Do you get suspicious of people who are too nice to you?

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

It can be anyone.

To be honest, everything requires balance. We too. If we are happy on one day, then we are bound to be not in a happy mood on some other day. It all balances out.

But if you know someone (or are one) who is always nice with you or everyone and never even shows a hint of anger or anyting of that nature, then do alerting bells ring in your mind regarding that person?

Do you find yourself asking as to how is this person balancing it out?

I find myself asking that. You may see, if not noticed already, that my questions on this site range from lighthearted to full on serious at times. They vary. More or less balancing each other out at the end.

[NathanDavis]

nope, not really...

I grew up among a whole lot of people, family, relatives, lots of neighbors... family friends, acquaintances, which was a nightmare for an extremely shy kid as me but I survived it, anyway... I met a lot of people like that, people like they very nice, too nice, and nice all the time... lol, so I just got used to it

I know how it feels, and I know how it looks like... so I always grew up knowing how to tell the difference between someone that's genuinely nice and someone that is pretending to be nice, and also trying too hard

now, of course... all of these people that were very nice also had some of their moments in which they were upset, or a bit angry, I got to see those as well and yes, it was very rare but at the time and the moment, it made sense

by the way... my mother is exactly like this, lmfao, to pretty much everyone else in her life, she's the nicest, the kindest, the most helpful and always in a great mood, and she really is like that, thing is... all the upset, and angry, salty she gets to feel, she would bottle it and save it for later, when she is home and when it is just us, lol

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Happy memories cool down over time. Unhappy memories heat up over time, on an average. But it still depends on the person to let go or not.

I believe all mothers like that.😅

[NathanDavis]

glad I'm not average... I certainly don't dwell on the past that has been

and I surely don't let the happiness just dwindle, lol... I just stack them up like a Lego's castle and enjoy life as much as I can

[GlassTop]

They can be continuously nice as long as you aren’t draining them. The reason people don’t stay nice is because they get taken advantage of. So naturally distrust will spread. It’s draining to always treat other people well and neglect yourself.

[menina]

Yes I do. It's nice to find someone who is good to you but they can't be always good. Something's off. They're either faking it or they want something from you.

[d3n0939]

hi, i feel like i have talked to you very closely with one of my old accounts. Still I am not sure.

[menina]

@d3n0939 Hi, I don't know who you are. But yes it's possible since I talk to some people here.

[d3n0939]

I used to do that a lot. Still I am, I guess.

[menina]

@d3n0939 That can be interesting sometimes.

[d3n0939]

Sure, it is. Especially when you want to chill. Why do you like it?

[menina]

@d3n0939 Exactly. It's refreshing and I'm always ready to meet people.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Trick is to tell who's genuinely nice, and who wants something from you

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

And how do you personally do that?

[OlderAndWiser]

The word "suspicious" may be too strong, but I am certainly looking for their motivations.

[Adam1978]

No but I certainly get suspicious if they try to make some kind of deal. If they just are nice, it no problem. It's not like a nice stranger is more likely to do something unwanted as one that does not treat you well.

[anon1903]

All the fucking time