Can you feel the mutual attraction through eye contact?

[Anonymous]

Guys I need help, I have a crush on my guy friend and recently every time we look at each other I feel that there is something going on, for example one time we were in a group sitting talking about marriage and when he was talking he looked at me and say” maybe she’ll be a doctor too”(we both are med students) I really felt that he was talking about me through his eyes

also another time I was talking with my friend about my needs in my partner and then we looked at each other and he asked” how much age difference is acceptable for you?”

and a lot of times I just feel it in my gut but I don’t really know if there is something really or it’s all in my head.

[ohsheeT]

Well you know the best part about it is you're going to find out one day.

As for right now you keep doing what you're doing in school if it's meant to be you're either going to talk to him about it or he's going to talk to you about it it's that simple

You can romance the idea but everything else comes first until one of you make a move.

So just don't dream or fantasize about it you'll do something about it or clear from your head and keep doing your school it will come together if it's meant to be

[ohsheeT]

Oh and by the way to answer your question

Eye contact is one of the most important and beautiful things you will ever do in your life especially when you understand it

[Asker]

Yes that’s it🥹
If it’s meant to be it will be!
Thank you so much

[Asker]

Yes it is!!

[DaveJord]

Yes, you can tell how a woman looks at you, if she finds you attractive, or if she wants to ripe your clothes off. That is a fact.

[IslaTheWitch]

If you feel there is something more, it probably means there is something more. The question is if you both feel the same "something more".

And there is no better way to answer this question than making a move. Yeah!!

Talk with him about those situations and ask what he had in mind. Or invite him and talk over a coffee in some nice place, only two of you? Find out if your guesses are valid or if you are just imagining things. The sooner you know, the less expectations you create.

[Asker]

I’d like to make a move, but I’m just little scared since we’re friends and we’re in the same group of friends..

[Anonymous]

It seems like he is into you too, he is asking some good question to get closer to you.


However, I never actually had to consider the feelings of a crush. I recently experience something similar and I’m not sure those feelings are rational or reliable, it’s more like a brain fog to me.

[Asker]

Yes I feel that there’s something especially because he asks only me in the group whereas doesn’t ask my other girlfriends.
But as you say it’s like a brain fog

[Opinion Owner]

The brain fog was only about my situation not yours. Lol! I don’t know much about yours lol.

If you both agree/believe that your feelings are mutual, and you wanna take this further, don’t be the receiver, be a taker too.
Don’t let him ask all the questions, I’m sure you probably want some reassurance too. You might want to ask some leading questions here and there. I didn’t say interrogate him….!

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t « just » be a receiver, be a taker too.

[Boomchakalaca]

Juicy content. He’d be on my mind all day (i fall in love with people instantly)

[Asker]

lol😂

[ZainabAli123]

When a guy looks at you especially in a group setting it’s a definitely a sign of interest

[Asker]

Thanks!

[ZainabAli123]

I hope it works out for you both man :)

[Asker]

Aww thank you I hope that too🥹!

[Anonymous]

I would never assume someone is attracted to me unless they say it and show it. Eye contact can mean anything and often misinterpreted.

[Asker]

You’re right

[litty736]

He is definitely into you. I am curious, what's the age gap if you don't mind me asking.

[Asker]

If you mean the gap between me& him is 8 months (he’s older), I think he asked because I’ve mentioned before that I want my partner to be older

[DizzyDesii]

I rarely make eye contact but when i do it often turns into full on eyesex lol. So yes

[WhitneySnow]

You can definitely feel it but sometimes if you like them a lot you can mislead yourself into seeing things that aren’t there. In this case though I agree with you.

[ThrillSeeker01]

Yes, very much. Especially if you look into each other's eyes longer than usual.

[Nikki1989]

Nope, you would be only guessing.

[Anonymous]

I have only really once.

[Tharithi]

How old are u both

[Asker]

We’re both 22