Its been a little over 2 weeks next Tuesday will be 3 weeks. We haven't spoken. I cut off contact because I thought he needed space to figure out what he wants. so far I've haven't gotten a text, call, email nothing. He small talks me at my place of work when he stops by but that's probably just to be nice.. (I work at a grocery store)..the other day he came in asking if I was going to a certain going away party I said I wasn't sure. I ended up going anyways. he came later on. He ignored me the entire night. not even a hello or a smile in passing. I caught his a eye a few times but tried not to notice him. I end up getting very drunk. he leaves whilst I'm in the bathroom and then I cried when I realized he had left. I don't understand how someone you were with for a year acts like it meant nothing. and how can he just ignore me like that!?! :( why is he ignoring me?! I don't know if he expects me to make first contact but so far he's acting as if nothing happened and he's happy as can be and I never existed. it hurts so much and its all I can think about...part of me says give it more space and time the other part thinks he's totally moved on...but its so fresh I just don't understand how he could be so cold and hurtful. This is a small town and I'm bound to bump into him often and it doesn't help that we have the same friends. I want him back! answers please! what should I do and why is he being this way!?
He broke up with me and is now ignoring me...why!!?
Its been a little over 2 weeks next Tuesday will be 3 weeks. We haven't spoken. I cut off contact because I thought he needed space to figure out what he wants. so far I've haven't gotten a text, call, email nothing. He small talks me at my place of work when he stops by but that's probably just to be nice.. (I work at a grocery store)..the other day he came in asking if I was going to a certain going away party I said I wasn't sure. I ended up going anyways. he came later on. He ignored me the entire night. not even a hello or a smile in passing. I caught his a eye a few times but tried not to notice him. I end up getting very drunk. he leaves whilst I'm in the bathroom and then I cried when I realized he had left. I don't understand how someone you were with for a year acts like it meant nothing. and how can he just ignore me like that!?! :( why is he ignoring me?! I don't know if he expects me to make first contact but so far he's acting as if nothing happened and he's happy as can be and I never existed. it hurts so much and its all I can think about...part of me says give it more space and time the other part thinks he's totally moved on...but its so fresh I just don't understand how he could be so cold and hurtful. This is a small town and I'm bound to bump into him often and it doesn't help that we have the same friends. I want him back! answers please! what should I do and why is he being this way!?
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