and now you think that men in the 30's age group are more serious about commitment and will pursue them.
@BubbleBoy69 what? Dude, all I said was of you choose to let people play games that's your choice and that if you don't want to play games they cna be avoided... you then whined that avoiding games would mean not getting very many dates, to which I responded saying yeah pretty much but it's better than putting up with bullshit lol I refused to put up with any bullshit and, yeah, it meant being single for a long fucking time... but it worked out for me in the end because I ended up with a great dude who communicates, cares about me and doesn't dick around.
@Sara413 "you then whined that avoiding games would mean not getting very many dates, to which I responded saying yeah pretty much but it's better than putting up with bullshit lol "
Lol more like i gave a realistic explanation why doing this would mean having low amount women to choose from based on age range where majority of women play mental games with guys. I mean it seems to women that when a man brings up concern he is whining but when a woman does it she is just voicing a legitimate concern.
@BubbleBoy69 wait.. so.. you complaining that women play mind games isn't whining or generalizing, but me countering that just as many guys play games somehow is? Wtf? Lol
Literally ALL I am saying is that whether you're male or female, whether you're attracted to men or women, some people play stupid games and the younger the age range the more of them do. You can either choose to put up with that shit or choose not to... but sure, turn this into a men vs women issue... that's always productive!
@Sara413 "wait.. so.. you complaining that women play mind games isn't whining or generalizing, but me countering that just as many guys play games somehow is? Wtf? Lol"
No that's not how my logic is flowed. My logic was that women playing games and mind games are prevalent in their 20's and varies from women to women. Walking away from every women once she starts playing mind games even a little isn't a suitable solution. I made no comment that you were whining (look at my statements above. i NEVER SAID YOU whined). You ask why were u single for "MOST" of your 20's and i decided to give a possible reason for why you might have been.
@BubbleBoy69 and I said for women the situation is not any different. Point being you can either choose to be desperate and let women walk all over you because you prefer that to simply being single for a while, or you can choose to respect yourself and not waste your efforts on immature women who play games. Obviously you have no interest in ACTUALLY hearing what I am saying so I'm the fuck out. Have fun being toyed with :)
@Sara413 And yet you don't seem to get it. I don't know what guys you've been with but men make it pretty clear with direct words/intention, compliments, asking you out. The only time a guy plays games such as taking a long time to call back, not messaging at all with no reply is if he's talking to other girls, busy or hasn't check his phone in a while.
Guys must actively approach and talk to women, guys sometime have to put up with the games and can't afford to walk away because many men have to go through several women for one to say yes. Meanwhile women can afford to walk away because the guy who starts playing games with you, you can drop him and another guy will lined up. In short, mate selection for women is far greater and men in more scarcity.
Your advice doesn't seem frugal for a guy's point of view to walk away at the first instance of games because your giving advice without factoring difference in dating experience between both sexes (ALL men aren't Chad).
@BubbleBoy69 you truly believe that generalizations about women are true and that generalizations about men are wrong? There's no getting through to you... Jesus...
And really... every woman has dozens of men lined up waiting to date her, of which the majority are quality dudes totally worth dating? REALLY?
Why is it so hard to acknowledge that the dating game isn't easy for men or for women? Is it really so complicated to understand? Lol
If you want to use the numbers game as an excuse to trade in your self respect for dumb drama and mind games instead of growing a fuckin backbone and having standards, go right ahead but it's not gonna make you happy and it sure as shit isn't gonna help you find a happy and fulfilling relationship.
@Sara413 "you truly believe that generalizations about women are true and that generalizations about men are wrong? There's no getting through to you... Jesus... "
I don't know why you girls try to tell men their experience in life is wrong and then feed them something that's out of a fairy tale when reality speaks otherwise.
1) Do men still approach women for most encounters. YES.
2) Do men often have to be the ones to ask women out on dates and message them. YES.
3) Is dating and relationship harder for men than it is for women. YES.
4) Do men have to ask several women out before one says yes. TRUE. These are the reality. Women tend to have people approach them and men don't. I don't get why girls on this site tend to tell men otherwise like if feeding them a lie will make their dating experience better.
"Why is it so hard to acknowledge that the dating game isn't easy for men or for women? Is it really so complicated to understand? Lol "
Because reality says otherwise. The only reason a woman chooses to remain single for years is because she actively rejects the offer of men who want a relationship with her or took a break from dating. There are even pictures of a very ugly woman who was getting flooded with messages by men better looking than her for dates. Daitng/sex is far easier for women than it is men this is reality due to men having lower standards compared to woemn. A man being single for a very long time may not be because of him not trying but because of constant rejection and some men do take a break from said rejection because of women. This is reality.
Why spin a fairy tale that men and women have it equal when ti is definitely not the case? This whole equality movement doesn't transition to everything you know.
"If you want to use the numbers game as an excuse to trade in your self respect for dumb drama and mind games instead of growing a fuckin backbone and having standards, go right ahead but it's not gonna make you happy and it sure as shit isn't gonna help you find a happy and fulfilling relationship."
