He kisses me but hasn't asked me out. Why?

[Anonymous]

Just about everyday, this guy kisses me. A lot actually. Most of the time, using tongue. He'll cuddle me and put his arms around me. This has been going on for a little while now. He recently started fingering me while we make out. I didn't want him to at first, and he respected my boundaries... at first. Then he went for it again and I didn't stop him this time. I like him, and this obviously makes me think he likes me too. But I'm not sure if he really does. Because then he started asking me for a blowjob. I refused. I'm not going to give him one because I prefer not doing that with someone I am not dating. I feel like he's only kissing me and doing the things he does because he's determined to get that blowjob. He bugs me about it every now and then. I need your input on this because I don't want to keep kissing him and letting him touch me like he does if his intentions are only for that blowjob. We've known each other for about 2 years, didn't start kissing until this year, but we flirted a lot before and well he hasn't asked me out.

[missthang]

Confront him & ask him about the relationship status, maybe he's not ready for commitment. If he's not with anyone else then it's not such a big deal because you know he's your guy. And one HUGE thing .. don't do anything you don't wanna, and let him know you're not ready or comfortable with doing it. Goodluck :)

[Asker]

He's single. and he doesn't mess around with other girls. haha yeeah, if I really didn't want to do something, he won't force me. thank you dear!

[missthang]

Anytime :)

[renegade08]

by any chance are yall in college?lol if that's the case he's probally broke. I tend to do that same thing, not because I don't wanna take her out but because I have no money, but I try 2 eventually.

[Asker]

Lmao, no we're in high school.