Flirting or just joking?

[catj9999]

a guy said as a joke he's moving with me, is that flirting? He was also on about me bending over, and we were joking about other sexual things, is that flirting or just weird?

[SethLexer]

To think of a joke, you have to actually think about the topic of the joke first. No such thing as a genuine joke, there is always a hint of reality in jokes. The reality is that he most likely feels attracted to you and is using jokes to try to get closer to you, so basically a form of flirting.

[catj9999]

so you think he just wants sex? but then about him saying as a joke of moving with me, He wouldn't be serious about that?

[yuppthatsme]

lol I really doubt the moving in part was serious but yeah from what ur saying it sounds like he was flirting w u

[catj9999]

it was moving in with me just moving near me haha. He isn't really like that with other girls

[LGT1981]

Is this the same guy as yesterday? The guy you clearly want to bang even tho he has a girlfriend? lol

[catj9999]

yes it is

[LGT1981]

don't know why you need to keep posting about it... it was covered pretty comprehensively then lol. He has a girlfriend but you want to bonk him anyway 😛

[catj9999]

that's not the full case but still

[LGT1981]

it's the relevant part. You flirt, you're into each other and you have a burning desire to shag 👍

[catj9999]

he was also saying he'd do something for me if I did something naughty, Although that was a joke

[LGT1981]

it wasn't a joke, it was serious covered up as a joke. All the dirty sexy stuff he says is serious covered as a joke.

[catj9999]

How can you tell? And I said to his joke to go a long with it what kind of naughty things and he then said do naughty things with a guy at work who is like 60 haha

[Paris13]

Flirting, but Probably also, he has a Dirty Mind with other Such... Kind.
Good Luck. xx

[Paris13]

Welcome to Gag Town. xx

[catj9999]

thanks. He does have a dirty mind and he never says these things to other girls but he said the reason he says them to me is cause I'm common ( which is bs)

[Paris13]

He may be too Looking for a Friends with Benefits Factor with you. It appears he is comfy with you only. xx

[catj9999]

Yeah he is, he pushes me out the way and often tells me what to do

[Paris13]

I do see a Good friendship above anything else though. xx

[catj9999]

Yeah true and we'll often just stare into the others eyes

[Paris13]

Whatever you do, make sure before you Both go in Between those sheets, that you are able to Keep the Friendship. Even if you never become a Couple, at least being Friends to the Ends, will Be a good Bond for you Both. xx

[catj9999]

Yeah I guess so. but as I said in moving soon and he knows that

[Paris13]

How far away from him? You both can still keep in touch. xx

[catj9999]

2 hours. it'll be his choice as to whether we do or not

[Paris13]

2 hours is not to far and maybe you both can talk about this. xx

[catj9999]

Yeah it's not that easy thou. Cause he has a girlfriend and he says he doesn't talk to other girls whilst with someone

[Paris13]

Oh, you never said before or I would have told you to Steer Clear of him, dear, he is Taken. xx

[catj9999]

Yeah I know but I woudont really say he's in love the

[Paris13]

Hmm, still, you would not want to be in this Triangle Threesome, looking down, side to side, at the Both of them, from the Top. xx

[catj9999]

true, but I'd never cheat plus I don't think he would

[Paris13]

It's hard to say because he is already talking dirty to you. lolxx

[catj9999]

I guess, I guess time will tell

[Paris13]

Keep me posted. xx

[Paris13]

Thank you for the Vote of Confidence. xx

[Dark_Blaze]

Its just him being weird. I know flirting and that is surely not that

[catj9999]

he does tease me a lot too

[Dark_Blaze]

Most probably he just want to you know have that with you nothing else.

[catj9999]

what do u mean

[LionBill]

depends, was he trying to make you laugh?

[catj9999]

yes he always tries to make me laugh

[LionBill]

is that what he does with everyone or is it just you?

[catj9999]

hmm occasionally but not very often it's usually me. like tonight he called me name to get my attention then did something funny

[thedarknight88]

why can't i message you

[catj9999]

No idea

[thedarknight88]

are you following me

[catj9999]

I am now

[thedarknight88]

thank you by the way

[SILENTWOLF22]

it's normal... just joking. lol

[catj9999]

and we often walk into each other

[SILENTWOLF22]

ntng Wrong baby.. I don't think it's weird lol.

[catj9999]

could he just want to fuck me thou haha

[SILENTWOLF22]

what's Wrong in that? if u both agree than go n do sex. ntng can substitute sex baby. I like it 💋

[catj9999]

I won't just have sex with him thou

[catj9999]

message me then

[SILENTWOLF22]

babe

[reddysai2]

I think it's Of a weird...

[catj9999]

Why do u think it's weird

[reddysai2]

in my opinion it's weird

[catj9999]

for me and him it's normal lol

[reddysai2]

It's OK... opinions differ too

[maturedlibra]

flirting

[catj9999]

Why do you think that

[maturedlibra]

u didn't mentioned otjer things thats why why I think its flirting not joking

[catj9999]

we have a lot of other jokes and tonight when he did a couple of funny things he called my name so I would look

[maturedlibra]

hmmm now that means that its joke also u have 50/50 options

[maturedlibra]

very close between flirt and joke

[catj9999]

yeah, just by looking at each other we laugh and we sometimes just look at each other

[maturedlibra]

hmmm I understand

[catj9999]

and we do walk into each other on purpose and our hands touch the others body but that could be by accident

[maturedlibra]

so keep me update his fueher moves in my inbox from time to time may be I can give better opinion

[catj9999]

with everyone else he'll say sorry if they accidnetly touch or if they get in each other's way with me he doesn't he just laughs

[maturedlibra]

wow it means he treated you good than others

[catj9999]

does it? or he'll just have a laugh about it

[maturedlibra]

its flirting crush little love you can say not joking instead

[catj9999]

Why do you think that?

[maturedlibra]

its 4 am here and I have to sleep little I will let you in detail first thing in morning with fresh mind

[maturedlibra]

till then please wait ♥♥♥

[catj9999]

okay sounds good, thanks

[maturedlibra]

dont mind

[catj9999]

don't mind what?

[maturedlibra]

I forget why I write "don't mind" just ignore

[Anand2014]

Just weird

[catj9999]

Why is it?

[Anand2014]

He just want to masterbation that time so he told like that... After masterbation he just ignore you

[catj9999]

I don't think he was masturbating

[Anand2014]

How? Why? U don't think?

[catj9999]

Cause we were at work, so he couldn't have haha

[Anand2014]

Ha ha... then he may sext you... Want to hook up with you at night so

[catj9999]

He won't do that haha. and we were talking about dtf cause he'd never heard of that before so I said as a joke I might be, and he then was laughing and smiling and saying you might be

[Anand2014]

Then ok

[catj9999]

what?