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i have plenty of white friends that love black girls. That's just been my experience. I don't think it has anything to do with your skin color or features. I'm a person of color myself. I've never thought of my skin color as a disadvantage. This attitude has benefited me greatly.Oh yeah and by the way both me and my friends think curves are great!
i cannot tell you if people will find you physically attractive, since you don't have a picture of yourself up... but there's still plenty of guys that like curvy... myself included btw.
and being afraid that guys won't like you back isn't going to get you very far, but if the reason that they won't go into a relationship with you is your skin colour, you must consider that, perhaps, its better that they don't want anything to do with you.
Think about it.
Oh yeah, I forgot; you sort of interest me, friend me sometime or send me a message?
I really don't know what it is, and I feel sh\tty for saying it, but I just really don't find black girls attractive. I'm the farthest thing from racist, I just don't it's weird. Not to say I'd never be in a relationship with an African American person, I just find it less likely. That's quite possibly just me though 'cause I've never been around many other social castes.
You're like me, I just don't like the skin..
Maybe it is the skin. I don't know.
Don'f feel crappy about how you feel. There was a question, and you answered it. I'm a black female....and I'm glad that you were truthful. We can't learn from lies. :)
Heh alright true facts :)
I came across this post and had to respond. DON'T FEEL SH"TTY ABOUT THAT! lol. I hate how people feel as if they have to walk on eggshells... Be cool!
Word.
Whaaaat? My boyfriend secretly hates me? :o
But no, really, you've probably just had shittly luck finding some. I've been with my boyfriend (who is white if you haven't caught that yet) for 11 months now and I couldn't be happier! You just gotta keep looking! Believe me, there ARE out there.
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Though, he DOES love my bum, so maybe that's the one stereotype you need. :D
noooooooooooooo.
i recon they are intimidated, cause you all (sorry I know this is a generalisation and I don't know you personally so I'll have to go on this..) anyway, oh yes, you all are so bubbily and happy, and it intimidates them :D
ALL GUYS ARE COWARDS.
basically:)
take care xx
Lolwut? I'm a pasty white guy (mostly Irish/Scottish/Nordic ancestors) and I don't hate black girls!
I had a crush on a black coworker once. She was kind of soft-spoken, never violent or abusive, fairly curvy and really pretty. She was also well-educated and I heard from co-workers she might be kind of into me... but then she got some kind of fellowship in Europe and moved away. Bummer.
I don't think white guys dislike black women, A lot of white guys just avoid having relationships with them because of what their family would think.
Not that white families are racist or anything they just raise their children to not be interracial especially if they were raised with older generations of family.
Yeah that's a generalization.Some do and some don't. Its really based on preference. Like some guys like bigger girls as others like skinnier ones. Some men/women of all races will be rascist and not want someone outside of their race but not all are like that. Just put yourself out there and if the first one turns you down for whatever reason, there will be another to take his place.
Because I'm mixed of so many races, I;m not sure what steryotypes I fit into or not. As a result, I accept the best ones :D
I'm 1/4 black, so I have a big penis (;D)
I'm 1/4 Japanese, so I'm really smart.
I'm 1/4 White, so the police won't pull me over.
and bits and pieces of other things.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
That's all a joke. btw
Anyways, I look more white than anything else, so I guess I'm applicable to this question. and I say: I like me some hot chocolate ;D.
Im from the UK and I have actually dated a white guy and other white guys have been interested in me but from my opinion (talking about the British lads here) they tend to gravitate towards the black girls who don't fit the stereotype, they don't like the loud and rude and full of attitude black girls but the nice ones that you can hold a conversation with without feeling intimidated, I think it's about your personality and the way you carry yourself I don't necessarily believe it's about the colour of your skin also preferences, some guys have preferences you just gotta deal with that. by the way curves are beautiful be proud of your body !
i go to a majority white HS and I have personally never have had a problem with white guys or any other type of guy in my school. All types of guys say that am attractive. maybe it is where you live because I am not a skinny girl at all and most guys no matter what ethnicity like any girl with a butt or boobs
haha awwwh yuu must have a thing for white guys hehe ^-^
but a white guy is still a guy
they'll date yuu if they find yuu hot
and yuu have a great personality
and that's all there it is to it
i mean unless the guys a racist slag
omg stereotypes are totally stupid
and hardly anyone ever fits them ha ha :PP
I think you're generalizing based on your experiences. I'm African, living in the US and it's so amazing how many times I've been hit on by white men! I think it's how you carry yourself as an individual. Most of the white men I've come across say that they like the fact that they are able to converse with a woman and engage in topics ranging from current affairs to the Mets game. You have to be well rounded and not give into the negative stereotypes which unfortunately most of the sisters here live up to. If you're an educated sister, you're considered "bougey" (if I got the spelling right) and if you're uneducated, loud and obnoxious, you're considered "ghetto". Trust me, I'd rather be considered bougey any day than ghetto. It's just not attractive and that's probably why white men don't want to deal with sisters because of that mentality. It is what it is and unless attitudes change, you will always be placed in that category. You have to stand up and individualize yourself!
Maybe it's just the guys you go for. If the guy doesn't like you go on to the next one. The guy I'm seeing now is white and he likes me just the way I am, and I don't have a "black booty" either (I got something though lol). Some white guys are just too shy or think you won't go for them, so you might have to make the first move.
You sound perfectly likable. The biggest issue you're gonna have is whether or not they find black women attractive. Admittedly I don't usually find black girls attractive, that's not to say they aren't or that I haven't found any of them to be so. It's just not my thing. frankly save for the fact you're a little young you sound attractive enough that the usual disinterest would swiftly be put aside.
That's a stereotype and you're probably hanging around the wrong guys if that's how you feel. Try expanding your variety of friends and don't be afraid to go up and talk to a guy you like, and most importantly be confident in yourself and that you are attractive.
woooooow, I don't know where you're from, or what you've been experienced to, but I'm from cali, the bay, and from what I've seen, white guys L0000VE black girls! black girls&white guys are like the most common interacial couples! I deno girl seems to me that you need to get more comfortable & secure with yourself. From your question you seem real negative towards your own ethnicity "they won't like because of a factor I can't control-sad face!?" you should embrace what you are & love yourself because ur mix sounds really beautiful! good luck! :)
i am a girl completely straight but I have always thought the "mixed" girls that were some black and some white were the most beautiful. white boys at my school though seem to rule out black girls for some reason unknown to me but keep your head up high school boys can be shallow and only go for the petite blondes (I have always been the tall brunette) but sooner or later they will grow in taste and appreacite more different looking girls and see their different looks as even more beautiful than the everyday cheerleader type. look for boys who are more mature and willing to accept you the way you are!
I wouldn't go as far as to say that they HATE black girls. It simply because they're intimidated! we look totally different from what they're used to and they're just scared! Just be yourself! Everyone is attracted to confidence! Before you know it, you'll be getting the cutie with the blue eyes!
You can blame our social books for that to some degree. Its pounded into our heads that being White is evil. And so we think all minorities hate us then and don't trust them as much then if they had just shut up and concentrated on the race of 'Humanity' oh shocker. LOL
You sound really cute hope things work out for you.