Ladies, is shaking hands to initiate flirting a good or bad way to go?

[needsanswers100]

If a guy walked up to you at a bar and shook your hand to introduce himself and start flirting/ talking with you would this be a turn off?

[teawrecks]

It wouldn't be a turn off, but my dad always taught me you need to have a firm handshake so I'd be a little afraid I was crushing his hand and giving a bad impression.

[needsanswers100]

Hahaha well guys are taught that too but don't hurt the guy!

[teawrecks]

I know! Which is the negative! Because I know they're going to give ME a firm handshake, so I like, try to one-up them so they can feel that I'm returning the firmness of the handshake lol

[apple24]

sure it is!

[apple24]

I mean no it not!

[needsanswers100]

So that first comment was sarcastic? hahaha

[apple24]

lol I read it to fast! lol

[dazedandconfused1030]

Do it I would automatically think you are smart and mature. It would give you a professional side to you.

[Anonymous]

No. Actually. I think its really charming and attractive. I think it makes him seem older, more confident and like he's got his life together. Honestly really attractive.

[fondue]

It would if he didn't let go of my hand.

[JadedandReckless]

Light brown

[ccfighter]

Not at all.

[Anonymous]

Neutral, really.