He kisses me but hasn't asked me out. Why?

Anonymous
Just about everyday, this guy kisses me. A lot actually. Most of the time, using tongue. He'll cuddle me and put his arms around me. This has been going on for a little while now. He recently started fingering me while we make out. I didn't want him to at first, and he respected my boundaries... at first. Then he went for it again and I didn't stop him this time. I like him, and this obviously makes me think he likes me too. But I'm not sure if he really does. Because then he started asking me for a blowjob. I refused. I'm not going to give him one because I prefer not doing that with someone I am not dating. I feel like he's only kissing me and doing the things he does because he's determined to get that blowjob. He bugs me about it every now and then. I need your input on this because I don't want to keep kissing him and letting him touch me like he does if his intentions are only for that blowjob. We've known each other for about 2 years, didn't start kissing until this year, but we flirted a lot before and well he hasn't asked me out.
He kisses me but hasn't asked me out. Why?
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