totally happening to me right now. I'm cool with it cause feelings are SUPPOSED to be removed, but I'm not getting attention either so... therein removes the attraction to that person.
I could go on a whole rant about it but I'll spare y'all.
I have always found this fascinating because like most people I have been on the giving and receiving end of attention. In an ideal world the attraction is equal and something happens but more often the attraction is unequal which leads to sometimes the attention being perceived as too much but take it away, it feels like there is a big hole in your life.
I suppose everybody likes attention but we just want it on our own terms and hopefully without anyone getting too hurt which a lot of the time seems like an impossible dream.
personally I don't do this. I find this interesting tho. Do some girls do this? I guess some people just like attention or are selfish.
Could you check this out pls? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1677761-why-do-i-fantasize-about-this-female-friend-who-wronged-me
Is my female friend just after attention? Would appreciate your thoughts.
I totally understand. When any guy goes out of his way to get my attention but realize that I'm not interested in them, suddenly they just go cold turkey
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I like people more as they give me more attention, but i've never considered it backwards.
I mean like, I think I like the person but it turns out I just liked the attention they gave me. When I see them around or interacting with others I realize I'm not attracted to them like I thought I was, and only felt that way because they were showering me with attention.
I think there are MANY girls that fall into that realm.
I'm not giving you enough attention? Aww. You miss me.
You're definitely in the wrong age bracket for someone I'm talking about.
Who says this is my age bracket? LOL!!
Regardless, you're not who I'm talking about.
Rthomas? Or some dude in real life?
Why do you think I would tell you? lol
Yeah that's what I thought. Wait until I come back.
? No lol
? Yes lol
I'm good.
No I'm good.
Sounds normal, that is how I think all women do "love".
Na, I'm pretty objective and cold-hearted anyway when it comes to feelings.
I feel ya. Sucks to have feelings for someone and get nothing in return
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