Do guys normally touch your wrist or..?

[Anonymous]

Here's a little background: I've been working with this guy for 3 months. He has a girlfriend. But he's seemed (unless I'm imagining things) to be taking interest in me. He randomly flirts. And is always really nice to me

The other day I needed an order form for work that was in his back pocket, he was carrying the big heavy box and it would've been a disaster if he dropped it. So he made me get the form out of his back pocket. (I realized later that he could've just put the box down...)

And today I was counting inventory and he was just like "I'm freezing right now.." And then he kind of touched my hand and rubbed my wrist so I could feel how cold he was.

I don't know I just feel like you don't do that to someone you don't know all that well, unless maybe you like them? Or at least find them attractive?

Help me out here. Guys, under what pretenses would you pull these stunts? Girls, has it happened to you, what was your relation to he guy?

[coolbreeze]

I think he is flirting with you and he is seeing how far he can go with things. I also think he likes the way you look and he probably thinks your hot. Also pay attention to how he acts and touch you as time goes on. Next he might start hugging you instead of holding your wrists and hands.

[Asker]

He also touched my hand when he was commenting on my nail polish. The fact that he tried it twice in one night makes me think. I hope he likes me. But I don't want anything to happen as long as he's still with his girlfriend.

[coolbreeze]

So he tried to be slick and touch your hand twice in one night. Yeah I think he likes you. Him trying to touch your hand and wrist shows that he feels something for you.Maybe his girlfriend doesn't show him any attention.Yeah your right maybe if he didn't have a girlfriend then it would be different. I think he will try to touch your hand again and will flirt more with u. You seem attractive and hot to get his attention.He will do more flirty things if he really likes you.Keep an eye out for it

[Asker]

Haha I'll look out for it. I won't be seeing him this weekend :/ I'm kind of curious to see if that means he'll make even more attempts the following week. And his gf? I don't know I've never met her, but I haven't heard anything good about her from his friends.

[coolbreeze]

That sucks that you won't be seeing him this weekend. :( Maybe he will make more attempts to make up for the firting the following week. I believe he will make more attempts and now you will be paying more attention to it. Well that is bad if his friends are not saying goodt hings about his girlfriend. Maybe she isn't treating him right. Just beause a person is with somebody doesn't mean their happy. He seems to be interested in you.Also to does he also talk to you a lot about anything?

[Asker]

Yeah apparently she cheats. But they said that he doesn't believe it (assuming that they've told him). But maybe he does now and that's why he seems to like me... I don't know cause he's randomly stored talking about her. But maybe he isn't happy. :/

[Asker]

I actually might see him this weekend. I'm not working but I have to pick up a few things... But I'd only see him for 5 minutes tops.

[coolbreeze]

Wow so she cheats.I believe she does and he could be in denial about it. Maybe deep down inside he believes it but he just doesn't want to admit it to himself. That could be a reason as to why he could be taken a interest in you. Maybe he might break up with her one day and try to talk to you?You never know. Yeah I still think he isn't happy being with her.Maybe he will try to flirt with you during those 5 minutes. Pay attention on how he acts and his body language.

[Asker]

It's a possibility. He's such a sweet kid and its kind of killing me that he's with her. So even if he doesn't ask me out, I just wish him the best. So I hope he breaks up with her... Haha, I hope he doesn't think I'm trying too hard, cause when I stop by this weekend I'll be sort of dressed up. (I'm going out to dinner with a few friends) ands he's only seen me in my battered converse and jeans... This should be interesting.

[Asker]

Scratch that... With the time frame I have to meet my friends within. I won't be able to stop by. :/

[coolbreeze]

Well next time you stop by like this if it happens again get dressed up and see how he acts. If he only seen you in jeans and converse he might treat you different then when he sees you looking dress up and stuff. I hope you have fun with your friends for dinner and I believe he will flirt more this week when you see him. Lol I think he might break up with her. And I think you will be one of the first to know about it from his friends. Yeah he seems nice it does suck that he is with her.

[coolbreeze]

(continued) Maybe he might ask you out if the break up happens. You never know how these things turn out.Have fun at dinner with your friends.

[Asker]

Thanks I did have fun! ... Just found out today that I won't be working with him this week or next. But he knows my schedule. If he wanted to he could stop by.

[coolbreeze]

Your welcome and that is very good that you had fun. That sucks that you won't be working with him this week or next. :( Maybe he might stop by and surprise visit you with a visit. Time will tell. Have a nice weekend. And if he does randomlly stop by let me know what happens.

[Asker]

He didn't stop by today... But I know he told my boss he can't work Sundays, so he probably won't visit, in case my boss is there. ... But thank you and hope you're having a nice weekend as well

[coolbreeze]

Your very welcome.That sucks he didn't stop by.Well I guess you have to wait awhile until you see him again. I think maybe he might stop by randomly when your not expecting it. Yeah my weekend was alright. Just chilled and watched football games.I can't believe it will be almost Halloween. Are you going out for Halloween? I got invited to a house party and a club party by one of my friends. Haven't decided yet which one to go to.

