-to be honest I don't look at other girls boobs in a sexual way
-um I have 7 pairs of shoos to be pacific 2 pairs of muck boots,steel towed work boots, cowboy boots riding, cowboy boots casual, and a pair of regualar work boots, and a pair of snake boots
-and I wouldn't leave with or without my wife so ile wait
-i don't drink matter of fact I don't even have beer in my house
See what you did there HaggardDiva? way too much thought about colors for a guy. And yeah we will look at boobs, but it doesn't necessarily mean we want them. Most likely, theyre just more interesting then the girls face. And yeah, what he said is a stereotype joke, though its quite accurate for lots of guys
Purple and Orange ARE colors. They are the colors of my FAVORITE College Clemson! GO TIGERS! So you get extra points for pointing that out! (Garnett is NOT a color though and it's UGLY!)
WOW! Two of you saw the TRUTH of my statement. I said it tongue-in-cheek but honestly this is men gals. Take Notes!
I would prob want to have sex with them but my level of like when 1st dating someone is a lot different than my level of like after I know her. I don't know anyone after 1 date or 1 week I may know some things but you don't truly know a person yet. I may be wanting too but I wouldn't be actively trying too get some that early on. I'm not gonna date a girl or respect a girl that gives out favors like there gonna out of style.
"if you ever talk about another guy in any context you must immediately reassure your guy that he's the greatest guy in every way"
WHY IS THAT IF WOMEN ONLY TALK ABOUT A MAN UR INSECURE AND WE HAVE TO MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER BUT WHEN YOU MEN LOOK AT ANOTHER GIRLS BODY OR IMAGINE HAVING SEX WITH THEM AND IT HURTS UR GIRLS FEELINGS THEY NEED TO "GET OVER IT" I HOPE THIS ISNT TRUE ABOUT MEN OR ELSE MEN R ALL A BUNCH OF JERKS.
Who dude, chill! I personally think everything on the list makes since! IDk how anyone could not agree with the things above. Maybe you and I just live somewhere else, and the 6 downers don't. I'm a country girl and I think everything above is 100% obvious and true!
Dude, this proves what an asshole you are, and thanks for sharing so women know to steer clear of you. What a jerk you come off as. And you do speak for far too many men, I'm afraid, but fortunately not all men. Good thing, or heterosexuality would end tomorrow. I know PLENTY of men who will only date feminist women, who aren't controlling jerks, who don't expect women to take care of their bodies any more than men do, and who DON'T want women to shave ANYTHING. Stop using porn.
I'm an asshole for speaking honestly and representing my opinion? I really think YOU need to look outside the box and see their are women who do the things I mentioned gladly for the man they care about. Step off your soapbox and move out of San Francisco or whatever liberal brainwashed epicenter you were hatched from. If you are content being an unkept slop who feels acting like a "lady" constitutes being submissive or a man being "controlling" I'm sorry you have daddy issues.
I'm not going to list the whole 10 but just one I think is very important.
When you are wondering what a guy is thinking and you ask him straight up and you sound like your suspisious every "innocent" thought is going to run away from his head. (Ok the thought may not be that innocent but anything that a girl wouldn't mind). Then he will think oh god what should I say. And do not doubt a mans abilitly for his brain to be compleatly vacant for thoughts. If he says nothing its higghly possible it is nothing.
It isn't just me talking I am sitting here with a bunch of my mates and we all agreed this is one of the most important things to remember so you don't get all paranoid about your man.
There is only one thing you need to know. Just like women, all men are different, so it is important to not assume a guy will like something or act a certain way simply because of his gender. Instead, get to know the guy as an individual. Assuming things can easily lead to making a fool of yourself.
I think that is that is the best lesson everyone can take away from this site. Ultimately some of the answers are interesting and provide some degree of enlightenment. But surely the diversity of answers among same and different genders confirms the truth in what you just said. Good Job!
