She says she's nervous around me. Why would she do this?

[Anonymous]

this girl started talking to me and she's always talking and texting me. but over the weekend I texted her and she didn't reply. she called at 1 am for a couple of minutes then I went to bed. I woke up and she had texted me I replied and she never replied back. gthe next morning the same thing. I'm confused because she's said she wants to hang out but she tells me she'd be nervous. and she says she's nervous around me. and she doesn't seem like a shy girl... help I'm so lost?

[Quadrophonic84]

If she's talking to you that often she's interested. Just tell her she's got nothing to be nervous about and suggest somewhere nice and safe to meet like a coffee shop. When you meet her, have things ready to say and just act smooth and in control, smiling and friendly. After she calms down and seems to be having a good time say "See meeting up wasn't so bad was it?" and if she laughs/giggles then she's probably having a good time. Go get her!

[Anonymous]

She likes you alot, she want's you and she's letting you know she likes you by calling, and txting you. I've done this before, I want to hang out but I say I'm nervous because I don't want to end up having sex with the guy too soon. I think it'll lead there, so I try to stall, cause I want the guy to like me seriously as relationship material and not just because of sex.

[awesomedude8113]

This makes very good sense actually. I'm going through that exact same situation and that's pretty much what I came up with. Thank you for clarifying!