[Asker]

He might... I'm not sure though. He doesn't seem like that kind of guy. That's cool! I'm probably not going to do anything for Halloween... We'll see. :)

[coolbreeze]

Well even though he may not seem like that type of guy. He may still stop by randomly.It's a big maybe. So when would you and him work around each other again?Lol well if you do anything for Halloween go out and have fun. :)

[Asker]

Haha everything is a big maybe. But that's life. :) uhhh I'm not sure maybe in two weeks or so. My schedule isn't made far enough in advance for me to know. And yeah, hopefully something fun comes up. :)

[coolbreeze]

Hahaha your very right and that is true what you said that everything is a big maybe and you never know how things will go. :) That is cool that you will work around him in two weeks. This will definitley show how he acts and if he really miss you or not? My predction is I think he will miss you and show you more attention and will be more flirty. Time will tell.And yes I hope something fun comes up as well :)

[Asker]

Haha now I'm just itching to work... But I have to wait. Haha. But you're right time will tell. :)

[coolbreeze]

Hahaha That is cool. :) Yeah it sucks that you have to wait awhile. But I think it's worth the wait.

[Asker]

Well... I guess it'll be another week. Thanks to the hurricane.

[coolbreeze]

Yeah that sucks about the hurricane. I hope things are allright in your area. My area got hit pretty hard. I lost power for almost a week. Well it should be interesting to see what happens that week you see him.

[Asker]

Thankfully I didn't lose power. But a lot of people in my area did. As well as a lot of flooding in surrounding areas. Hope everything is OK with you. :) ha ha I can't wait to go to work. I'm getting cabin fever with school being closed and the gas shortage.

[coolbreeze]

Yeah that sucks that school is close and that you guys have a gas shortage. But at least you don't have to do to much homework.LolI can't blame you for getting cabin fever. I was getting it for a week with no power.I did have gas to drive. I'm kind of lucky because I have so many gas stations near me. The cheapest ones had the long lines for miles. I'm glad you didn't loose power. That is good. Yeah everything is alright with me.Saturday was my B-day so I went out and had fun.Lol.

[Asker]

Happy birthday! And yeah there's gas when the trucks come but the lines are too long. It's not worth it. Just hoping there is gas and work this weekend!

[coolbreeze]

Thank you very much for the B-day message. :) Yeah that sucks about the long lines. I saw long lines at the cheap gas stations. You guys have electricity?Right. Also this storm kind of messed up thing to we got about 4-5 inches. Some prts in my state got 7-10 inches. I hope your able to work this weekend and get gas. So you still don't have school?

[Asker]

Still off haha. And yeah thankfully I have power and about 3 inches of snow... Although it looks like more.

[coolbreeze]

Hahah wow so you guys tsill don't have school? I guess it can be good or bad. But I'm glad that you have power and the inches of snow isn't to bad. The sun melted most of it away near my area. Some people still don't have power in my area.Also I hope you have a very nice weekend. :)

[Asker]

Thanks! You too! And yeah school is back on as of Friday. But our makeup days are set... And yeah I heard some people won't have power until after thanksgiving.

[coolbreeze]

Your very welcome! And that is cool that you guys have school. That sucks that you have to make up the days. But wow people still won't have power until after thanksgiving. That must be rough. So far my weekend was all right. It seems to always fly by so fast.

[Asker]

Haha I agree this weekend went by quickly!

[coolbreeze]

Haha yeah it does goes by so fast. so how is school going? Do you guys have a lot of make up work? Also did you start working again?

[Asker]

No make up work for me. A few make up days... But it's no big deal. And yup I should be working this week. And that's usually the day he works. :) ha ha I'm excited and really nervous.

[coolbreeze]

Nice that is very good that you don't have no make up work. That is cool I'm betting that he will be happy to see you again. Pay attention to how he acts.He should be happy to see you again since it's been a while.

[Asker]

Hope so. :)

[coolbreeze]

Lol I hope so to :)

[Asker]

Ok so I worked with him yesterday. By ourselves. Nothing major happened except for him reading me lines out of this book he was reading and he said "we need to see the movie"! "we"... I'm assuming he just slipped up. He couldn't have meant that. He brought up

His girlfriend a few times... I don't know it was weird. I don't get him sometimes

[coolbreeze]

Im glad you finally worked with him and by yourselfs.Nice. But yeah he does seem weird at times. The we could had meant you and him. Maybe he was fliritng. Maybe your right maybe he slipped up. Was he looking at you or checking you out? Also was he making eye contact with you when talking? But yeah bringing up the girlfriend a few times maybe he wanted to see your reaction. It has been a while since you worked around him. Maybe next time he will act different.

[Asker]

Yeah he made eye contact... But it's hard to tell with him. :/ I don't even know. Regardless, business is slowing down for the season, so the next time I'll see him will be in a month (If we get the same day)

[coolbreeze]

Yeah he seems hot and cold. But that is good that he did make eye contact. I hope buisness picks up again. That sucks that you have to wait a whole month.Maybe you and him might get the same day again. I also was curious to do guys in your school flirt or try to talk to you?

[Asker]

Yeah. They do. And their types vary from awkward geek, friend and man-whore. Haha it's kind of wierd. And I don't think any of them will workout...

[coolbreeze]

Hahaha.That is cool that they do. But wow they sure like a interesting variety of girls. Yeah it does seem weird with some of those types. I think they could work out if both people have trust and commitment. So what type of guy do you like?

