Men Do you feel bad when you see a girl cry?

[emo-muffin]

does it make you feel bad to see her cry?

What if you were the one who caused her to cry? Would that make you feel worse?

[WaitingAtTheDoor]

I hate to make anyone cry, but if that's their reaction to something that needs to be said, I can't do anything about it.

When I broke up with my last girlfriend, she cried and cried, and it went on I guess for weeks. I'm sorry she feels that way, and I didn't want to make her cry, but she did something I do not tolerate, and she knew that when we started, and so why she wouldn't expect me to break up I don't know why.

If I see a girl crying in general, I don't really get too worked up over it. Not to sound mean, but if I don't know her, why should I get unwound? I might ask her if she needs help. And if she needs help, I'll do what I can, but it's not something that throws me off, or makes me feel emotion. My emotions are mine, and they can't be initiated by someone else.

[Money]

I don't think guys are ever happy to see a girl cry unless its the "happy crying". I know I always feel really guilty when I have been the reason for a girl to cry. However when a girl uses crying for sympathy in order for me to feel bad for her it can be annoying and upsetting. If its sincere. no normal guy is gonna feel good about it.

[emo-muffin]

Yes some chicks just "pout" to get what they want...very annoying and brat-ish

[Miss-Spicy]

Guys really don't know what to do when a girl cries. They will usually try and fix the problem which most times they can't. So they are a bit dumbfounded and tend to have this "I don't know" look on their faces until the girl stops crying.

[vivathemusic]

Haha, I think it depends on the guy, but I love how you added the part about the "I don't know" look. Its so true.

[hunglowman4you]

Yes my birthday is March 9th ,so I am the fish,... emotional and I feel bad when I see someone cry,

as for my last Girlfriend , when she cried... it made my schloong hard! lol weird isn't it?

[emo-muffin]

Lol why ? hope you didn't make her cry on purpose

[hunglowman4you]

Nooooooo I didn't make her cry like that silly! she was a redheaded freak and was very emotional basketcase,,,, R You like that? hope not...

[emo-muffin]

Lol I hope I'm not a red headed freak. I can be emational sometimes but only on bad days because I'm bipolar and ditched the meds lol

[hunglowman4you]

Wow,,,, your awesome gurl,,,, no need to have fear of taking too many meds because I am on zoloft,,, I know how you feel,,, and not having anything to do with redhair is great too.... that's means "YOUR IN !!!" :)~

[emo-muffin]

Woohoo :P I'm excited now haha

[hunglowman4you]

Kewl Ca'Ching*

now I added you to yahoo,,, what other social sites you have going on?

[emo-muffin]

Myspace,yahooanswers,Facebook,and that's it lol

[hunglowman4you]

Damn gurl .... we need to talk!

[emo-muffin]

We are talkin now but I don't think you like me anymore lol.

[hunglowman4you]

Dont beee crazy gurl.....

[hunglowman4you]

dont say that, do you wanna be my friend?

[emo-muffin]

Lol I'm everybodys friend :)

[hunglowman4you]

Kewl!! thanks!!

[emo-muffin]

Lol such a dork :P

[10MIKE01]

i feel really bad when a girl cries