Are people just oblivious to the fact that someone likes them?

[Anonymous]

So I've noticed that people think their crushes don't like them but they actually do and they end up dating.

Are most people oblivious/more oblivious to the fact that someone likes them?

Yes they are

No they're just being modest

Dunno

[mr90skid]

Yes! I'm oblivious to all the damn cues and shit :/ I look back at some of my old text messages I facepalm at all the "hidden messages" and feelings whether they were mad sad or whatever, that I never saw. I would sit there wondering why she suddenly got mad at something then just throw my phone back and turn on my PS3 or something.
I facepalm and at the same time wish women were more straightforward >:O
Why you no just say how you feel?

[That-Guy]

Women are better at reading "attraction" because in general they are approached more often than men are. Also.. men are more direct and these signals tend to be easier to pick up on.

Men are usually doing the leg work and since women communicate indirect and subtle.. it takes men a while to decipher the difference between "nice" and "interested."

[BelleGirl21]

I've never been aware of someone having a crush on me but I'd like to believe it's happened at least once. :/

[MSWSFN]

For me it's sometimes sometimes I can easily tell but other times it hard

[QuestionMan]

I usually can't tell unless she's always looking at me or says that she's interested.

[Anonymous]

It's the opposite for me, the girls who flirt with me tend to not be interested or have boyfriends already.

[Opinion Owner]

So to answer your question, I can never tell if you're being friendly or flirting.

[ixi10]

No I alway know. It's obvious