He probably looks like this.
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But seriously, everyone does that. Maybe he doesn't feel like trying to take a good selfie every minute.
Lol I know what he looks like, and I would love to see his face. But I seriously didn't know this was a thing that people didn't always send pics of their face. why not just text then?
I would rather text if anything. I agree it's exhausting too try and look cute. But guys have it easy, they just wake up and look hot, girls actually have a lot of different factors
Factors like hair and makeup and making sure we look good and that we're not showing too much cleavage or anything
I did text him we chatted for a bit and that was it. Then he added me on snapchat two days later so I snapped him.
Well I don't want to be the one to always go first. And I figured I texted him first. Then he added me on snapchat so I snapped him. But we leave for spring break on Friday and I don't want him to forget me (lol that sounds super pathetic)
I don't know, some girl you kind of hooked up with, would you remember her two weeks later? And yes I feel like if I'm always the one initiating it will seem desperate. I have somehow managed to not run into him even though my school isn't that big. I wouldn't mind running into him, just to kind of see how he would react.
Well we made out, I ended up topless, braless, and pants less. Mostly dry humping and touching. I wasn't about to have sex with him. I told him no, he said that's fine.
That's why the spring break thing is a problem. I feel like he'll forget about me. We're only 20 so it's not likely he's going anywhere for spring break
I'm not the flirtiest person, the extent of my flirting is pretty much light teasing and :) or ;)
Lol Spring break is only a week it's not a problem unless you think he'll hook up with someone else?
Oh man ":) and ;)" how do you keep the boys away lol good news is I've seen worse so you're not that bad haha and if you guys have taken it that far already I'm sure he knows you're interested.
I don't really think he will get with some other girl.
And granted we were a little drunk. I don't really think he was as drunk as me. so I guess that means a little. I wasn't sloppy drunk. I was drunk enough to know I actually wanted to get with this guy but "sober" enough not to go too far.
I know, Im an amazing flirt right? I'm better when I know the guy is flirting with me. I'm pretty sure 15 year old me was a better flirt than 20 year old me
I never told him I didn't want to do anything. The only thing I said was my pants weren't coming off. which they eventually did, but my underwear stayed on. lol.
I just really never EVER do this kind of thing, and I don't really know what the sort of protocol is for the after. I wouldn't mind seeing him more, but I'm a terrible flirt and every guy I've like snapped and texted has always ended up just being a friend. I don't know if kind of doing this first will help at all.
Lol you couldn't help yourself haha there's no set protocol lol you either ignore the person and forget or you keep talking to them. If you wouldn't mind seeing him then don't avoid him on campus lol
Maybe you send off too many friendly vibes, you need to learn how to subliminally sexualize your conversations. Not all conversations and don't be obvious about it either but enough for him to think "Wait did she mean?" That would mess with his mind lol
You've definitely been so much help. I really appreciate you're advice. I dont know why but I feel this need to try and communicate with him. But I don't want to start every single time.
I haven't been trying to avoid him on campus. Actually the opposite. I hung out in the union all week doing homework and never saw him. Normally I just hang in our team room and work there. (I'm a swimmer btw)
And I know I'll sound crazy, and I actually hate not knowing. But I don't know if he's interested or not. I hope he doesn't think I'm not attractive after he stalked my Facebook or something and saw my pics. Then think I was some drunken mistake. I'd like to think I'm pretty, I know you can't really tell. But I know I'm not ugly for sure. I know I'm being insecure and I hate the fact that guys make me feel this way. I feel like I maybe did something weird when we were together. He was my first "hook up" I guess, and It makes me feel like I did something wrong...
I don't know if I told you this, but I texted him the next day and said "I had fun last night, I hope you did too :)" and he responded that he did too and was sorry that his roommate had to come back. I guess that's good.
Sorry for ranting about this, I'm sure you have better things to do then help me. But I really appreciate your advice
" I dont know why but I feel this need to try and communicate with him"
Because you like him lol it makes us do weird things :P
Oh you're a swimmer that's awesome lol I know how to swim but I'm sure you'd beat me in a race haha
I know there are stereotypes about guy just wanting sex with any moving thing lol but in reality you don't go that far with a girl if you don't find her attractive. Lol you're right I can't see you xD I guess if you wanted another opinion you could message me but that's up to you lol no big deal
Oh the text is definitely a good sign if he didn't care, he probably would have just ignored you completely.
lol rant away :P i'm here to help haha and you're welcome :)
you earned it
everyone does that. they just take a quick snap of whatever is in front of them to send a message because they want the points. you don't raise your snap score by texting on snapchat, you need to send snaps.
Seriously? I didn't know this was a thing!! I thought he just wasn't into me
I do it, my friends do it, everyone does it. its all about that snap score, which is kinda retarded because you don't gain anything from a high snap score, at least I don't think lol.
His snap score is above you on his list of priorities.
Is that your goal? Just for a higher snap score? Bc I have never cared about that. With the new update you can't even see other peoples scores so what does it matter?
I personally don't care for it, I don't send snaps anymore, when people ask me a question in the form of a snap I just swipe right and start texting them instead of taking a snap. when I used to do it for the score though I would just take a quick picture of whatever my camera is facing because its all about convenience.
So it doesn't mean he's not into me? I mean would he really respond if he wasn't?
no it doesn't mean that lol. you know he could just be in class while snapping you and isn't able to take a selfie if he wanted too. I wouldn't take a selfie every time just to send a snap to a girl unless we wanted to show each other something (not sexual). as long as he's responding I say you're in the clear. don't let social media fuck you over, shit gets retarded.
Well it was 8 at night and he was in his room... And I hate all this social media crap. It messes with how people act and makes things more complicated
whatever you do, don't let social media interfere with your reality.
I never know what people actually think because they can just hide behind a screen
that's why human interaction is so important, social media gets rid of that. back then when Billy had a crush on Susie he couldn't stalk her Facebook first or see what her Instagram could tell him about her, he just had to go up and talk to her. it was much simpler times and it can still be like that today, not as common but still acceptable. you'll never fully know a person without being in person, make efforts to strive towards that.
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The same reason girls usually post body pics without a face. They don't want to be identified, in case they break up etc..
Everybody does this on smapchat...
Why? Everyone I snap chat uses their face. But I guess I usually snap just friends.
he probaly ugly or jus shy
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