Do you ever act nice and friendly to someone out of pity? I do this. Should I stop?

[Iijbbhu]

Do you ever act nice and friendly to someone out of pity? I do this. Should I stop?

It seems like every time I befriend or act nice (beyond the basics) to a guy who keeps showing my attention that I didn’t ask for, he’s an asshole sooner or later.

I felt sorry for Justin beiber he seems like a sensitive guy. But then I see so many videos of him being a verbally abusive asshole to fans and his wife too.

[12karen]

Not out of pity, I am nice and friends to every person I talk to. If I don't want to interact or talk to them, I'd rather stop talking to them than pretend to enjoy talking to them.

And when I am friendly and nice, it's because I really mean it and like to be nice

[Iijbbhu]

But us the friendliness ever prompted by feeling sorry

[12karen]

I get friends because I like their presence and they like my presence, or we vibe.
I am friendly with whoever wants to talk and annoying. If they are going through someone bad, as a good friend, I try to encourage them and be more present.

Not that I feels sorry for someone so I become friends with them. Once they are doing good, I become less friendly

[Juytrd]

Thanks

[NicholasRedone]

Sure homeless folks