Flirting or just being playful and sweet?

[Anonymous]

This guy touches me a lot — little things like on the shoulder, on my arm, on my hand, while he’s talking to me at work. Once we were sitting next to each other and while he’s saying something he touches me on my leg… he does this right in front of our coworkers, he’s not trying to hide it. To get my attention he’ll touch my arm/shoulder instead of just saying my name…

He remembers little things I’ve said and brings them up later, for example I told him one day I was tired and couldn’t get to sleep the night before and almost every time we’re saying goodbye after work he’ll mention something like are you gonna be able to sleep tonight or sometimes he’ll ask if I got some rest over the weekend…

When he asks me a question he’ll come over and get really close to me and once he just straight up came over and whispered something in my ear that he could’ve absolutely said out loud…

He seems to genuinely like me/care about me, and I don’t think he treats everyone else like this or at least I haven’t noticed it. And I’m trying to figure out if I’m just imagining things, if he’s just being a playful/touchy/sweet person, or if these signs are actually legitimately flirting? Because honestly I can’t tell anymore.

[DontAskMePeople]

The thing here is flirting and having that playful personality it's not just a fine line between the two... they definitely overlap in the middle and can get me in trouble sometimes 😂

[spartan55]

Oh, you mean your MARRIED BOSS? Why would you leave that little detail out I wonder?

[Asker]

Go fuck yourself, sir. And so sorry someone obviously cheated on you. Get help.

[spartan55]

Truth hurts right? Nice try dummy, no one cheated on me. I expect something like that from you. Zero critical thinking.
So why does it matter if he's flirting with you or not? (even though you know he is) Let me guess, you're just curious right?

[Asker]

Oh no one cheated on you to cause your weird fixation on my questions? Yikes! I’m surprised you’d admit that the reason you’re being an asshole is simply because you are!

If you must know, since you have no life, I’m trying to get others’ opinions to see if his behavior means anything else than harmless flirting. Can a person wonder? Is that legal? Do I have your permission, asshole?

[spartan55]

So hostile from someone with zero morals. Weird fixation on selfish people with no morals maybe? Why do you need to 'wonder about it' if you would never do anything? You are so full of it. It's obvious what you're doing, your cover story needs work though.
So you are 36 years old (supposedly) and you don't know what this guy wants, what he's after? Stop playing dumb, it's not working.

[DishLady]

Why are you letting a guy do this to you at work?

[eagle1951]

flirting