How do you tell the difference between locking eyes out of mutual attraction, or because one caught the other looking at them? (Page 2)
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if he gives you that flirtatious look, then he finds you attractive but if he gives that confuse look or he gives that "why are you looking at me look" then the other caught each other looking at the other
I think it's the same thing, because if you catch someone looking, why were you looking there in the first place, right? Right. You catching my drift here?
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You can't really tell, there isn't much of a difference. But if the person quickly looks away, then they were probably staring at you. But if they hold their gaze they're probably just 'thinking in your direction'
I love this. I have no idea but it's just made me really happy!! This question is almost as awkward as me. :)
My opinion is that if you or the girl notice the other looking at you and the girl doesn't look away, then she isn't interested. I say this because it's common body language for a girl to look down when she shy or nervous being around you because she's attracted to you.
if you feel some sort of attraction, or if you can sense some sort of sexual tension, than it's possible it's attraction rather than just catching the person staring.
Biggest thing: if you lock eyes and one of the two people look away it doesn't always mean they're attracted, but most likely, if you hold that gaze, there may be some attraction there.
For me I think it's an attraction if I catch you looking at me and I don't look away and just give a coy smile. If I get caught looking and I'm not interested you can tell in my body language.
Oh I can tell the difference. If it's for attraction you'd lockk eyes for a few seconds. If you catch someone staring randomly they would look away immediately.
unless they don't want it to be obvious that they were looking
I don't give a guy a second glance unless I think he's hot.
Your loss! There is a saying about hot girls which applies to hit guys, I think. For every drop dead gorgeous girl (guy) out there, there's a guy (girl) who's sick and tired of her (his) bullshit.
I wouldn't want someone to date me if they didn't find me attractive & I certainly don't think someone I didn't find attractive would want to date me. You kind of need sexual attraction. Doesn't mean I'd turn a guy down if I didn't find him hot though. I've dated a 50 year old who most people would say is kind of not very attractive, but I loved who he was.
mutual attraction will involve a smile too. However not always because some people are too shy to smil
This type of question makes me so glad not to live in America. I don't know how you can live with such shallow mentality coming from the media and people. I know I wouldn't cope.
I had that happend to me a lot when i was crush in this one guy back in high school we would locked eyes all the time. How would you not tell the difference? Is placed at each other.
I would say if the person you lock eyes wish looks at you a second time... directly at you and you have nothing odd on or about you they are attracted.
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Dude I don't think you can tell. I recently was told that my sisters friend had eyes for me, after she just married some other dude. I had no idea, even though I had eyes for her too.
If it's because of attraction, you'll lock eyes for like 2-3 seconds minimum. If not, then maybe it wasn't attraction, maybe she was just looking the same place where to you were.
It depends how long it takes one you to look away. The longer the eye contact is held, the more comfortable you are with eachother
If they look confused or if they're intently staring at you with a sort of smile behind their eyes. that's the difference between the two.
For me, it is the internal "slow burn" that a persons locking eyes creates within me, which, when
mutual, is usually followed by his or her compliments about my face and body.
ie: Im bisexual :P
Attraction is when she looks away and then looks back