1.What his beliefs are 2.What he wants emotionally from you 3.what he likes physically 4.what his favorite hobby is 5.what he wants in his future 6.who his friends are 7.has he been the type to cheat 8.who is romodel is and why 9.we say stuff that makes only since to us 10.we are not pigs as many are percieved, we just love sex
Alot of these are true and right . but for me id say let a guy know if he has a chance with you from the beginning. it happens a lot were a dude thinks he's getting sumwhere with a girl then bam he just ran into the friendzone and that changes a lot of freindships. so ladies let him know
1. They just want sex 2. They will say anything to get it 3.They will lye 4. They will talk about you 5. They will have sex with your best friend if its available 6. They will not commit to you 7. They will only use you for sex 8. They will never married you 9. They could give you a disease 10. If you get pregnant it won't be theirs>
Thats your problem....nobody ever said you had to go for pricks/players/losers. Learn to deal with your own problems, and don't blame anyone else but yourself.
Amazing how the older a person gets the less confidence they have in younger people. I can see why this happens but I can also see that it is a gross generalization, which I why I judge by the individual rather than the group they are associated with.
I have every confidence in younger people. In fact all my confidence is with youth. However until young people can respect themselves, they can't respect others, and they certainly not worthy of respect.
My morals are not arbitrary or personal though -- they are standardized, tried-and-true ways of dealing ethically and sensibly with your fellow sentients,. So I do expect other people to be moral, as a matter of fact. If they are not, they will learn better sooner or later.
You live in Canada, so you expect all Canadian morals and ethics to go accross the world? I can tell you one place they definitly won't fly, anywhere in the middle east.
Don't get me wrong, I treat people well unless they treat me otherwise but I have to disagree with your opinion on respect. I don't respect someone simply because they are a "higher up" or older, which many demand respect simply on that aspect. Thus far I've only met three "higher ups" who I've had a problem with.
Just because you might be really smart and act all 'nice' and 'respectful', it doesn't mean I will respect you.
Respect from me comes more from what you have done/ are doing/ will do and the way you treat me and other people than what you think is right or wrong.
Gotc I don't particularly identify as Canadian -- I'm a world citizen. Perhaps you have noticed Canada's reputation as a moral leader but in point of fact I find many of our leaders and prominent citizens to be somewhat lacking in the scope of their understanding.
One's reputation and what one acctually is are often two different things as you so kindly pointed out.
During the Spartan days, it was considered moral for a boy to be drafted into the army at 7 years old, and the mother would make a shield while he trained. One his 18th birthday the mother would give the shield to her son and say "carry it home, or be carried hom on it".
This was considered moral, it was right in their time and culture.
Thanks for taking all the wisdom of what the women have said and flushing it down the toilet with this simplistic answer. NO men I know like to shoot things or break things. And plenty of men like sex with men. And plenty of men don't procrastinate or fix things. So please own up to the fact that you just described yourself, not "all guys".
My boyfriend likes to eat a lot but he's real skinny workslate hours and full time student so deff sleeps a lot we havevsex a lot he deff procrastinates I had to force him to do hw for days he likes to make money therefore not stop working he has a bike which he cleans a lot and a new car so he can't fix either. he wants to be a fedral air marshall so deff likes to shoot thingsa criminal justice major with 2 guns I think your pretty spot on girl below quit bitching he's good
I don't think it's that we don't like the answers, but mostly because we think that that's untrue and a douchebag statement. . .Either way, true or not, it's f***ed up.
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1. Sports DO Count and ESPN *IS* quality time!
2. NEVER run out of beer.
3. We ARE going to look at boobs - Regardless.
4. Porn *IS* entertainment.
5. There are FOUR colors. Red, Blue, Green and Yellow not counting White and Black.
(Perriwinkle and mauve are NOT a colors!)
6. Shopping is NOT quality time!
7. Wrinkled clothing is NOT the end of the world!
8. Three pairs of shoes are enough for ANYBODY!
9. When you say 10 minutes, MEAN 10 minutes. We SHOULD leave WITH or WITHOUT you!
Then we could go to the sports bar like we wanted! (See rule #1 & 2)
10. No. We do NOT have to talk about EVERYTHING!
Please let me know if I can clear up any other grey areas concerning men.