[Asker]

Haha I'm not even sure. Every time I think I have a "set type". I develop a crush on a guy that's the complete opposite.

[coolbreeze]

Hahaha. There is nothing wrong with thinking you have a set type and then ending up having a crush on the complete opposite.Lol I think my taste vary to as to what type of girl I like. It really depends on the chemistry and vibe. Sometimes opposites atract each other.I tend to see a lot of couples that appear mix matched but they find ways to make it work out.

[Asker]

That's true. My friends and their boyfriends... They don't look like they go together at first glance, but they're actually perfect matches.

[coolbreeze]

Yeah lol some couples are tough to figure out from glancing at them but your right they find ways to make it work out. I see a lot of interesting matches in the mall sometimes and also when I'm out and about.

[Asker]

Lol. Those couples at the mall... I usually see a few interesting ones.

[coolbreeze]

Lol. Yeah the mall is a funny place to see that stuff. I have also seen couples like that at the movie theatres or even if I go out clubbing. I always wonder how these peopel met. I guess everybody has a story. I have also heard people say that they just know when they first meet the person that their the one. I'm like how can a person just know. It takes time to get to know somebody. And also takes time to learn their good and bad habits.

[Asker]

Very true. But one day it'll just click.

[coolbreeze]

Lol yeah your right one day it will click. So how have you classes been going? Also do you have any weekend plans?

[Asker]

Classes are going well. Random jock in one of my classes is hiring in me, ha ha nothing serious though. & Nothing much for the weekend, just meeting up with a friend today.

[coolbreeze]

Im very glad to hear that your classes are going well.HahahaLol That is so cool that a random jock guy is hitting on you.Maybe he is crushing on you.Lol.You a very nice girl.All of the guys should be flirting with you.Lol My week has been pretty good. I can't believe decmber is here. I have to try and do Christmas shopping. I did some on black Friday and things were crazy that day. Very crazy.Lol. Well happy Monday. :)

[Asker]

Aww thank you. :) ha ha thankfully I finished my Christmas shopping already. :) good luck with your shopping!

[coolbreeze]

Your very welcome. :) That is cool that you finised your shopping. And thanks I will need luck finishing up shopping.Sometimes it gets hard because I try not to be repetivie from last year. and their is only so many things to get people. On top of that I'm involed with a secret santa gift thing.It's hard to get somebody something that you don't have no idea what they like.Lol.

[Asker]

Haha my friend was saying that we should do secret Santa. Good luck with that too

[coolbreeze]

Haha.Lol well let me know if you end you doing a secret santa?I have done them in the past and their pretty fun not knowing who brought you what,etc.Sometimes I hate it when a person you don't suspect will buy you a present and you don't have oen for them because you didn't know they were buying something.That has happen a couple of times to me. I can't believe Christmas is almost here. The year is going by fast.You got any plans for new years?

[Asker]

No plans for New Years yet. And not sure about secret Santa. But.. Who knows. Currently crushing on a guy in my class. Not sure if he feels the same, it's a little vague. But most guys are...

[coolbreeze]

Nice I'm glad to hear your crushing on somebody in your class. Does he at least flirt with you or even stare at you?Also does he talk to you in class? I think sometimes guys are hard to figure out because sometimes they may seem like they like you then they don't.But having a crush is always fun.

[Asker]

I've seen him looking at me in the hall. And he's talked to me a few times in class. But it's hard to tell

[coolbreeze]

When he looks at you in the hall does he smile?And does he look at you up and down or does he just stare in your eyes?Alo when you and him talk,do you think he is flirty and does he give you compliments?You are right sometimes it is very hard to tell. But you never maybe he has a secret crush in you as well.

[Asker]

I haven't noticed him smile. But he might just think its awkward that I caught him. Idk. And no there's direct eye contact. He doesn't do the up and down "check her out" move. At least not that I've seen. Haha he's only complimented me on random things like my doodles in class. But today I pretended not to notice him walk into class and he said hi and used my name, which I've heard is a good sign. (Not sure why though). And maybe he likes me I have no idea.

[coolbreeze]

Lol. That is cool. I think our right. Some guys don't like to get caught checking out a girl. If he is checking you out up and down he probably doesn't want to get caught. I think it would be awkward moment.Lol.That is good he is complimenting you on random thigns. It shows he is looking at yo and noticing you.You sound like a good artist Lol if he is noticing your doodles. Yeah it's always a very good sign if a guy notices you or can remember your name.It seems like he notices you which is good

[Asker]

Lol. He first pounded me today caus to helped him study for this test that he did pretty well on. He also seemed impressed with my music selection. And I think he said bye to me on the way out. I don't know I had my headphones in

[coolbreeze]

Lol.Hahaha See your also a good study buddy. Your smartness helped him pass the test.Lol.That is so cool that he was impressed with your music selection.So what type of music do you like? Lol he seems to be paying more attention to you which is a good thing. Have you and him eev hung out or bump into each other outside of school?

[Asker]

Haha. Yeah it's cool. And I was listening to Mac miller. Lol. I haven't run into him outside of school. But he asked me what I was doing this weekend to which I stupidly replied "babysitting" (I am... But he could've been looking for an in. To ask me To hangout..)

