He has hinted he wants to meet up with me. He isn't pressuring me or anything but does seem interested in grabbing coffee or dinner or something.
I just began talking to him though. About how long should I wait to meet with him?
I'm a little nervous about meeting him in person lol, but I do like him so far. I just wanted to talk to him for a bit online first.
I also don't want to wait so long that he loses interest though. When would be a good time?
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Well, weigh-in on the pros and cons. First, you like him, so it's a good thing, but do you like him for whatever he told you so far, and are you able to take his word for it? That's one question you might want to consider.
Next, you should pay a close attention to reading whatever he types, you can actually inductively tell what's going on in his mind, whether he's an incoherent, superstitious person, or if he's reasonable, rational, etc.
I'd watch for these two signs. Time isn't an issue really, if you find a reasonable guy, then you can meet him no problem. Just try and spot out the creeps.
Yeah definitely. I'm trying to see if he's genuine. I told him I'm not having casual sex with him and he's still making the effort to to talk to me and he flirts a little which is good..
I want to talk to him a little more to make sure he's not a weirdo for sure. I feel like a creep would be very insistent on meeting me and he's not like that which I like.
Well, my suggestion is, meet him in a public place during rush hour. This way you can't be hurt or followed, busy places tend to have police officers nearby etc. Or carry a mace (I believe that's legal in the U. S.).
Um... To be honest, we're all psychological weirdos, but it varies in degrees. I'd say the best way to catch a weirdo off-guard is to talk about some random topic that has a contentious issue, and to see how he handles it. If you can put up a philosophical conversation, see how he understands it, see his reaction, you can pick up if he's superstitious, stupid, ignorant, incoherent, etc. Good luck.