I beg to differ b ecsue I so don't think that
-to be honest I don't look at other girls boobs in a sexual way
-um I have 7 pairs of shoos to be pacific 2 pairs of muck boots,steel towed work boots, cowboy boots riding, cowboy boots casual, and a pair of regualar work boots, and a pair of snake boots
-and I wouldn't leave with or without my wife so ile wait
-i don't drink matter of fact I don't even have beer in my house
-i don't care for sports bars
I didn't say anything about sexual and boobs. I said we look. You admitted YOU look, just not in a sexual way.
And, ummm, do you know the meaning of JOKE?
Its in a way of joke, bt everyone has to admit it, everything he said is partly true :D, its eaven more funny in that way how true it is :D
The brutal whole truth about Mankind XD
What about Purple and Orange? If you count Green, you have to count them.
See what you did there HaggardDiva? way too much thought about colors for a guy. And yeah we will look at boobs, but it doesn't necessarily mean we want them. Most likely, theyre just more interesting then the girls face. And yeah, what he said is a stereotype joke, though its quite accurate for lots of guys
Purple and Orange ARE colors. They are the colors of my FAVORITE College Clemson! GO TIGERS! So you get extra points for pointing that out! (Garnett is NOT a color though and it's UGLY!)
WOW! Two of you saw the TRUTH of my statement. I said it tongue-in-cheek but honestly this is men gals. Take Notes!
Long Live Home Improvement!
Awesome top 10 btw!
Wait a second, red blue GREEN and yellow? you serious lol plus WHITE is a color black isnt! go read
-Guys are still gonna look at other girls,regardless of how attractive their GFs are.
-the "nice" guys want sex just as bad as any other guy
-guys love to gossip but won't admit it
-If you just made out with a guy he's told his friends youve done a lot more and you were eager to do it.
-we like a free lunch every now and than, but don't prefer to date girls who offer them. and by free lunch I mean getting sex rather quickly.
-Its not always easy pretending nothings wrong
-Very few guys will tell you "everything" unless its gonna save their ass
-Sexist or not we do like it when a girl can cook
-if you ever talk about another guy in any context you must immediately reassure your guy that he's the greatest guy in every way.
-a guy will always try harder when a girl he likes is around
About the your last words
wat if he knows that he can't have her but he likes her?
If he is anything like me eventually he realises he is wasting his efforts and uses them elsewhere.
"We like a free lunch now & then.... don' prefer to date girls who want them... " So, would you not want to have sex quickly with some one you liked ?
I would prob want to have sex with them but my level of like when 1st dating someone is a lot different than my level of like after I know her. I don't know anyone after 1 date or 1 week I may know some things but you don't truly know a person yet. I may be wanting too but I wouldn't be actively trying too get some that early on. I'm not gonna date a girl or respect a girl that gives out favors like there gonna out of style.
"if you ever talk about another guy in any context you must immediately reassure your guy that he's the greatest guy in every way"
WHY IS THAT IF WOMEN ONLY TALK ABOUT A MAN UR INSECURE AND WE HAVE TO MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER BUT WHEN YOU MEN LOOK AT ANOTHER GIRLS BODY OR IMAGINE HAVING SEX WITH THEM AND IT HURTS UR GIRLS FEELINGS THEY NEED TO "GET OVER IT" I HOPE THIS ISNT TRUE ABOUT MEN OR ELSE MEN R ALL A BUNCH OF JERKS.
1. We most likely have ego's
2. We are not as observant as girls are
3. We can be feminine too
4. We are not all alike
5. We can be extremely lazy
6. We can fall in love too
7. We can get shy like any other girl
8 Almost all of us love our mom's, we just might not admit it
9. We will always stare at other women, it's an instinct. It does not mean we'd cheat.
10. We are very protective of our girlfriends or wives
PERFECT!
