She makes me feel so nervous and vulnerable.

[Mike23]

There is this amazing girl who sits behind me in class. She definitely likes me , I know for a fact because she always helps me out in class always smiles at me and even defended me once when someone was talking behind my back and also said I'm really good looking. OK so that gives me the green light to you know make a move on her. But she makes me feel so nervous and vulnerable and I can't be myself. Now I wouldn't b like this for an ordinary girl but she's perfect ; amazingly good looking, smart, funny, great personality and the nicest person you'll ever meet. I just feel so strange around her , its not that I lack confidence I am a charismatic person but I just never felt this way about a girl and honestly its scary I just flat out melt when around her. We do talk and are friends its just when I look into her eyes when we talk and her smile I just get this warm fuzzy feeling I can't describe and stops me from being myself making me hesitate to have a deep conversation with each other . Not to mention she's a senior and I am a junior and she's almost 2 years older than me which just makes more difficult So please someone tell me what I should do this is driving me crazy PLEASE HELP I AM IN DIRE NEED OF HELP!

[BMarieJ]

Hun, I think you need a real confidence boost. That's what you need. The things you're feeling for her is classic puppy dog syndrome :) everyone goes through it. You're brain just turns to mushy heaven when she's around or when she's happy to be around you! Have you ever thought that maybe she is feeling the same way about you? That her mind goes into a blank world of warm fuzzies when you two are together? Maybe it's why she hasn't made any move yet either. What you should really do is casually ask her on a date! What's the worst that's going to happen? She says no? So what, move on from that and it might be awkward a bit, but you'll eventually be back to where you started and no harm done. And if you ask her on a date in a really cute way, there's no way she;ll be able to resist, lead her on a scavenger hunt around the school. Have someone give her a note that tells her where the next note is and wherever that next note is reveal where the next one is and at the end of it all leave something cute like a flower and a note asking her on a date. Or better yet, if you have class with her, then lets say you have her 3rd period, put a sheet of paper on the desk where she sits at in 1st that says "will you" then in her 2nd period where she sits have another one say "go on a" then in your gus's 3rd period be holding the 3rd piece of paper that says "date with me?" and a flower. If she doesn't at least say yes or give it a shot she's not human :)

good luck and sorry for writing so much ")

let me know how it goes.

-Brianna

[NiallM]

I couldnt agree more, I am lot more confident now its just I dont talk to her and I dont sit next to her so starting a convo is difficult. And with new people I meet I just say hi and start talking but I didn't do that with her and its a little late to start the whole hey whats your name cuz I already know it

[NiallM]

wrong feed sorry

[lifeslegacy]

What happens at a green light? You take your foot off the break and ease on the gas. The key word here is ease. Just keep talkin to her, take a little control of your reactions to her perfection, and give it a little time. Compliment her, be yourself and go ahead and have that deep conversation.

Good Luck