How do I make a guy regret not dating me?

[Anonymous]

for some reason this guy liked me but just lost interest in me and went for another girl i know, i guess he was just a player, we ignore each other now, how do i make him regret his decision? if i ignore him does it even bother him? we used to be so nice with each other be friends

[thetundrawolf]

Did you have sex?

Unfortunately if you did, there's not much "more" to the relationship that you can do to get him or win him back.

You can't make him regret it. He has to come to that conclusion on his own. The fact that you want to make him regret means he probably never will.

[Asker]

no we didn't

[thetundrawolf]

Ah, okay, good. Be thankful then, that he;s out of your life, because it's likely that was all he wanted.

Don't try to make unworthy guys want you. It will only break your heart.

[Asker]

i can't explain it its like i dont want to date him anymore but i i want him to feel bad about losing me =[ he used to give me so much attention and i can't pinpoint that if it was all fake and games to begin with he was just messing with me or he just lost interest and went for the other girl

[thetundrawolf]

That kind of guy will bounce from woman to woman, even after he's married. Yes... he manipulated you. It is probably because you did not have sex with him than he moved on. Be glad he is not showing you any attention.

In the future he might... And you might be flattered by the attention, but he is not capable of any true commitment. He has to want to change, and that's hard.

Listen to your instincts. They are telling you exactly what kind of guy he is... Learn to ignore your heart. Learn to trust that small voice in your gut... It will never let you down.

[Asker]

you are right. thank you so much. i do have to trust my instinct and i ignore him now i dont even look at him.

[sfauo]

The more you try to get revenge, the worse it'll make you look. The best type of revenge though is to continue on with your life happy, this was just one speed bump along the path.

[matrix124]

I think it is a waste of time to try to get a guy or girl to regret not liking you. It is stopping you from finding a guy or girl who does like you.

[blackleo25]

I was just going through the same thing but what everybody said is true he's not worth it and will probably never change

[SteelMagnum]

If he never dated you there are no regrets, you're just hurt he didn't pick you over the other girl.

Move on.

[martmi29]

Let it go, move on.