I broke up with him a month ago. He has a new (more unattractive) girlfriend. I have a new fling.
Should I tell him?
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I'm certainly not going to say anything as harsh as a lot of the other comments, but my question would be, what do you hope to gain from telling him?
It sounds to me like you're upset that he's found someone new. The reason I sense that is that you felt the need to say that she is less attractive than you. I'm going to guess that the reason you want to tell him is because you want to hurt him even more. If that's the case, then no, you shouldn't tell him. He's moved on and you should too. There's no reason to bring up things that have happened in the past that don't have any bearing in the present. It would be different if you were still with him, or wanted to get back together with him, but wanted honesty in your relationship with him. Since you don't have a relationship with him anymore, and the two of you aren't looking to get back together, this will just create unnecessary hurt and anger. Don't tell him because of spite.
I can't really think of any other reason why you'd want to tell him, but feel free to comment if there is one and I'll share my two cents on it.
But really, I think the best thing is to not tell him. It's in the past, leave it there.0