And it's not trading in your self respect but being realistic. Women tend to bring drama, tend to bring mind games whether they are aware of it or not. Hence, we have a term called shit test which often relate to women testing men resolve and funny memes which often talk about how women say one thing with their words but mean something completely different.
@snowangle I know what you mean, I have the problem of women not taking NO for an answer. I guess I shouldn't be too surprised given the high number of thirsty desperadoes out there that will stick it into anything...
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What about the push-up bra? Their boobs aren't that big and perky!
I've only ever said 2 and 7. They were both the honest truth though.
8. My FRIENDS do [insert negative behavior] but I don't do any of that.
Birds of a feather.
All the flock in the same barn ;)
Lol I'm not proud but I have said some of these lies to guys. But I don't wear too much makeup. People can tell how I look with or without makeup.
I see that you're into virgin girls... What's the big deal?
I never once have lied in my entire life when I said #s 4-7.
The "I'm fine" thing is 100% true. No woman can come back on that one lol
I can. I don't use I'm fine when I'm upset. But I'm usually to honest to not say your pissing me off
@CrazynKinky crap... I'm yet to see it lol it's like saying, not all men are horny😂
lol... everyones horny
"I'm not that kind of girl. I'm different."
Bitch please.
I say number two all the damn time when I get depressed
Total stereotypes but most of them are true. Don't think a girl has ever said "I'm fine" and meant it. But as for 6, just cause you're not deserving of high praise doesn't mean we're all not!
I've always meant it when I said it. The only time I never meant it was when my 2 previous exes would ask me.
@dwright9224 You contradicted yourself and proved their point really well.
I'm a virgin but what kind of person goes around telling everyone they're one. Lol who cares
You just told the whole internet you are one...
@Truthatanycost anonymously it doesn't count lol
"He's just a friend"
Then it turns out he's tryna get at her... I hate that soo much...
Mmmm nope never did any of those lies, what a bunch of hogwash. What a miserable person you are, so jaded about women.
I'm still a MGTOWer, I HATE SLUTS! Disgusting people. I DON'T CARE, SLUTS ARE SLUTS!
"I have a boyfriend"
"I'm a lesbian."
Boyfriends and being gay doesn't exist if your CHAD THUNDERCOCK.
If guys could take "no" for an answer, this wouldn't be an issue.
I once rejected a guy THREE times and he kept pushing. Finally I said I had a boyfriend (which was the truth) and suddenly he was all "oh, okay then."
@snowangle Maybe. But I for one would rather have someone be honest than lied to. I can take no for an answer myself.
@snowangle #Truth
@snowangle The problem is girls play games. No sometime doesn't mean no with women but a poor facade she puts up so she can play a little tug of war game with you.
@BubbleBoy69 so don't play games with little girls... if you choose to play along with stupid games that's your choice.
@Sara413 Well a lot of women play games and some even into their 30's. No one got a time to figure out who playing games and who not.
@BubbleBoy69 it's not that hard to avoid games dude... if someone is intentionally confusing you, acting hot and cold, or pulling bullshit to test you, stop chasing them / do not engage. It really IS that simple... if you choose to participate that's your choice and you've got no one to blame but yourself.
I spent practically my entire 20s single and never put up with stupid games. It really is as easy as simply walking away when someone starts pulling that kind of shit.
@Sara413 Well while your advice is helpful if guys my age range were to walk away everytime a girl started pulling this we would be hard press getting dates. Women in their early 20's love to play games.
@BubbleBoy69 so to boys that age. Get over it lol
Recall how I mentioned I was single for most of my 20s? Can you hazard a guess as to why?
@Sara413 Most of your 20's. Guessing you dealt with a few fuckboy and got played for sex then made generalized remark that all men in their 20's only cared about sex despite not giving another try at it and decided to put off on dating. Studied and worked and now you think that men in the 30's age group are more serious about commitment and will pursue them.
@BubbleBoy69 what? Dude, all I said was of you choose to let people play games that's your choice and that if you don't want to play games they cna be avoided... you then whined that avoiding games would mean not getting very many dates, to which I responded saying yeah pretty much but it's better than putting up with bullshit lol I refused to put up with any bullshit and, yeah, it meant being single for a long fucking time... but it worked out for me in the end because I ended up with a great dude who communicates, cares about me and doesn't dick around.
@Sara413 "you then whined that avoiding games would mean not getting very many dates, to which I responded saying yeah pretty much but it's better than putting up with bullshit lol "
Lol more like i gave a realistic explanation why doing this would mean having low amount women to choose from based on age range where majority of women play mental games with guys. I mean it seems to women that when a man brings up concern he is whining but when a woman does it she is just voicing a legitimate concern.
