What does it mean when a guy refers to you and him as "us"?

[Anonymous]

[Ram0n83]

You need to take the context that it was used into account. It could be romantic, or it could just be a simple plural depending on what you and he are doing or talking about.

[Asker]

He was telling me that he had been thinking about me but didn't reach out because he didn't know if I was done with "us"

[Ram0n83]

Is he an ex?

[Asker]

No he's a friend but we have a complicated friendship... we're not platonic but we're not more than friends either, we're in an awkward stage

[Ram0n83]

It sounds like he's talking about your ties together as your friendship. That's all.

[CheckPlease]

in what context but usually that means that you two are separate from her or the others around you.

[Asker]

He was telling me that he had been thinking about me but didn't reach out because he didn't know if I was done with "us"

[CheckPlease]

so was he referring to you not wanting to start dating?
he was referring to both of you and wondering what you think of you both.

[Asker]

We have a really complicated friendship during that whole conversation he was flirting with me and insinuating that he might want more but he didn't come out and say it... so i dont know if he was just refer to us or if he was referring to "us"

[CheckPlease]

Girl he wants to go out and you know it. Don't leave it complicated either go out with him or keep him as a friend. currently it sounds like there is no us besides friendly us. Some guys won't just come out and say it cause they fear that if they do the friendship is over.

[Asker]

Okay thank you!

[CheckPlease]

glad to help

[CheckPlease]

Do you want to go out with him?

[Asker]

I do... more than anything

[CheckPlease]

Then go for his inference girl. Good luck

[JustEva]

it means he's using a plural pronoun

[Davidcruise]

it means the sex is done

[StainedClass]

That he speaks English properly.

[Zk15224]

L O V E spells love