I hope most men are like this :)
1) We lie all the time, but I don't think that's gender-specific.
2) All men masturbate, even when in relationships. Seriously, 80% of the time the motivation is boredom.
3) We are socially bred to be skeptical, mistrustful and stoic, but that doesn't mean we don't have emotions.
4) Guys worry about their bodies, too.
5) Sex is important to us. If you shut us out physically, we'll go and get it somewhere else.
6) Beware a man's ex-girlfriends. We don't stay close to them because we want to be their friends; we keep them as backups.
7) Talking about marriage makes a man feel old. Marriage is something for people in their thirties.
8) Good food almost trumps a good blow job. ALMOST.
9) Though we may claim that we don't care if we see you in sweats with no makeup, WE F***ING CARE. We associate clean looks with self-respect.
10) You can't change us. Don't even try.
Since I disagree with more thna half of what you said up there (I disagree with 6 of them), I have to give you a (-1).
Ii think this is more about a type of man not men
So we aren't allow to sweat, not even at the gym! even if we are clean all other times?
10. Shave, everything
9. Take care of your body
8. We don't think its empowering or sexy if you fart, burp or say f*** every other word.
7. We like to feel like we are the boss (even though we may not be)
6. We like when you offer to pay
5. Don't give us crap for forgetting trivial things like your third cousin's wife's boss' birthday.
4. We really don't want to answer if the jeans make your ass look big.
3. Feminism is annoying
2. We don't like hints, just tell us.
1. We don't like games, just be honest.
Six downs? Proves bitches can't take the truth and p**** guys kiss their ass.
Who dude, chill! I personally think everything on the list makes since! IDk how anyone could not agree with the things above. Maybe you and I just live somewhere else, and the 6 downers don't. I'm a country girl and I think everything above is 100% obvious and true!
@ Victoria
Thanks girl. You have proven to me that there is at least one sane woman left on this planet!!!
Dude, this proves what an asshole you are, and thanks for sharing so women know to steer clear of you. What a jerk you come off as. And you do speak for far too many men, I'm afraid, but fortunately not all men. Good thing, or heterosexuality would end tomorrow. I know PLENTY of men who will only date feminist women, who aren't controlling jerks, who don't expect women to take care of their bodies any more than men do, and who DON'T want women to shave ANYTHING. Stop using porn.
@ Julian
I'm an asshole for speaking honestly and representing my opinion? I really think YOU need to look outside the box and see their are women who do the things I mentioned gladly for the man they care about. Step off your soapbox and move out of San Francisco or whatever liberal brainwashed epicenter you were hatched from. If you are content being an unkept slop who feels acting like a "lady" constitutes being submissive or a man being "controlling" I'm sorry you have daddy issues.
Sorry, I don't see what's so wrong with this list, I mean it's the truth...
Feminism rocks!
Most guys hate when the girl offers to pay. makes them seem like a pussy
1: we need our egos stroked a minimum of 10 times a day
2: we prefer sex not love making
3: we rather have sex than go to the doctor, or anywhere that takes us away from our Xbox.
4: xbox trumps pussy, if you have more than two friends online
5: p**** trumps xbox if your wearing a sexy outfit
6: we like watching tv, so don't come along and change the channel especially if we were sitting there first
7: we like to be told how "BIG" we are during sex there's no saying it to much here, say it alot
8: we look at p*rn not because you aren't hot, its because you won't do half the things they do
9: we don't want to talk about feelings, that's why you have girl friends... go talk to them
10: we will only say I love you first, if you deliver us a sammich while we play xbox and then continue to give us a blowjob right after.
i hope you ladies can tell I'm joking... if you really want to know somethings about guys ill be more than happy to answer truthfully
I'm not going to list the whole 10 but just one I think is very important.
When you are wondering what a guy is thinking and you ask him straight up and you sound like your suspisious every "innocent" thought is going to run away from his head. (Ok the thought may not be that innocent but anything that a girl wouldn't mind). Then he will think oh god what should I say. And do not doubt a mans abilitly for his brain to be compleatly vacant for thoughts. If he says nothing its higghly possible it is nothing.
