I exposed my ex bf after cheating, but I still dont feel better?

[Anonymous]

I showed his other girlfriend of 7 years that he was cheating. she ended up breaking up with him. but in the end i still feel shitty about the situation because i was just the "other woman"(unknowingly for a year) he never really love me. he did love her. and i broke them up.

im sure theyll get back together but I don't know i just feel like crap and he keeps messaging me to make sure i feel shitty about what i did

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+1 y

I didn't know I was the other woman. I thought I was his only. I wouldn't never knowingly get involved with a taken man.

[Anonymous]

It's ok to let her know what he was doing , If you let her know without disrespecting her. Because if she didn't know what he was doing , She's innocent in all of this. I think you might feel guilty because you disrespected her , You should feel guilty. But don't keep beating yourself up , Just don't repeat the mistake. I have a feeling that you knew he had woman , And you got tired of being the chick on the side. That's why he's making you feel guilty , But you both should feel guilty.

[ThisxxLovexx]

He is a dick and he wants you to feel shitty. By feeling shitty, you are giving him what he wants. His gf needed to know. He was a two timing fucker who was playing you both. You have every right to feel upset about the situation, but don't feel shitty for exposing him. Now you can work on getting your happiness and confidence back and find a real man who will treat you right.

[Anonymous]

No need to feel shitty about it. His gf needed to know that the guy she is/waa dating is a jerk. I would've done the same thing if i were you. Wait, but you didn't know they were still together when you were dating that guy right?

[Asker]

i had my suspicions for a long time. but he told me they had broken up. i felt like they were deep down inside but i guess i let my own love for him blind me from his lies. until i couldnt take feeling crazy anymore and found out on my own

[Opinion Owner]

Well in that case you did the right thing. Dont feel bad about it. he's an ass. You and his ex gf deserves someone better :)

[DodgersGM]

Well, first of all stop accepting his messages. That needs to end.

Secondly, I think it's fine to feel a healthy amount of remorse, but you just gotta let it go and make a learning experience out of the situation. What you did was wrong, you know it was wrong, and now you can avoid that behavior in the future.

You're only human, so cut yourself some slack.

[lkjhg69cum]

Because it was a shitty thin to do. You got down in the mud and are surprised that you feel dirty after?

[Asker]

how'd i get down in the mud? he cheated on us both and messed with me into thinking he loved me

[lkjhg69cum]

Ph, I'm sorry, after I re-read the question I saw that you didn't know you. were the other woman. I retract my statement, with an apology.

[JackKerouac77]

Paint a painting or draw a picture while listening to music. Express your sadness.

Maybe you don't want to be "the other woman" anymore? Maybe you just want to be "the woman"?

[RaCeRKiD5]

Yes. Thats how revenge and trying to hurt other people works. Gratifying on paper.. pointless in real life

[thewanderingme]

block him or forward his messages to her.