Why is she nervous and awkward around me?

[Anonymous]

This girl at my college stares from far away all the time, but when I visited our college coffee shop where she works, she took my order and wouldn’t make eye contact like at all. She was really fidgety and messed up my order. She gave me the wrong size and this shop always asks for your name so when your order is ready they can give it to you. She knew my name and how to spell it…..

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is weird how she was acting all nervous and awkward around you, dude. A few things it could be:

- She might think you're cute and gets all shy and tongue-tied when you're actually talking to her in person.

- Girls do dumb things sometimes when they like a guy, like forgetting how to do their job and messing up an order, lol.

- Maybe she wasn't expecting to see you there and wasn't prepared to interact with you yet and lost her cool.

- Or she could be shy and awkward around customers in general when under pressure.

- Possibly she's into you and didn't wanna make it too obvious by smiling and making eye contact too much.

I'd say next time you go in, give her an easy smile and say hi to break the ice. If she still acts weird, maybe she fancies you dude! Or she might just be generally shy, hard to say.

Keep going back anyway - maybe she'll warm up over time. And free coffee is always a good thing, right bro? Let me know what happens!