Why does he always snapchat me photos of his abs?

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this guy and i used to talk everyday ( he initiated) and we would basically chat all throughout the day. he stopped texting and just snaps me now ( i think it's because we live in different states and he is waiting if/ when i ever come visit). thing is he rarely snaps me photos of anything other than his abs. i know he works out all the time and i complimented him on it before because he is trying to bulk. he was stoked about it but it's like all he sends me now? why?

MrMysteryMan · Accepted Answer

Sometimes us guys are idiots. We get a compliment about something about us and then we try and flaunt it for you every chance we get because we got that one compliment. Especially if it's about our bodies. Maybe how you complimented his body was a bit excitable or like, "WOW, nice abs!" or something to this effect. So now he's like, "Make sure you show the abs, she loves them." Every chance he gets LOL. Also, if he really liked, now that you're not close, he probably finds it hard to keep your interest or doesn't know how to except making sure you remember his hot bod or whatever. Some guys aren't good with long distance relationships of any kind. Kind of like, there are other guys closer to you that he can't really do anything about. So he's trying to keep you remembering something about him that you liked. I'm not sure why he stopped texting. Sometimes, it's hard to just talk through texting. You don't get a real idea of reaction to whatever you talk about or you don't get a real sense of closeness like talking on the phone would or even Skype or something. But, yeah, I think it's just that he maybe running out of things to say. Or maybe he thinks that you find it kind of cute or something that you get a daily ab text. Something different that other guys aren't doing right? And maybe better than a dick pic.

super147 · Accepted Answer

When you say that he stopped texting, was it abruptly or did it gradually tail off? I'm guessing the abs snaps kind of demonstrate his level of interest at the moment, which seems to be physical. He shares his body but not his mind, that kind of tells a story. I wonder if his interest died down when he realised that nothing erotic was happening? I mean, if he was honestly just enjoying the company and conversation then why would he let that die off, unless he literally ran out of things to talk about. Did his replies start getting shorter and shorter before he stopped messaging?

babeeeone · Accepted Answer

He must think you like his abs that much that you want to be flooded with pics of them. Sounds like he's trying to show off/ impress you

underconstuxion206 · Answer

He doesn't have anything else to text you about. If he's just sending snaps of his abs, then that's too bad, if that all he has to offer you in response. Ask him questions, try to get beneath the superficial stuff like looks and body.

DarianGraumann · Answer

This mysterious Snapchat guy is probably either showing you progress or showing off to you what he thinks you want to see. By wanting to see its like a physical attraction/showoff thing to make you want him. Doesn't mean you actually will, but it seems that may be what he is trying.

DougTheDingo · Answer

Hmm. Seems fishy. It really seems like he's not interested in a serious relationship. Do you all ever talk over the phone and have you skyped to make sure he's really who he says he is?

ADFSDF1996 · Answer

He probably thinks that women are attracted to that. If he knew that women don't get turned on by looking at men, he wouldn't be doing that.

Shaft50 · Answer

Because that's all he's focused on... you liked his abs at some point, so that's all he's sending. Try expressing an interest in something else, like maybe his hair, if it's good... see if that changes the pics he sends you...

TubularMindwave · Answer

maybe he thinks it's a way to keep you interested over a long distance.

Shawn58 · Answer

He obviously wants you to like them lol asking us why he's doing it isn't going to get you anywhere you might as well tell him to stop or either acknowledge his and if that don't work you may have to block him and explain why

Jan1ssary_ · Answer

He wants you to make u horny and impress ya' 😎 So he thinks you will like him more if you be impressed.

Lorenz965 · Answer

He likes you, and he thinks thats his only tool to make you like him.

Deadpool76992 · Answer

Maybe in his head that's the only impressive part of his body as that's all he get's complimented on.

singlebee · Answer

Showing of to you... Cause he thinks you will like that and be sexual with him lol

JustCallMeLeon · Answer

Show off. Well. Better ab than d1cks pick. Right? Or not?

LastNightmare · Answer

it's just one of his misconception that abs attracts sexy ladies.

Anonymous · Answer

because he wants you to reply "mmm yum take the boxers off" and you haven't yet

TheInvisibleMan · Answer

Because he has nothing else to offer

cheeseNwine · Answer

Cause u like it? Where he gets confidence from?

Adigelunar · Answer

he wants to hear some compliments

That1tallguy · Answer

Did you met on gag?

YOussefElAdl · Answer

he want to turn you on

Anonymous · Answer

Might be, he loves your lips too. Lol

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