Yes, all the time. Women do it too, probably even more than we do.
Two reasons:
1) Shyness
2) Trying not to look thirsty
If it's not shyness it's a tactic. The person who shows the most interest is chasing, the person who is being chased is in control. If you can bait the the other person and get them to feel like they're the one chasing you, you'll have more control than they do.
Also the more you invest in something the more you value it. Baiting them to invest more than you have is a way to build attraction.
I do this when I'm in a social group and there's a new girl I like. I'll chill and chat to the people I know, maybe catch her looking at me while pretending not to notice. Then I'll wait for her to start a conversation with me, and I gradually warm up to her over time as if she's winning me over.
Yeah we do that. Cause we're trying not to make it obvious, for some reason lol, that we're into you.
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The time/circumstances may not be the best at that moment due to certain reason (s), so why prematurely jump into battle when you know the conditions are not (as) advantageous to you?
In my case, these were times I had to focus intensely on academics or important tasks at work, I was not available in the 1st place, there's reason to believe she's already taken, very likely uninterested, and/or has characteristics that seemingly endanger any reasonable prospects of a long-term, sustainable life together.
Both. Sometimes I am direct and ask them out on a date point blank. Other times if she's super hot i play it cool. I was at a bar and saw a woman that was a friend of my friends. She was sexy as fuck. So i greeted all our mutual friends and ignored her. Later that night she came to the bar and said hello to me. We chatted. I know all guys approach her. I had to play it cool. Be in her orbit but for her to wonder why i was the only guy ignoring her sexy nature.
As for texting? I never message women in between the first few dates. It looks weak and needy.
Nope. It generally takes a bit more than looks to “bait” me. I don’t know if I’m going to be interested in you based on looks alone. So you can have a pretty face and a hot body and get some looks, but it doesn’t mean I’m attracted yet. What else can you do...
I think guys can not act like they don't notice you. Guys stare a lot without realizing. Even though he is trying to hide it he can't, that's not a skill that guys have. He is probably sending you mixed signals because he fears that you don't like him and he doen't know how to act.
I always was pretty shy I Just make shit uncomfortable by staring and not being able to say shit. I don't pretend I don't see her tho.
unless I allready asked her out before and am dealing with the feels that need to dissappear being unable to act confident has sabotaged me a lot I think.
I Feel more confident now tho so hope I can soon use the New found confidence to meet someone
Cuz the girls have made it clear that they are creepy. You hear it every day.
Now, if he's clearly good looking, even better if it's obvious he's rich - she'll be pissed off he didn't approach her.
You just can't please them.
This
I’ve done that, yes, but as a teenager. I was so infatuated that I felt if she constantly caught me looking at her, she would think I was a creep. A mature man would pluck up the courage and simply ask her out.
Simple, no... Not really. Very rarely because if they weren't interested in the first place me not trying isn't going to do anything, if they know your interested they might ignore u a litttttttle
I try to hide my feelings but I think girls are much better at hiding
It’s usually obvious that they do. Most guys won’t hide it or aren’t skillled at it?
Yeppp. I'll see cute girls in a small grocery store, and take every possible route around her. I'm not ready for no eye contact 💀
In my country guys are just scared that a girl they like will be mad at them for liking her if she knows that the guy has feelings for her... Unless she finds it out and turns out she likes him back too.. she just never noticed it...😅
Sometimes but not very often. Men will usually take notice of women they like.
Or just give them a small nod. Some may do that, yes.
I ignore all women, attractive or not. Dating is a thing of the past.
Not all men are the same but some men might act like this
The word is “ Hear “ not here!
Guys and girls do what you said too
When he is attracted to a girl he acts like he doesn't notice her? No 🤔
Yeah, generally it doesn’t pay to advertise it, so why would they?
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