Why does he always snapchat me photos of his abs?

[taytay10133]

this guy and i used to talk everyday ( he initiated) and we would basically chat all throughout the day. he stopped texting and just snaps me now ( i think it's because we live in different states and he is waiting if/ when i ever come visit). thing is he rarely snaps me photos of anything other than his abs. i know he works out all the time and i complimented him on it before because he is trying to bulk. he was stoked about it but it's like all he sends me now? why?

[MrMysteryMan]

Sometimes us guys are idiots. We get a compliment about something about us and then we try and flaunt it for you every chance we get because we got that one compliment. Especially if it's about our bodies. Maybe how you complimented his body was a bit excitable or like, "WOW, nice abs!" or something to this effect. So now he's like, "Make sure you show the abs, she loves them." Every chance he gets LOL. Also, if he really liked, now that you're not close, he probably finds it hard to keep your interest or doesn't know how to except making sure you remember his hot bod or whatever. Some guys aren't good with long distance relationships of any kind. Kind of like, there are other guys closer to you that he can't really do anything about. So he's trying to keep you remembering something about him that you liked. I'm not sure why he stopped texting. Sometimes, it's hard to just talk through texting. You don't get a real idea of reaction to whatever you talk about or you don't get a real sense of closeness like talking on the phone would or even Skype or something. But, yeah, I think it's just that he maybe running out of things to say. Or maybe he thinks that you find it kind of cute or something that you get a daily ab text. Something different that other guys aren't doing right? And maybe better than a dick pic.

[taytay10133]

oh wow thanks! this answer is on point. you are definitely getting mho when i can:) he just snapped me again, I don't know if i want to open it😂 watch it be another ab pic lmaooo

[MrMysteryMan]

LOL. Just call him Abdonas from now on, see what he says.

[super147]

When you say that he stopped texting, was it abruptly or did it gradually tail off? I'm guessing the abs snaps kind of demonstrate his level of interest at the moment, which seems to be physical. He shares his body but not his mind, that kind of tells a story. I wonder if his interest died down when he realised that nothing erotic was happening? I mean, if he was honestly just enjoying the company and conversation then why would he let that die off, unless he literally ran out of things to talk about. Did his replies start getting shorter and shorter before he stopped messaging?

[taytay10133]

it was abrupt. we didn't text for a week then he texted me one night and we had a good convo and then not again. i get it though, ira pointless to continually talk to someone you won't see in person. i'm not mad about it at all but i just don't understand what's up with all the shirtless pics lol

[super147]

Yeah, it kind of makes him seem very one dimensional. I don't really get the whole abs pics thing. Okay, it's an achievement to have toned yourself up, no doubt, but it's not something to repeatedly celebrate and it kind of makes you seem like you have no face or brain if you can only post abs photos.

Send him 25 snaps of your left elbow xD

[taytay10133]

HAH i'm weak maybe i should!! that would be so funny

[super147]

Lol :D If he asks what's with the elbow snaps then just say "Oh, I thought we were exchanging random body parts that neither of us gives a fuck about?" xD

[taytay10133]

you are killing me

[babeeeone]

He must think you like his abs that much that you want to be flooded with pics of them. Sounds like he's trying to show off/ impress you

[underconstuxion206]

He doesn't have anything else to text you about. If he's just sending snaps of his abs, then that's too bad, if that all he has to offer you in response. Ask him questions, try to get beneath the superficial stuff like looks and body.

[DarianGraumann]

This mysterious Snapchat guy is probably either showing you progress or showing off to you what he thinks you want to see. By wanting to see its like a physical attraction/showoff thing to make you want him. Doesn't mean you actually will, but it seems that may be what he is trying.

[DougTheDingo]

Hmm. Seems fishy. It really seems like he's not interested in a serious relationship. Do you all ever talk over the phone and have you skyped to make sure he's really who he says he is?

[taytay10133]

i know he is legit like i'm positive. i'm not looking for a relationship we just casually talked but i'm curious as to why a guy would do that

[DougTheDingo]

Oh okay. My bad, I misunderstood you. I would think he probably is just looking for attention. He may be insecure. Or he may be trying to seduce you. Only two reasons I can think of.

[taytay10133]

which is most likely do you think? he has abs and super low body fat but i think he used to be overweight

[DougTheDingo]

Hmm. Has he hit on you before or tried to be sexual?

[DougTheDingo]

Sorry if that was too personal. The reason I asked was because if he did try to initiate sexual things in the past he may be trying to again in this situation. I think he moat likely just wants attention though in my opinion.

