Think a female coworker likes me. Am I losing it?

[ed1980]

So there's this insanely attractive coworker of mine I'm pretty sure is into me but I'm not certain. I think I'm not sure because I've lost 60 pounds and 6 months ago this girl was out of my league. I've been looking at her body language and I think its saying she wants me. I just need a woman's opinion. Here are the signs:

*gives me a big smile everytime I go by her desk
*moves her hair to one side when we talk so I can see her neck
*leans in towards me so I can see her cleavage (she does it a lot)
*laughs at every lame joke I say, she seems to laugh everytime we talk
*legs are always crossed and points to me, she could easily put them under her desk
*comes to me with work problems but there are others who are closer who could help
*looks up at me but her face is pointing down, can see her looking up and down
*raised her arms above her head to straighten her hair and exposes her armpits (my stomach had that butterfly feeling for a while after that)
*is not afraid to take her purse out in front of me, has asked me to watch it even though she could take it with her
*never breaks eye contact with me

So as you can see, I'm pretty sure this girl is crushing on me. I'm a little hesitant to make a move because we are coworkers and I don't want to screw anything up. But I don't want to miss an opportunity if it is there. I think a lot of the hesitation is on my end because of my lack of confidence due to my weight and this girl is a solid 10. Just need a woman's opinion to tell me if I'm seeing things or not.

Thanks.

[Anonymous]

You think she is crushing on you? Lol I hope you are not just day dreaming. None of them are the signs that girls would usually make to get attention from guys... It' sounds like she is just playing around lol. She knows that you like her for sure. That is why she is doing so.

[suzannahh]

go for it!