Signs a guy wants something serious?

[Anonymous]

Signs a guy wants a relationship. For example, a guy I know that I'm interested in talks to me every day, always asks to see me, introduces me to his friends and I've met a few of his family members, he asks to see me most weekends and gives me plenty of notice, days to even a week. And if we catch up on the weekend, he'll ask to see me Friday night and possibly Saturday day/night, he will hold my hand in public and he's kissed me on the cheek before in front of one his friends, but for a kiss on the lips he will try and do it in public which I respect. We talk about what we like, our families, and he talks to me about his work and friends. Whenever we text, we text for hours and always joke around, he sometimes sends me links of funny videos on YouTube (I feel we have a similar sense of humour), he gives of that 'safe' feeling and gives me compliments I usually don't hear before. However, he has not once yet told me how he feels therefore what really are the signs that a guy is looking for something serious?

[SpectatingWanderer]

My theory is he's either scared in fear of rejection or he's only in it for perverted reasons. He sounds like a genuine guy, really it's just the kissing part that kinda leads me on one desicion of my theory. Listen, if he is the guy I think he is, well then he's a great guy. There is one caution though. If he brings up sex and hesitates when you say no to his offer (if any words are even involved) then he's probably just in it for the sex. Of he truly does want a relationship or love he would/should wait if not never want sex if that is your decision. True love is about the relationship the bond. Right now you seem to have that. Tell him how you feel, when you're ready. Sometimes guys want to talk about it, but don't know how. Take the initiative and start the conversation. You'll feel better about when it's over (I'm talking about the converation).

Good luck ^_^

[Asker]

So what are the signs he's in it for perverted reasons? Talking about sex to you?

[SpectatingWanderer]

Yes, pretty much when he jokes about sex or brings it up before or after you tell him you want to wait. If you ever are having a passionate moment and he keeps trying to push it further just tell him you're not ready or a simple stop. A guy that truly cares will stop it all together.

[Asker]

If he hasn't tried to do anything else with me other than kiss, is that a good or bad thing?

[SpectatingWanderer]

Sounds all good to me ^_^

[Anonymous]

Well he couldn't be more clear that he likes you in a serious way. Ugh.

[pyramid_princess]

If he introduces you to his family and friends, if he's reliable, but the give away would be , when he talks about the future, he mentions you in it too. Therefore he is picturing you as part of his life in the future, not just the present.

Maybe he is waiting for you to mention how you feel, before he wears his heart on his sleeve. some people find it difficult to say how they feel, so show it in various ways instead. By your description, he seems to think a lot of you , and is serious about you.

[Asker]

Is talking about coming to visit me somewhere in the future (to stay with me) an example of picturing me as a part of his future? Thanks for the help!

[pyramid_princess]

your welcome! If he talks about things you will be doing together or places you will go as a couple , he pictures you as a long term relaionship

[pyramid_princess]

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[shadowlegend]

He asks you out or tells you he wants a relationship with you.

[incognito121]

Just take it slow he will tell you when he is ready if you push it you may scare him off. But he seems like he is trying to show you that he isn't after one thing that potentially it could become more.

[Michaelfreltofte]

Probably, Best Thing is to ask him

[shadowlegend]

He says "I want to be in a relationship with you."