Are you oblivious when it comes to people liking you?

SodaCheeks
Is this you as well?
Is this you as well?

I was going out for dinner with a new friend. We're in the same studentchoir. We started chatting about relationships, so I told her I've never actually been in a relationship with someone before. Then she tells me she's surprised to hear this, because lots of guys from the choir we're both in apparently told her they thought I was attractive and would be interested in dating me.

Now it was my turn to be surprised, because I had no clue and actually thought none of them were even remotely interested in me, because nobody ever reached out to me. I'm so oblivious to these things. I just think they're being friendly.

Is anyone else this oblivious just like me? and how do you, as an oblivious person, see that someone likes you?

I'd love to hear your stories!
Are you oblivious when it comes to people liking you?
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