[coolbreeze]

Hahaha Lol nice Mac Miller sounds cool.Lol he caught you off guard maybe he was trying to hang with ou or like you said find a way in. You were not lying when you said babysitting.At least you told the truth.Did you ask him back what were his plans for the weekend?Maybe he was trying to hangout or just be noisey.Lol.I listen to any type ofr music.I have a very diverse taste in music.

[Asker]

I didn't ask him back cause the kid in front of me was being a creep lol. So I got distracted. Hopefully he'll ask me again on Friday. And same I listen to almost anything

[coolbreeze]

Lol gotta like creepy kids.Lol just joking. But sometime kids do act like creeps. And it's easy to get distracted.Sometimes when I feel like when I talk to girls the conversation and things around me happen so fast and sometiems I forget to ask important questions that I should had asked. Anyway I hope he does ask you this week.This week is going to be a fast week because Christmas almost here.I can't believe it.

[Asker]

I know Christmas! Can't wait. And I hope I get to hang out with him over break. :)

[coolbreeze]

Yeah that would be cool if you and him get to hang out over break. This week should be a very fast week.

[Asker]

Haha I wish. This week is going by so slowly...

[coolbreeze]

Hahaha yeah lol the week almost is over and now their talking about snow.Lol.So do you really think the week is going by slowly?At least you get a big vacation break so that should be fun?Lol

[Asker]

Well for me, break I'd next week. Haha. So this week is dragging. And snow would be cool. :)

[coolbreeze]

Nice that is cool that your break is next week. Hahaha.I hope you have fun.Lol Do you still think the week is dragging? It's the weekend already. So did you get a chance to talk to your crush?Did he ask about your weekend plans again?Lol all we got yesterday was rain with strong winds.

[Asker]

Same here. No snow for us. Happy that the weekend is here... And no he didn't ask me about my weekend. :/ I said hi to him in the hallway, and he responded. And he said something to me in class but it wasn't really realavant to anything. And thanks hope you have a nice break

[coolbreeze]

That sucks that he didn't ask you about the weekend. But I guess it's good that you still talked to him before you went on break. I also hope you have a nice break as well. I can't believe that winter is here. It's defintley getting cold out.

[Asker]

Thanks and Merry Christmas! Haha it's definitely getting colder

[coolbreeze]

Thanks I hope you had a nice Christmas?My Christmas was alright I got clothes and stuff and it felt like a Sunday. I can't wait for new years and I'm hoping to have fun that day.Lol it snowed last night and now most of it melted.Are you having fun on your break?Happy new years!:)

[Asker]

Yeah.. Christmas was OK. It did kind of feel like just a Sunday... We got snow also. But just a dusting. It melted now. :/ break is good! But now I have a few reports to catch up on ha ha hope you have a good new years

[coolbreeze]

Happy New Years. :) I hope you had a happy new year's celebration?My new year's was pretty good. I went out to club/bar and had fun and now I'm still awake.Lol we got more snow and most of it didn't melt like the last time. Today is probably going to feel like a Sunday again because almost everything is going to be closed again. Other then that I hope you finish your reports. That must suck that teachers give so much work during break, Other then that happy new year's again.

[Asker]

Happy New Year. Haha I decided to just sleep through it... But it's OK because I got to see quite a few of my friends this week. :) Glad you had fun!

[coolbreeze]

Hahaha :) Lol yeah I'm glad you got a chance to see your friends. Also let me know what happens between you and your crush? Also have you worked around that guy at work recently? I also hoped you had a fun break.

[Asker]

I won't be back at work until next month they're remodeling. Haha everyone is starting all the prom madness already. So I'm thinking about dropping a hint or two in front of my crush. Fingers crossed. Lately I've just been really awkward around him... So idk

[coolbreeze]

That I good that your going back to work next month. But wow they are starting prom madness already.Lol If you are going to drop hints around him just be casual about it and also take your time and try not to be nervous. I think he should go with youif nobody else haven't ask him yet.I know how it feels to be awkward around a crush or somebody you like. You have to just be yourself and the rest should fall into place. I hope he goes with you.Good luck.

[Asker]

Yeah I'm excited for work. Haha definitely. I'm trying to be subtle and sparse with any hints, hopefully he'll put 2 and 2 together. :) and thanks.

[coolbreeze]

Im glad you being subtle and sparse with hints. I hope he can figure it out and ask you to go. You seem very nice and any guy should be happy to go with you. Yeah I know how it feels the pressure of finding a date for prom.It's a lot of presssure on to pof doing school work. Hoepfully he will get it and go with you. And your welcome.

[Asker]

Thanks again. And I hope so! Apparently my friend has a"back up" friend for me. Haha. But that honestly make me nervous because I haven't met him yet.

[coolbreeze]

Your very welcome. Hahaha so your friend has a back up friend. Very nice.Lol. But yeah it could be weird because since you haven't met him yet. It will almost be like a blind prom date.Let me know happens.

[Asker]

Well apparently I'm supposed to hangout with him before... But if it who I think it is, I'm not to sure. Lol. I'm just holding out for this guy to ask me... We'll see

[coolbreeze]

Lol he should ask you.At least I'm hoping he does and that he isn't that clueless at your hints.Lol the back up guy you hung out with him before. Nice.I really hope you get your first choice. Does your crush still talk to you in class?And how has he been acting?