[taytay10133]

i haven't met him yet but we have talked about sexual stuff before.

[DougTheDingo]

I would say that it's for attention though still unless he says seductive things when he sends the pictures.

[taytay10133]

he doesn't. how should i proceed from here on out? just not respond to them? or what

[DougTheDingo]

If he's not saying anything at all and just sending pictures I would adress him about it. If he still doesn't reply I'd cut him out of my life.

[taytay10133]

what would i say?

[DougTheDingo]

Just be direct but not rude. Maybe something like "Hey, I've noticed that we don't talk anymore and that you only send pictures now. Do you no longer want to talk to me?"

[ADFSDF1996]

He probably thinks that women are attracted to that. If he knew that women don't get turned on by looking at men, he wouldn't be doing that.

[taytay10133]

i barely even look at it now i have seen it so much lol

[ADFSDF1996]

Exactly, maybe you should tell him that men's bodies don't turn you on, that way he'll stop.

[taytay10133]

lol they do but i don't want to see an ab photo everyday

[ADFSDF1996]

Then just tell him stop. He thinks that women get turned on/sexually aroused by looking at men's bodies. Tell him that "women aren't visual when it comes to attraction." He'll probably understand.

[Shaft50]

Because that's all he's focused on... you liked his abs at some point, so that's all he's sending. Try expressing an interest in something else, like maybe his hair, if it's good... see if that changes the pics he sends you...

[TubularMindwave]

maybe he thinks it's a way to keep you interested over a long distance.

[taytay10133]

could be

[Shawn58]

He obviously wants you to like them lol asking us why he's doing it isn't going to get you anywhere you might as well tell him to stop or either acknowledge his and if that don't work you may have to block him and explain why

[Jan1ssary_]

He wants you to make u horny and impress ya' 😎 So he thinks you will like him more if you be impressed.

[Lorenz965]

He likes you, and he thinks thats his only tool to make you like him.

[TubularMindwave]

'make' you like him? nobody makes anybody do anything

[Lorenz965]

@TubularMindwave Just a manner of speaking dude... no need to get on a politically correct rampage.

[TubularMindwave]

I need to go to bed, I'm getting a little too abrasive *_*

[taytay10133]

hahaha

[Deadpool76992]

Maybe in his head that's the only impressive part of his body as that's all he get's complimented on.

[singlebee]

Showing of to you... Cause he thinks you will like that and be sexual with him lol

[JustCallMeLeon]

Show off. Well. Better ab than d1cks pick. Right? Or not?

[LastNightmare]

it's just one of his misconception that abs attracts sexy ladies.

[Anonymous]

because he wants you to reply "mmm yum take the boxers off" and you haven't yet

[That1tallguy]

Your probably right

[TheInvisibleMan]

Because he has nothing else to offer

[taytay10133]

aw i wouldn't agree. he's a nice guy

[TheInvisibleMan]

then he feels like he has nothing else to offer

[TubularMindwave]

yeah this guy's on iy

[taytay10133]

iy? what

[cheeseNwine]

Cause u like it? Where he gets confidence from?

[taytay10133]

it's a little excessive

[cheeseNwine]

tell him he's getting fatter. thatll make him lose sleep lol

[Adigelunar]

he wants to hear some compliments

[That1tallguy]

Did you met on gag?

[taytay10133]

no! twitter lol

[That1tallguy]

That's romantic are you actually thinking about traveling to meet?

[taytay10133]

i was debating it but if we don't talk again then nah

[taytay10133]

it's only like an 8 hour drive

[That1tallguy]

I wouldn't tbh it's easy to put up a front through a screen so you never know. About the snapchating abs maybe he want to show you his progress like a befor and after if he's working on gains or is just a little to conceited

[That1tallguy]

8 hours you wouldn't find that to be a bit of a hassle? I wouldn't even want to drive more than 40 minutes at the most

[YOussefElAdl]

he want to turn you on

[Anonymous]

Might be, he loves your lips too. Lol

[taytay10133]

omg haha

[Opinion Owner]

God gave you The wonderful lips... I love it

[taytay10133]

who are you?

[Opinion Owner]

I am your future friend. Lol

[taytay10133]

what does that mean

[Opinion Owner]

Thats mean, i am your friend or not, its up to you. But i want to be your friend.

[Opinion Owner]

But i love your lips. Lol

[taytay10133]

i don't know who you are! come off anon

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, enjoy