It isn't just me talking I am sitting here with a bunch of my mates and we all agreed this is one of the most important things to remember so you don't get all paranoid about your man.
There is only one thing you need to know. Just like women, all men are different, so it is important to not assume a guy will like something or act a certain way simply because of his gender. Instead, get to know the guy as an individual. Assuming things can easily lead to making a fool of yourself.
I think that is that is the best lesson everyone can take away from this site. Ultimately some of the answers are interesting and provide some degree of enlightenment. But surely the diversity of answers among same and different genders confirms the truth in what you just said. Good Job!
I'm not going to say EVERY guy is like this but my guy is some what like this
1. very fragile ego, he thinks he is the BEST: at sex, at his work, with everything... and if you hurt him, he'll remember it!
2. He likes to be useful, and wants to feel needed
3. He likes to be caressed and feel important
4. He likes his video games, a lot of it
5. He likes to eat a lot of food
6. He likes a lot of sex
7. He thinks he is the BEST at sex, which he isn't
8. He hates to argue, and will not talk about feelings much
9. He hates being rejected
10. He can be romantic
Now go and find your own guy, and then get personal with him... that's all that really matters is if you like your guy or not.
1. we are simple
2. we like sports
3. we love blow jobs
4. we love sex
5. we jerk off when we don't get sex, no big deal.
6. we love call of duty 4 and 6. (not 5)
7. we love going to the gym
8. hdtv's 1080P 32 inches and bigger
9. we love all women
10. we are big babies
I couldn't stand WaW. MW2 Kicks ass.
Im still a Halo fan haha
Gotta disagree with 5, blowjobs waaay better than beating it lol.
So 4 out of the 10 are related (#'s 3, 4, 5, 9). Dang! Guys do think a lot about sex! =O
COD4. Yes.
Lol this post was funny..
Well I'm a girl and I think about all the time
Cod4 is only good cause of the nazis
HAHA
Agree most with no. 10! :)
1. We most likely have ego's
2. We are not as observant as girls are
3. We want BJ on our days off
4. We are not all alike
5. We can be lazy
6. We can fall in love too
7. We can get shy
8 Almost all of us love our mom's, we just might not admit it
9. We will always stare at other women, it's an instinct. It does not mean we'd cheat.
10. We are very protective of our girlfriends or wives
Someone else already posted this exact answer below...
we are emotional even tho we won't admit it
we need reassurance
some of us cheat even though we are happy of how things are going.
we are always afraid that our mates are gonna find someone better and leave us
we care about what you about us
we need to feel like we are wanted
we love have sex anywhere time and place
we are worried that you aren't satisfied in the bedroom
we care abut our looks too
we get jealous when you talk to other guys
1.What his beliefs are 2.What he wants emotionally from you 3.what he likes physically 4.what his favorite hobby is 5.what he wants in his future 6.who his friends are 7.has he been the type to cheat 8.who is romodel is and why 9.we say stuff that makes only since to us 10.we are not pigs as many are percieved, we just love sex
Alot of these are true and right . but for me id say let a guy know if he has a chance with you from the beginning. it happens a lot were a dude thinks he's getting sumwhere with a girl then bam he just ran into the friendzone and that changes a lot of freindships. so ladies let him know
1. They just want sex 2. They will say anything to get it 3.They will lye 4. They will talk about you 5. They will have sex with your best friend if its available 6. They will not commit to you 7. They will only use you for sex 8. They will never married you 9. They could give you a disease 10. If you get pregnant it won't be theirs>
Thats your problem....nobody ever said you had to go for pricks/players/losers. Learn to deal with your own problems, and don't blame anyone else but yourself.
Sounds like 10 things about you that guys around you should know
1. 90% of guys under 30 are totally and utterly unable to produce a single sensible thought
2. Everything else is negligable compared to this sad fact
3. It takes a while to produce a guy worth much. There aren't many good role models out there!
Amazing how the older a person gets the less confidence they have in younger people. I can see why this happens but I can also see that it is a gross generalization, which I why I judge by the individual rather than the group they are associated with.