@BubbleBoy69 wait.. so.. you complaining that women play mind games isn't whining or generalizing, but me countering that just as many guys play games somehow is? Wtf? Lol
Literally ALL I am saying is that whether you're male or female, whether you're attracted to men or women, some people play stupid games and the younger the age range the more of them do. You can either choose to put up with that shit or choose not to... but sure, turn this into a men vs women issue... that's always productive!
@Sara413 "wait.. so.. you complaining that women play mind games isn't whining or generalizing, but me countering that just as many guys play games somehow is? Wtf? Lol"
No that's not how my logic is flowed. My logic was that women playing games and mind games are prevalent in their 20's and varies from women to women. Walking away from every women once she starts playing mind games even a little isn't a suitable solution. I made no comment that you were whining (look at my statements above. i NEVER SAID YOU whined). You ask why were u single for "MOST" of your 20's and i decided to give a possible reason for why you might have been.
THIS IS LOGICALLY RECALL OF OUR CONVERSATION.
@BubbleBoy69 and I said for women the situation is not any different. Point being you can either choose to be desperate and let women walk all over you because you prefer that to simply being single for a while, or you can choose to respect yourself and not waste your efforts on immature women who play games. Obviously you have no interest in ACTUALLY hearing what I am saying so I'm the fuck out. Have fun being toyed with :)
@Sara413 Bless you, Sara. Well said!
Not all boys can
@Sara413 And yet you don't seem to get it. I don't know what guys you've been with but men make it pretty clear with direct words/intention, compliments, asking you out. The only time a guy plays games such as taking a long time to call back, not messaging at all with no reply is if he's talking to other girls, busy or hasn't check his phone in a while.
Guys must actively approach and talk to women, guys sometime have to put up with the games and can't afford to walk away because many men have to go through several women for one to say yes. Meanwhile women can afford to walk away because the guy who starts playing games with you, you can drop him and another guy will lined up. In short, mate selection for women is far greater and men in more scarcity.
Your advice doesn't seem frugal for a guy's point of view to walk away at the first instance of games because your giving advice without factoring difference in dating experience between both sexes (ALL men aren't Chad).
@BubbleBoy69 you truly believe that generalizations about women are true and that generalizations about men are wrong? There's no getting through to you... Jesus...
And really... every woman has dozens of men lined up waiting to date her, of which the majority are quality dudes totally worth dating? REALLY?
Why is it so hard to acknowledge that the dating game isn't easy for men or for women? Is it really so complicated to understand? Lol
If you want to use the numbers game as an excuse to trade in your self respect for dumb drama and mind games instead of growing a fuckin backbone and having standards, go right ahead but it's not gonna make you happy and it sure as shit isn't gonna help you find a happy and fulfilling relationship.
@Sara413 "you truly believe that generalizations about women are true and that generalizations about men are wrong? There's no getting through to you... Jesus... "
I don't know why you girls try to tell men their experience in life is wrong and then feed them something that's out of a fairy tale when reality speaks otherwise.
1) Do men still approach women for most encounters. YES.
2) Do men often have to be the ones to ask women out on dates and message them. YES.
3) Is dating and relationship harder for men than it is for women. YES.
4) Do men have to ask several women out before one says yes. TRUE.
These are the reality. Women tend to have people approach them and men don't. I don't get why girls on this site tend to tell men otherwise like if feeding them a lie will make their dating experience better.
@BubbleBoy69 you're right... your experience is universal and mine is merely an opinion... yawn. I'm done.
"Why is it so hard to acknowledge that the dating game isn't easy for men or for women? Is it really so complicated to understand? Lol "
Because reality says otherwise. The only reason a woman chooses to remain single for years is because she actively rejects the offer of men who want a relationship with her or took a break from dating. There are even pictures of a very ugly woman who was getting flooded with messages by men better looking than her for dates. Daitng/sex is far easier for women than it is men this is reality due to men having lower standards compared to woemn. A man being single for a very long time may not be because of him not trying but because of constant rejection and some men do take a break from said rejection because of women. This is reality.
Why spin a fairy tale that men and women have it equal when ti is definitely not the case? This whole equality movement doesn't transition to everything you know.
"If you want to use the numbers game as an excuse to trade in your self respect for dumb drama and mind games instead of growing a fuckin backbone and having standards, go right ahead but it's not gonna make you happy and it sure as shit isn't gonna help you find a happy and fulfilling relationship."
And it's not trading in your self respect but being realistic. Women tend to bring drama, tend to bring mind games whether they are aware of it or not. Hence, we have a term called shit test which often relate to women testing men resolve and funny memes which often talk about how women say one thing with their words but mean something completely different.
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yeah the lesbian bisexual thing is really common now. I think it's disrespectful to real ones.
LOL THIS IS ME <3
@Afrochick How sad.
@snowangle I know what you mean, I have the problem of women not taking NO for an answer. I guess I shouldn't be too surprised given the high number of thirsty desperadoes out there that will stick it into anything...
Have you actually met a female?
yeah... nice try with the generalizing bucko.
People who believe this are stupid, jeez.
Who shit in your cereal this morning?
let me guess you've never had a girlfriend?