[Asker]

He talks to me sometimes. I assignable if I'm talking to my friend he'll join in. But sometimes he's really quiet. Sometimes he talks to this other girl, and kind of make fun of her. You can tell he's joking, but I'm not sure if that's his way of flirting. Because he acts differently towards me. (I'm hoping that's a good thing though...)

[coolbreeze]

Im glad he is still talking to you.And also that is good that he joins in when you talk to your other friend.It shows that he is interested. Yeah I thinl when he makes fun of the other girl he probably is joking with her. I do notice that he talks different to you in a more flirting way. So I'm pretty sure it's a good thing. :)

[Asker]

Well, I'm planning on getting a little more dolled up than usual for tm. So I hope he notices haha, if not... It's whatever. :)

[coolbreeze]

Nice. I think it's good to dress up and looked dolled up.Im pretty sure he will notice if you look different. I'm also pretty sure that he probably does think your cute because he does talk to you.But even if he doesn't notices their will be other guys who will notice.Lol Dress up and get dolled up and have fun with it.I always notice if a girl looks or dresses different.I hope he does to.

[Asker]

I saw him earlier this morning and we made somewhat awkward, but prolonged eye contact. I would've said hi, but he was in a room I was walking past. And I'd already passed him once I thought that I should've at least waved. Lol. But he complimented my pen, and whatever in class's today. So I guess that's good.

[coolbreeze]

Lol it's hard to react fast when you walk past a room. True maybe you should had waved or say hi.I would had waved and kept it moving. Or I would had yelled his name to say hi and walk by.Lol. But that is cool that he complimented your pen. That means that he was at least checking you out.I hope he still goes with you.Guys are clueless sometimes. When you got dolled up did anybody notice that you looked different?

[Asker]

My friends noticed by by the time I had class with him my hair was no longer curled. Haha. But that's when I saw him by the doorway, so I guess he saw me for a fraction of a second. And today: he knows I think it's funny when he messes with my friend that sits in front of him in class. So he got my attention first and then was obnoxiously tapping on her chair. Her reaction was priceless. But I think that may be a good sign, since he knew that would make me laugh.

[coolbreeze]

That is nice.Hahaha I'm glad your friends noticed your hair looked different. I'm pretty sure he saw you even if it was for a fraction of a second. Lol yeah he probably messed with your friend in her chair to make you laugh and to get your attention.

[Asker]

Yeah... So I hope he's at least considering me as a prom date.

[coolbreeze]

Yeah I hope so to. I'm pretty sure your nice and look hot for him to not to consider you for a prom date. I told you sometimes guys don't catch on or are o slow to figure out simple things that a girl try to tell them or hint to.Im hoping that he catches on.

[Asker]

Thank you. :) I'm hoping he catches on too. Some days I feel like he might like me... When he tries to make me laugh. But other days he's quiet and I'm not so sure. Now I'm kind of used to it. It seems like his personality is kind of laid back... But once in awhile he'll be a little more outgoing around me.

[coolbreeze]

Your very welcome. :) Yeah laid back guys are hard to figure out. They are so unpredicable. From what you describe it does seem at times that he does like you. The way he acts and things he does to get your attention and make you laugh.Like you said then other times he acts quiet and maybe those can be his off days.Sometimes we have rough and stressful days. But I'm really hoping he catches on. Are the tickets expensive? Also what color dress were you thinking about wearing?

[Asker]

He's so confusing! His status update today was that he's 'probably not going to prom, due to lack of date'. So I'm not sure how to respond to that. It's awkward cause my friend commented on it and he probably knew I was hanging out with her at the time. And I think I want a purple dress... I'm not 100% certain.

[coolbreeze]

wow, why would he put that type of status up? Why would he do something so immatore like that. And what kind of comment did your friend say to hie update? Yeah it is awkward. Maybe he wanted you to respond to it.It seems like he might want a girl to chase him and ask him.But he is the one that should be doing the asking. Maybe he doesn't know how to ask.And what perfect way to ask by updating your status for the world to see. A purple dress sounds very nice.I hope you still find a date.

[Asker]

Yeah I was kind of thinking the same thing. But girls always like these status' that he posts. So he has options. I'm afraid he already knows I like him... And it would be weird of me to subtweet him or something. But I've been hinting a little with lyric quotes and stuff. Ughhhh. I wish he'd just say something though... This is so annoying. Lol

[coolbreeze]

Oh wow so girls be liking his statuses and posts?Maybe he does it for all the attention.It still doesn't mean that other girls will go to the prom with him.So you think he knows that you like him?How? True I think subtweeting him would make you look desperate.Lol so you been getting creative by using lyric quotes and stuff.I could imagine how annoying it must be if your dropping creative hints and he is playing dumb.He seems to might like the attention.He still should say something or respond.

[Asker]

I'm not completely convinced it's for attention (although that may play a part).. I feel like he might be kind of feeling things out, seeing what I respond to. But I'm

Not going to publicly tweet about prom to him. That's just embarrassing.

And idk. When I see him in the hallway we always make eyecontact. But neither of us really say hi. We freeze. And the other day he looked at me for what seemed like ever, then I looked away and he must have seen me blush. It was so

Obvious.

