Hey everyone so my next myTake sounds kinda bold but I tried not to make it sexual. Last one How to Be the Guy Nearly Every Girl Wants got mostly positive response so I thought I should write about something else and here we are.
Seduction is a vast topic and it varies from girl to girl and situation to situation. This is very small basic part of it. Couldn't cover everything of course maybe I'll continue and go more deep if this one goes right. Again it's totally based on my personal experience and is for fun.
Find a girl you wanna be with
Well this is obvious one. You need to find a girl in order to seduce. She can be anyone : your girlfriend, a friend you like, some random girl etc.
Make an Impression
Remember when James Bond enters in the room and all eyes are on him ? Yep that's what I'm talking about. You don't need to do a desperate attention seeking move. Just be confident, wear something cool and have an attitude people adore. Believe me she'll notice.
Approach her in a subtle way
A lot of people are confused about this concept. Approaching doesn't require a silly pickup line. Just go to her introduce yourself then compliment her in a non creepy way and simply ask her a question to turn it into a conversation.
Earn her Trust
This is something you can't miss. It's very important cause a girl needs to trust you in order to do stuff ya know ? So make her feel comfortable and safe around you. Play by her rules. Chivalry is king. Adapting to her mood gives her nothing to defend or resist. Instead she will feel at home with you and lower her guard.
Have you ever noticed that your most popular friend who constantly seems to be liked by people also happens to be the life of party and fun ? Makes sense, right ? People who know how to have fun are magnetic not only in friendship but with girls. If you can't make her laugh then you got a problem. Laughing is not only a good way to emotionally bond with your girl but its a well-known aphrodisiac as well... If all else fails, rent a personality.
Touch and Tickle her on the right places
This is a bit tricky. Find ways to break the touch barrier flirtatiously and create some sexual tension. Take her hand to lead her around a club or wherever you meet her. Guide her by placing your hand on her back. Try and slowly get her more comfortable with your touch. Okay now take your finger and run it very lightly around the edge of your lips. Feel that ? There's some very sensitive skin around the edge of the mouth. Kiss her just at the corner of the mouth, neck, ear and deny her a proper kiss for a few minutes no matter how much she tries. You'll drive her crazy. Tell her what you'd like to do to her while touching her. But don't spill the beans like "I want to fuck you hard" nah wrong thing to do, instead say something like "Let’s skip dinner, I’m interested in going straight for dessert." It's indirect, creative and contains a compliment. Focus on her erogenous zones. But don't over do it.
Mystery and Pace is Important
Seduction is all about being mysterious and unpredictable. A movie or a show is boring when you know what's gonna happen next. As you proceed, take it slow. Pay attention to what she wants and what pleases her. Try to be in tune with her needs so the experience is mutually pleasurable. Occasionally stop and ask if something feels good and pay close attention to how she responds. Just amaze her with your skills cause satisfying a girl is more than just putting your dick inside her. You gotta keep in mind that girls are emotional creatures.
The Ultimate Move
Strip for her #MagicMike style 🤟 LOL
That movie taught me a lot cause girls watched it for fun and I watched it as a lesson. But not every guy is willing to do that cause either they can't dance or don't have a physique to pull it off so you can sing for her instead.
As I said in the beginning this is a vast topic and it varies from girl to girl and situation to situation. The thought was to give you an idea and now you can be creative and improvise depending on your situation and girl. Creativity is important.
That's it for this time and avoid if I did any grammatical mistakes. English isn't my first language. Let me know if you like it. 🙏