Girls, She sent panty pics unsolicited then got mad, why?

[mikewnaz]

This woman who is 39. Sent me panty pictures after she said she was in bed in panties and i said i dont believe you. To me its not like i asked for the pic. Then the next day she sent me another. She even told me how she likes to be laid and such. Weve neen friends for 4 years talking daily. She is going through cancer revovery and divorce. She got mad when i kept wanting to escalate into us hooking up. My question is why the mixed signals if she isn't ready for a relationship yet sends me panty pics and selfies on the regular. She even asked for a cock pic and said it looked good. She also said that if she didn't have her kids that night i wouldve fucked her. So is this just a waiting game now till its the right time of the month? Advice from girls would be great. Im just confused lol

[LaurenGrace]

you're perhaps her fantasy online the guy she will tell her dirtiest thoughts too the one she is brave enough to send nudes and ask for cock pix from.
Its a self esteem boost for her as she's going through some stuff obviously and prob not easy for her right now.
She can connect with you online but prob too fragile right now for anything in the physical form..

Stick by her if you're into her the best lays ahead but be patient if she's worth it and she's who youd like to be with

[mikewnaz]

I know her in life offline

[LaurenGrace]

Yes like i say she probably feels more free and relaxed about online sex with you right now but maybe in the physical and mental sense right she probalbly feeling too fragile.. stay with her and be willing to wait

[mikewnaz]

Ok i guess just be there for her. Its probably ruined for her on a friendship level. Maybe she will want it someday and think of me. I want to date or be friends with benefits

[LaurenGrace]

she's likely wanting it down the track too. But right now she won't be in a good place to get intimate foreal. play along send dick pics when she wants to share flirt over messenger etc

[mikewnaz]

Down the track means she might want it later on down the line?

[LaurenGrace]

Yeah in the future

[mikewnaz]

Do women get horny similar times in the month? I looked she sent me these pics on August 6th and September 9th she sent me a random message wishing me a good night.

[selmo93]

Sounds like she's just wanting the confidence boost from you but not wanting to do in person

[Fokurfeelings]

Sounds like she's dealing with a personality disorder not she just happened to be super horny those times.

[mikewnaz]

I do think cancer surgery and her divorce are in her head. I know its been six months since she has got laid

[Jennyg123]

Sometimes girls just want to have fun sending pics, nothing more

[Anonymous]

Maybe she wants more than hooking up. Or at theist the option for more in the future.

[Opinion Owner]

That should say at least, not theist.

[mikewnaz]

She is more of a ltr girl i think. I dont think she is in the place mentally for a ltr now. I think we have a connection. But she is afraid of losing friendship if i bang her.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I mean there's always that option of banging now but possibly more later.

[mikewnaz]

She claims to only be a relationship girl but she isn't there since she filed divorce papers and is dealing with post cancer recovery and depression while being a mom to 3 kids. I kinda hope we could date or one day she would wake up and want to bang.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe you could suggest that. "Maybe we could be a couple one day, but for now, I could help take your mind off things and be there for you as a special friend." But maybe not as cheesy as that. Haha.

[mikewnaz]

Lol i suggested friends with benefits and she is against that as she says she is a relationship girl. Im kinda hoping one day she wakes up and wants to get laid and i pop into her head. Will her period affect this? Lol

[Opinion Owner]

Ovulation does, if she's not on birth control. But it really sounds like she must have feelings for you.

[mikewnaz]

What makes you think this... i agree but she seems down on life with cancer, outlook, and being cheated on.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, she's throwing herself at you, but doesn't want hookup sex. You said you're very close friends - usually attraction and true friendship triggers romantic feelings for women.

[Relentless_Hippie]

Why are 30yos so disgusting?