[coolbreeze]

True maybe he is feeling things out and maybe he wanted you to publicly respond. You could had also sent him an email in his inbox.But you are right responding to the status would had been embarrassing.Do you normally respond to his FB statuses? Lol when you see him in the hallway you can wave and smile an keep walking.Also so he looked at you for what seem like forever and he didn't wave or say hi?He can at least say something.He probably did see you blush.Do you and him still talk in class?

[Asker]

Yeah I could've inboxed him. But that terrifiEs me. Yeah we still talk a little. Usually he's just asking for help with classwork. But once in awhile he has a little story. But he's telling the group, nit just me. He still seems like he's trying to get me to laugh though. (but my teacher yelled at him last time. Haha) his statuses confuse me, but if I were to base everything on his behavior I would venture to say he likes me

[coolbreeze]

Lol don't be scared to inbox. But the only downside about it is you can't delete anything you send over. I'm glad he is still talking and still trying to make you laugh in class. I still agree with you I get that sense that he still likes you. But he seems really, really laid back. I hope he still asks you to prom. Guys should be throwing themselves at you to ask you.Lol.

[Asker]

Aww thank you. Haha. Well he sort of kind of walked me to class today. We were going in the same direction and he saw me... But I'll take it and I hope he does that whenever we have that schedule. Some kids in my class saw me with my friend a few periods before and they tried to make it sound like I was dating him. But maybe my crush will feel like he has competition now.

[coolbreeze]

Your very welcome.Haha. I'm very glad that he walked you to class.Hahaha nice I hope your crush will feel like your other friend is competition. Lol yeah it's weird how you can hang out with somebody and people assume that your dating. I think it's pretty funny.I hope he does still ask you when the time is right. Does your other friend have a prom date?

[Asker]

I hope he asks too! He's really confusing, but I think one of his last tweets were about me. So I'm kind of happy about that. And no, my friend isn't even sure if he wants to go. But I'm thinking about asking him to be my backup-friend-date. Haha. He's really awkward but it can't be that bad. :)

[coolbreeze]

Lol well I'm very glad that he is at least tweeting about you.Im happy that he is at least doing that. He does seem very confusing. It's like how many hints must you drop on him in order for him to finally figure it out. Lol I'm glad your other friend might be your back up.Hahaha your right being awkward can't be that bad.

[Asker]

Haha. Well today another guy asked who he'd be taking to prom (in front of me) and he got so awkward and tense and said he didn't know. I just tried not to look cause I knew I'd blush. They asked if he'd take some other girl in my class, he didn't answer and you could tell by the pause that he didn't seem to like that idea. I'm hoping his awkwardness meant he's thinking about asking me.

[coolbreeze]

Hahaha Wow that is crazy that the guy put him on the spot like that. See I think a part of it is that he may be shy or even scared to ask a girl.That must had caught him off guard and the guy asked in front of you.Lol maybe it wasn't meant for you to look because I bet it would had been funny to see how he reacted.I really hope as well that his awkwardness means that he is thinking about taking you instead of anybody else.When people have dates for the prom everybody wants to know and be noisy.

[Asker]

I'm hoping that's where it's going... But you might be right, he could be afraid to ask girls in general. Lol he asked for a high-five today. Kind of generic and friend-ish, but his smile. >>

Haha.

[coolbreeze]

Lol I'm hoping that is where it's going. That is cool that he gave you a high five. I agree it kind of friendish and generic. But at least he smiled.Yeah but I think he might be afraid to ask a girl out. I think a lot of guys are like that. You seem so nice and you seem like you have a very good personality.Lol all the guys should be trying to ask you to prom.lol. Hahaha

[Asker]

Aww. Thank you! I really didn't break out of my shell until junior year, and I go to a Big school... So it's a little hard to date and stuff. (At least that's my excuse, haha) I was kind of annoyed with him on Friday because I hate waiting to see if he'll make a move. It was a bit immature of me but hopefully it'll get the point across. I tweeted that "you should make a move before she's gone" it's third person so it's not to direct but I don't know maybe he'll get serious

[coolbreeze]

Your very welcome. Yeah going to a big school sounds like fun.I could imagine dating would be hard. But I'm glad that you broke out of your shell.Braking out of a shell is hard sometimes.I can't blame you for being annoyed with him.He likes to flirt and joke around alot. I think your dropping good hints.And that tweet got straight to to the point and it should get your point across. Sometimes it seems like he likes to play games. That twet should make him think more and take you more serious.

[Asker]

Haha I hope so. I kind of dropped another pretty obvious hint today... He looked right at me too an d then played it off like he was looking past me... Haha I'll take it. I'll lay low for the rest of the week. And maybe pull another crazy hint next week. I don't want to overwhelm him. He's actually really sweet. After I tweeted that. He said something like he's only afraid of himself. Hoping he gets over that soon. Haha

[coolbreeze]

Haha I can't believe he would tweet that he is only afraid of himself. And your right I hope he gets over that soon.I still think your doing very good dropping hints. Lol yeah I think laying low for a week sounds like a good idea. He does and might seem overwhelm. I still think he may be shy to ask and he might want a girl to ask him. I think in a guy's mind it's that fear of being rejected.But you have showed him lots of signs that your into him and like him.I hope he finally get it.

