Are guys actually oblivious when a girl likes them?

[Kiss_Me]

Most guys, especially in high school, pay a high price for letting it be known they are crushing on someone. It becomes wiser and safer to keep their head down and remain oblivious to anyone that MIGHT be hitting on them. The penalty for misinterpreting a girl's actions is just too steep.

It might be best to make it a little more obvious. When you talk to him hold his hand for a few seconds. Perhaps caress him a little without pawing him. If that doesn't work, just kiss the guy.

[Xcommunicated]

Men and women are very different. It may seem brutally obvious to you but as a guy, he has no clue. It’s very different thinking and wiring going on. And in high school, too? Good luck.

you’re young, so is he. Have fun and make memories... just not too many bad ones.

[greentealatte]

Guys need to be asked out straight up or given a love letter to know that a girl likes them. A guy friend once told me when we ask a guy out we need to put in the word "date" or they won't even know you're asking them out. Men are so cute.

[Apope16]

We can tell like. How much us hard to read. We can sense sexual attraction more than romantic love. Sometimes girls flirt to manipulate or play games. Romantic love is hard to read. Infatuation is easier to read than the deep falling in love stuff.

[Mikelaughs]

Sometimes guys really don't notice!
Other times, a guy might just be bashful.
Are you in that situation now?
Follow me if you want to talk about it

[ItsTheNephilim]

Some are, some aren't. I used to have hard time figuring out if a girl really into me. I got good at pointing that out but man, I lost it again. I don't care about that much anymore though.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Yes!
I had no idea my wife liked me for the longest time!

[serious]

Yes not all men do. Unless they are sharp, observant to their surroundings and cautious about the signs.

[JustADamnCrackhead]

I wonder this myself to because to my experience its always easy to tell when they do.

[Paul09]

You girls making it complicated for nothing. Speak up! Playing games just confuses guys especially boys.

[BrianMerritt]

That's assuming the girl has the guts to ac
tually drop hints.

[tartaarsaus]

If someone has liked me in the past, I was oblivious.

[Fireefly]

I usually have a feeling when some obvious signs appear but still most of the times I am kind of blind and even more often felt first time kissing a girl like going blindly in the night lol

[locutus9999]

we communicate in other way... we are not socialized to get girls hints...

[MDollarBill]

often, I think, but then It's so rare for girls to be as open and honest as they claim they want guys to be.

[Anonymous]

Sort of.
They notice lots of things but they won’t act act on hints. They’re only going to act on certainty — which does not come from hints.

[grega239]

It's true. Or in my case there are no hints to be oblivious about because women don't like me

[rustymopp]

Yep...
Well I certainly am...
Absolutely clueless when it comes to women

[ImRoshAniston]

Yeah I've felt that thing what you are trying to say, feels good sometimes thou

[SunnySri]

That is actually true in my case mam. 😅😅

[imfreeze95]

I am it’s an Autism thing I don’t do subtlety

[ManHater]

Women are very weird creatures...

[AmeerX]

I think males don't have this gift that women have