How to approach to a hot guy?

[Anonymous]

I was at my friend`s party .. and there was one very hot good-looking guy ... and then as he was standing next to the bar we had a few eye contacts and then I had a very confusing thought : Should I approach? Or should I wait for him to make the first move?

But then I thought : If I had the courage to approach how should I do that?

[Anonymous]

Next time just don't psyche yourself out. If you over-think it, you're never going to approach a hot guy. And you'll be missing out on talking and flirting and gaining experience - which is never a good thing.

Next time you see a hot guy who is alone, walk up to him, smile and say hi. Introduce yourself. Make small talk. Laugh. Smile. Maintain eye contact. Maybe get his number or give him yours if the conversation seems to be going well. Keep it light. Then part ways and go off and enjoy yourself with friends or meet other people at the bar.

Good luck.

[Asker]

Thanks a lot, it seems like a very good advice. I will try to follow it in order to start a conversation.

[Anonymous]

ok. so this opportunity was missed, for the next time around. simply just walk up to the guy and say something. anything. something about the party, people around you, what your drinking (vice versa), introduce yourself if you have nothing to say. see where it goes. from there it should be easy to talk to him. these things are really simple. just think of the guy as any other person because that's what he is. don't let the looks intimidate you. this is easy. just repeat that in your head. and you'll do great :)

[Asker]

And what if he blows me off? Next time I wouldn't have the courage to approach some other guy because I would be scared of the same thing.

[alltheabove1212]

If he blows you off he's probably a douchebag anyway. If it happens it's his loss anyway take your good conversational skills elsewhere.

[Opinion Owner]

You win some you lose some. so you def. shouldn't let it affect you. its gonna happen sooner or later. your just have to let it go and focus on the guys who are "winners"