[Asker]

Well he's jokingly tweeted other girls about Valentine's day... But he also said since he's not Talking to anyone so he's not worrying about it. He didn't sit next to me today. And he got a piggy back from this girl who I previously didn't perceive as a threat... She's kind of dumb and I didn't think they were compatible. But I kind of think he's just into blondes.

[coolbreeze]

Wow I can't believe he would do that tweet other girls on vaentines day. So weird and imatore. Yeah he seems to like playing games.And my hunch is he is probably trying to see which girl is going to approach him and ask him out to prom. So now he is acting funny and didn't want to sit next to you. He needs to get over himself.He seems to have a big ego and seems cocky.Yeah the other girl seemed to throw herself on him.So I'm assuming that your not a blonde?Did you get any v-day cards from guys?

[Asker]

Haha no Valentine's for me. And nope brunette, tried and true. :) I don't know he's usually modest but that day he was a little off. The next day was better. He sat next to me, but we also had a test. And in front of a bunch of people in the hallway he told me to have a nice break. And for the first time I didn't get all weird and nervous. And actually replied sensibly. I just tweeted a country music video (he likes country music) and he tweeted a cheesy pick up line. Hahahaha

[coolbreeze]

Lol that is cool that your a brunette.Brunettes seem more classier then blondes.Haha. That sucks about the valentines.I use to give valentine cards to all my classmates.I guess everybody has off days. I'm very glad he is acting better. Nice that is cool he sat next to you and told you to have a nice break.Haha that is so cute you tweeted the music video.He needs to really follow through with that pick up line he tweeted you.Hahaha.That is good he is acting better.

[Asker]

Haha I definitely agree. In most cases brunette have more class. Haha I hope he follows through with his pick up line. As cheesy as it was it made me laugh, so he gets points there. I'm thinking about asking him to an upcoming concert but I don't know if it'll be weird since we barely talk outside of class. He tweets thi other girl a lot, but I think they're just friends. It seems innocent and he says he's "not really talking to anyone" as in not dating... So I guess that's good

[coolbreeze]

I hope he really follows through as well with his pick up line.Lol that is good that it made you laugh.Is the band his favorite band he likes for the concert? I don't thin kit's werid if you ask him to the concert. But the could be a 50% chance he will say no.So the risk is there. Maybe he might say yes.I think that would be a very bold move.Yeah it seems like he tries to play it safe by saying he is not really talking to anyone. I think he does that so that way he keeps options open.It does

[coolbreeze]

(Continued) sound innocent that he tweets the other girl. If it was serious then he would be saying things like love you and stuff like that. Sometimes you can pic kup on the words people use.I still hopes he asks you to prom.You seem like a very nice girl with a good personality.Sometimes guys act clueless or they try to play dumb sometimes.

[Asker]

Thanks. :) no it's actually a band made up of a few people from school. So it's not a huge concert. But it'll be cool. I know some guys are intimidated when girls do

The asking but if I don't I feel

Like he never will. But the risk... Haha. Idk.

[coolbreeze]

Your welcome :) The concert still sounds like fun even though it's a local band from school. I like to go to concerts whether it's a big band or even local bands. Yeah I agree some guys are intimadated when girls do ask.I agree to I don't think he will ask you if you don't ask first just to see what he says.Lol it's a risk either way.If you do decide to ask him let me know what happens?And if you do go let me know how the show was?IHe should go with you if you ask.Sometimes he is hard to read.

[Asker]

I will definitely let you know. I think I actually got somewhat of a read on him even though I didn't see him this week (winter break). I'm convinced that he doesn't like me (more than a friend), maybe he's considered it... I do think that he at least thinks that I'm pretty. (I get the slight raising of the eyebrows when he sees me- signifying attraction) but I don't think it's anything more than that. I think he might think we're not in the same league (since I'm a bit academic) maybe it scare

[coolbreeze]

Don't think like that.Sometimes opposites attract.If your smarter academicly then him then it could be intimidating. Some guys are intimadated by smart and cute girls like yourself.Also I do also feel that he does think your pretty and cute.Which is part of the reason I think he talks to you.He seems to laid back and he likes to play it safe and play games by talking with other girls. Part of what you say could be right that maybe he sees you as a friend and maybe he considered making a move on

[coolbreeze]

(Continued) you. He raises his eyeborw which is a sign that he thinks your cute at least. I still think he is very scared about prom and he wants girls to ask him out to prom. He seems like he likes girls to chase him.Some guys are like that. But don't give up hope. I think if you left him alone or ignored him he would try to talk to you. Let me know what happens with the concert. And I hope you can still find a prom date whether or not it's him.

[Asker]

Thanks! I really hope I have a prom date...

And yeah I'm planning in asking him a few days before the concert... I'm hoping you're right about him wanting to be chased. Haha I'm hopin if I make the first move that'll just fall into place. I'm planning on having a bunch of friends come too just so it's not as awkward... But most of my friends know I like him so hopefully they don't pull anything stupid. I mean it could work in my favor... But they're my friends so probably not.