I have every confidence in younger people. In fact all my confidence is with youth. However until young people can respect themselves, they can't respect others, and they certainly not worthy of respect.
Depends on what you consider respecting yourself, you can't expect your morals and values to be shared by everyone.
And if you want respect, go out and earn it. Treat others the way you want to be treated by also treat others the way they treat you.
One does not gain respect by earning it. One achieves it by virtue of moral and intellectual power.
Morality is a matter of opinion and it is impossible to achieve power through intelect alone.
I guess I have to say it again, you can't expect your morals and values to be shared by everyone.
My morals are not arbitrary or personal though -- they are standardized, tried-and-true ways of dealing ethically and sensibly with your fellow sentients,. So I do expect other people to be moral, as a matter of fact. If they are not, they will learn better sooner or later.
You live in Canada, so you expect all Canadian morals and ethics to go accross the world? I can tell you one place they definitly won't fly, anywhere in the middle east.
Don't get me wrong, I treat people well unless they treat me otherwise but I have to disagree with your opinion on respect. I don't respect someone simply because they are a "higher up" or older, which many demand respect simply on that aspect. Thus far I've only met three "higher ups" who I've had a problem with.
Just because you might be really smart and act all 'nice' and 'respectful', it doesn't mean I will respect you.
Respect from me comes more from what you have done/ are doing/ will do and the way you treat me and other people than what you think is right or wrong.
Gotc I don't particularly identify as Canadian -- I'm a world citizen. Perhaps you have noticed Canada's reputation as a moral leader but in point of fact I find many of our leaders and prominent citizens to be somewhat lacking in the scope of their understanding.
One's reputation and what one acctually is are often two different things as you so kindly pointed out.
During the Spartan days, it was considered moral for a boy to be drafted into the army at 7 years old, and the mother would make a shield while he trained. One his 18th birthday the mother would give the shield to her son and say "carry it home, or be carried hom on it".
This was considered moral, it was right in their time and culture.
In no order:
1. What sport/s does he play or have interest in?
2. What movies does he like?
3. What music does he like?
4. Where has he traveled/he would like to travel?
5. Favorite hobbie/s?
6. Does he a job?
7. Does he have a car?
8. What is his career goal?
9. How close is he to that goal?
10. Has he ever cheated on his past girlfriends?
We love to
eat
sleep
have sex with women or ourselves (ya I'll admit it ain't no shame)
play games either sports or video
procrastinate
be lazy or not stop working
make money
fix things
break things
shoot things
Thanks for taking all the wisdom of what the women have said and flushing it down the toilet with this simplistic answer. NO men I know like to shoot things or break things. And plenty of men like sex with men. And plenty of men don't procrastinate or fix things. So please own up to the fact that you just described yourself, not "all guys".
This is indeed the most accurate answer here. +1 for this dude.
My boyfriend likes to eat a lot but he's real skinny workslate hours and full time student so deff sleeps a lot we havevsex a lot he deff procrastinates I had to force him to do hw for days he likes to make money therefore not stop working he has a bike which he cleans a lot and a new car so he can't fix either. he wants to be a fedral air marshall so deff likes to shoot thingsa criminal justice major with 2 guns I think your pretty spot on girl below quit bitching he's good
Wow, I read a lot of the lists and this one seems to fit my guy the most! great job scavenger!
every honest answer a guy has given to this question has been down rated by the girls
Because most of them basically say all they think about and want is sex.
So is being honest bout ur feelings a bad thing>??i emean you girls are here for honest answers
or there to expect guys to do wht you want?
I don't think it's that we don't like the answers, but mostly because we think that that's untrue and a douchebag statement. . .Either way, true or not, it's f***ed up.
we smoke pot , try to fix sh*t while we are high and don't care what you think..lol
Haha who would dislike this?
This is bloody true.
Ahahah we would get along perfectly