Why does he keep leaving me on open on snapchat?

[saramac190]

so I put my snapchat in my Instagram story for this one guy to see and add me and he did. we have been snapchatting but 2 days ago he left me on open and I double snapped him and he responded and whatever and then he left me on open again today and I don't know if I should stop snapping him like does he think I'm annoying or what? should I see if he snapchats me first or should I double snap?

[karoline]

Why does he keep leaving me on open on Snapchat?

This is a question that many people have asked themselves at one point or another. There can be a few different explanations for why this might be happening.

One reason could be that he is trying to string you along. This means that he is keeping you as an option, just in case something better doesn't come along. He knows that by leaving you on open, you will still be there when he wants to talk to you.

Another possibility is that he is just being careless. He might not realize that he is leaving you on open, or he might not care. Either way, it's not the best way to treat someone that you are supposedly interested in.

If you are tired of being left on open, there are a few things that you can do. First, you could try talking to him about it. Let him know that it bothers you and see what he has to say. If he doesn't have a good explanation, then you might want to reconsider whether or not you want to be with someone who is so careless.

Another option is to just ignore him when he leaves you on open. Don't respond to his messages and eventually he will get the hint. This might be the best solution if you don't want to deal with the drama of a conversation.

Whatever you decide to do, just know that you are not alone. Many people have been in your shoes and have gone through the same thing. Just remember that you deserve someone who will treat you better and who will actually care about you.

[Genie23]

He doesn't sound like he's interested to talk

[Kraftmuppen]

Hard to tell without knowing what you're talking about in the snaps. I'll personally diss people left and right if I don't really feel compelled to answer. Just like "Whatever" and move on. Only exception is if I'm super bored or really interested in the girl and even then it might just be like "meh."

But let's put it this way: He added you: Good sign. But he leaves you on opened: Relatively bad. What you gotta do is talk to him a few times. Maybe make some inside jokes and what not until he actually feels like "man, I should talk to her more and send her this and that." But you're right, don't be too needy in the beginning, wait a while longer and then send him another one if he hasn't sent you one already.

[saramac190]

we don't usually say anything in the smapchats we just send pics of our faces haha but what should I say to him?

[Kraftmuppen]

Well that kinda explains it lol. It gets pretty boring to just snap faces all the time. I know I get bored of that pretty fast at least. As for what you should say to him I don't know but you need like an actual convo so you two can get to know each other just a little. If I was the guy I'd be like "Hey wanna go to a mime convention with me? We're pretty good at that" But that's just me being me lol.

[dashaun]

dont worry he is just thinking if he should really talk to you. i hate when girls open my snap and dont snap back i never had a streak before but girls never text back it always says "read" but i always get played im loyal as hell but nobody want me so tell me what should i do? @saramac190

[spartan55]

Maybe you are sending boring content. Maybe Snapchat is really stupid?

[JesseP1nk]

Do not contant him again. Let him contact you. If he does not in next 2 weeks... then block them and forget about him.

But if he does contact you, then ask why did he left you hanging

[SeekingVirginWife]

Snapchat and Instagram users have dangerously low IQ. So you use what you get.

[Welladjustedeyes]

Depends on what you're snapping him probably