Guys are you more attracted to A provocative girl?

[Anonymous]

Ok so I know im attractive, like I know out of a crowd of people I am noticed. I've had people tell me this when I met them lol.

Anyway people seem to react to me differently then like for instance my friend.

Im more reserved, standoffish and modest. I sometimes dress in low cut shirts and booty shorts but im very aware and keep my legs crossed, cover my chest when I bend over and little things like that. I dont openly talk about sex very often

Whereas my friend doesn't seem to pay attention she lets it hang out lol. she's pretty sexually opened. Even infront of her brother (my boyfriend) which makes me a little uncomfortable at times. But thats just her.

Anyway she tells me all these storys of how guys are trying to get at her and even tho her boyfriends there they still hit on her. Smack her ass and invite her to bed

For me guys dont really seem to flirt that much. Even if a guy and I are openly interested in eachother they dont flirt or try to get at me. Its a totally diff approach. Theywill tell me Im beautiful but they dont really do much more then just chill lol. I think girls flirt and act more like that toward me then guys do.

Honestly she gets hit on a lot more then I do. I rarely get hit on.

Do guys like more provocative girls?

[BearsAnswers]

No, not more attracted in a physical sense, but they do appear more approachable for flirtation.

The problem won't be that you don't 'let it hang out', it never really needs to get to an extreme like that. A bit of modesty isn't a problem at all. The 'reserved' will make you less approachable though, and the 'standoffish' is going to make a ton of guys decide it's not worth the risk.

You say you are reserved, standoffish and modest - three traits that discourage flirtation, so you can't be surprised that you rarely get hit on. That is always going to be the case with those traits. It's not a matter of what is attractive and what is not, it's a matter of what makes a guy feel 'safe' to flirt, and how heavy they will lay on the flirtation.

[Asker]

Good point thank u :)

[BearsAnswers]

You're welcome :)

[wowzer]

it's not about what guys like, it's more to do with what they expect in return. If a girl acts all open about sex, guys might think she's "easier". So, sorry to say, it's not a compliment they all hit on her. It shows they don't respect her otherwise they wouldn't be slapping her bottom. If you want a guy to really like you, as in GF material not a bang one night, there has to be respect. Guys like innocent girls much more, the other types they may hit on often but they'd never consider marrying them. You're doing fine. If a girl was really respected guys would put her on a pedestal and try to act all charming and chivalrous, so, take the lack of obvious attention as a good sign.

[matrix124]

It depends on the guy, some men like provocative & sexy women while others like less promiscuous women & who are modest. You will see men hit on the women who are dressed more provocative because either those men like those kind of women, or those men are looking for sex at that time. If you dress the way you want to, less promiscuous, you can definitely find a man. You just have to put yourself out there & be open to conversations with men. You can always approach men to, if you feel like you are not getting attention.

[bdeakol]

Guys like easy girls, it's as simple as that. Why? They're easier to fuck and it's not something your friend should be bragging about. They're just using her for sex.

[Alice_1]

You have a boyfriend anyways so maybe you shouldn't care too much :)

[Asker]

Yea thats true. I was just curious tho

[Fortres]

I would rather a girl that didn't wear the type of shirts you mentioned.

[SuitAndTie]

Yes, but for the wrong reason. Guys just assume that provocative girls are easier to get into bed and are up for sex and so will show them more attention.

[Anonymous]

We are, but for the "wrong" reason