When guys touch you at the club when they pass by..are the touches innocent?

[Anonymous]

for example at clubs when guys walk pass you,some of them may slightly touch your waist with their hands)not full over you tho) and seems that's just an innocent touch because they need to walk through the very crowded club.

but many people also just walk through,not touch you anything..so I'm just thinking are those small touches really innocent or they wanna hit on u?

[selfishstars]

It really depends on the person. When I'm at a bar and trying to squeeze through the crowds, sometimes I'll put my hand gently on someone's waist or back as I walk by. It's 1) to let them know someone is right behind them, so don't back up into me, 2) I'm less likely to accidentally bump into them (i.e. hit them with my elbow or my purse), and 3) if the space I have to fit through is small, it gives the person the heads up that I'm trying to get by, so generally they'll move forward a bit (if they can) to allow me by. Bars are usually quite loud, so if I say "Excuse me", people don't usually hear me, so the touch is like my physical version of "excuse me". :D

[Anonymous]

Yes and no...It depends on where and how. Really any person can walk through the club without having to put there hands on someone so it probably is flirtatious, but sometimes it just might be done to make sure you don't step back on them and knock there drink or something. And then sometimes guys walk through the club and glide their hand across your back so low that its basically on you butt...that's DEFINITELY flirting. it just depends on a number of factors, but usually I'd say yes.

[verylovelyguy]

i take advantage of how crowded it is to have physical contact with girls