Is he just trying to butter me up so I hook up with him? Or could he actually like me?

[Anonymous]

A guy I met through mutual friends and I have been hanging out more. I went to a party with him last weekend and he had me sit on his lap while he was sitting down on a bench at the party. He also held my hand or gave me a piggy back ride everytime we went somewhere else that night. He then came back and slept in my room and didn't try to do anything with me but cuddle and then kissed me in the morning. Would he do all this if he didn't like me? If he didbt like me and only wanted to hook up with me would he do all this?

[witzelsucht]

Maybe he himself is just wondering what you think about him. He gave you piggyback rides. You slept in the same room without a problem. I'm assuming that you like him as he obviously does you. This guy is in your hands, so what do you want to do with him? Give him his instructions. Tell him that you want to go to a movie, Starbucks, a museum, a hike, skating, a concert et cetera, and do not want to go alone. When you're with him, hold hands and shoulder bump when walking together. When sitting closely together allow your foot or leg to rest against his. Don't complain or criticize. Make light conversation but allow him plenty of time to speak. Proceed with confidence.

[Asker]

I do really like him and he's always nice when we're together, but he hardly ever texts me. If I text him he will always reply right away, but has only texted me first a couple times. He told me he really likes me but he was drunk and doesn't text me ever

[witzelsucht]

In vino veritas.