[coolbreeze]

I hope he says yes when you ask him for the concert. Lol I think some guys do like to be chased just like girls. He seems like that type to me. If you did make the first move it would be a good risk.I think it would be anyway.I hope things fall into place.Lol so your friends know you like him?Haha I hope they don't do anything stupid to mess things up.Lol it could work in your favor. Or it can make things even more weird and awkard.lol.But the concert should be fun. :)

[Asker]

Yeah hopefully! I'm liking forward to it. I'm getting cold feet about asking him... I directly answerd his status and he replied I just liked it I didn't now how to answer. But it's not like he kept it going... So. Idk. But he made a status about how it was cool running into this girl he used to be friends with... And she's pretty and blond. So... I don't know I'm just gonna ignore it

[coolbreeze]

Well try not to get cold feet if you still do decide to ask him. Yeah sometimes it's hard to keep a conversation going if the guy write something vague like he just liked it.Maybe yo ucould had said a funny joke or something funny when he replied.Yeah the running into the blond comment sounds like he wanted attention.I bet if yo uput up a comment like that about running into a guy you use to be friends with he wouldn't like that status.Lol.How was your weekend?

[Asker]

Rainy weekend so I didn't do much... Hbu?

He seemed like he was a little mad at me today, not mad but maybe he's playing hard to get? Idk. But I saw him later in the day again and he flashed me a huge smile and said hello. So I have no idea what's going on. Haha

[coolbreeze]

Yeah the weekend sucked. It was raining so much. I went out to the mall and a flea market and it was alright. I just don't like getting drenched in the rain :( Yeah it does sound like he might be playing hard to get.Or he might even been moody. Thenlater he said hi and flashed a smile?Maybe he got over being in a bad mood. It sounds like maybe he had bad day in the begging then at the end his mood change.I hope he doesn't do this everyday to you.Your to nice of a girl to have a guy be mad at u.

[Asker]

haha thank you... all my friends are pushing for me to just ask him to prom. its scary but I might do it. I just don't know how yet

[coolbreeze]

Your very welcome. :) Lol it's still is a big decision. Sometimes friends are right and sometimes they are wrong. I can imagine how scary it is to ask a guy out to prom and to wait and see what he says. Your addrenaline will pump and yoru heart will race. It's like one of those weird scene from a movie. My advice would be to ask him only if you want to and only if you feel the timing is right.I can't really see no reason why he would say no unless if he is waiting for other girls to ask him.

[Asker]

I have a good feeling he'd say yes. I finally told my friend that sits near us in class that I want to ask him and she was all for it. But his status was"not going to embarrass myself and ask anyone" I don't know if that's a green light or not. Haha this makes me so nervous and I don't know how I'm gonna ask him

[coolbreeze]

Im hoping he says yes. And that status he puts up I assume means he is waiting for a girl to ask him.It sounds like a green light to me. Haha try not to be to nervous about it.I know it's a lot of pressure for a girl to make a big move like that. It's to bad he doesn't just ask you. You even hinted to him and showed interest in him.He seems to laid back and he seems to hold back alot. I think you will find the right moment to ask.Just take your time and go with the flow.And it should work out.

[Asker]

I ended up asking him... And I got the "I'll let you know" I asked 3 days ago, even if he said no I'd jhave so much more respect for him rn. Can't believe he's making me wait

[coolbreeze]

Wow you asked him? I know that took a lot of guts to do. I'm glad that you were bold enough to ask. Now like you said I can't believe he is making you wait that long :( I really, really hopes he says yes. He seems really cocky, and full of himself. Their really isn't nothing to think about it's a yes or no answer. The only thing I can think of is unless he is waiting to see if other girls want to go?Or he could be trying to play hard to get by having you wait?It's not fair to do that to you.

[Asker]

Once it set in that I actually ha to wait for an answer I was kind of annoyed. Especially when the answer never came. I overheard him talking to another girl in class and he said he wants to go

TO his old schools prom. Which is cool. I know he feels out of place here... I just wish he told me. He's been really nice though... It's probably still because I help him in class. But he also seems to stiffen if he ever sees me talking to

Another guy... So I'm not really sure what's happening

[coolbreeze]

:( I can't blame you for being annoyed. It just sucks that you put it all on the line and he still didn't reply.Even if he transferred schools and wants to go to his old prom, I think yo uguys at that school has been welcoming him with open arms.Especially you.You have been nothing but very nice to him.And that is good that you still act yourself around him by helping him in class.Im disappointed in him for not giving you an answer.Their really was nothing to think about. It was either a

[coolbreeze]

(Continued) yes or no answer. You made it so simple for him.And I command you for even approaching and asking him.I know for a girl to do that that took a lot of courage and guts to do. Something must be is wrong with him.If he couldn't make a simple decision or response to your question.Im glad your talking to other guys.You might have to take another date.He flirts with you and then when you ask him to prom he aqcts confused like he can't make a choice.If a girl asked me to go I would say yes.

[Anonymous]

He has a girlfriend.

These are hardly stunts.

Males are supposed to be attracted to females.

[Asker]

Does that mean he likes me? Or it's just a male - female thing.

[Opinion Owner]

It means... you're a potential mate. Keyword potential. The things he did are very normal that he'd do with anyone he was comfortable with.

[Asker]

That makes sense. :) thanks.